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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all know the safest sex is not to have any BUT my biggest worry is protecting myself and others at meets. How do you fabbers approach this, condoms are great but are there other options out there for example wanting to give oral to a lady with a barrier, for the experienced swingers out there do most people play safe with strangers?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I’ve never seen anything other that condoms

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

You can get oral dams if you want a barrier for oral on a lady. Personally, I’d rather go without the oral than have to use one but it’s personal preference.

Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what other people do or don’t do, only take risks you’re happy with.

Lou x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've only ever seen condoms.

People seem to have no qualms over fingers, saliva, oral etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are dental dams or mouth condoms for this, who knew, looks like a square sheet of latex, not the sexiest but neither is an STI I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a really good point.

We use condoms for penetration. But not for oral, giving and receiving.

Maybe we are in the wrong.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Determine your own risk appetite based on your own research.

Some people are happy to have unprotected oral sex, including swallowing cum, but use condoms for any other penetration while others will use condoms or other barrier methods for all sexual activity.

Always ensure you play in a way you feel comfortable with and don’t let others pressure you into doing something you are not willing to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see some people think safe sex is just a condom yet never have any test done yet some barebacker have risky sex yet always have regular testing ... whos safer ??

i do volunteer with a mens charity and another sexual health charity when i can people seem to think condoms make them invincable so dont test yet condoms dont fully protect but we find those that go bare seems to tak there sexual health a little more seriously ...sounds bonkers dont it ... so whos safer ??

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The better protection is usually gained by a comprehensive, multi-faceted approach. This could include partner selection - fewer but regular etc, condoms and barriers, changing sexual acta, PREP anti-HIV medication, frequency of testing and whatever is right for each partner.

Brushing teeth before and after oral sex can increase risk, so some lifestyle behavioural changes will affect your risk levels. Most of us would have automatically brushed our teeth immediately before sex but this isn't the best for health.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some very good points fabbers

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"see some people think safe sex is just a condom yet never have any test done yet some barebacker have risky sex yet always have regular testing ... whos safer ??

i do volunteer with a mens charity and another sexual health charity when i can people seem to think condoms make them invincable so dont test yet condoms dont fully protect but we find those that go bare seems to tak there sexual health a little more seriously ...sounds bonkers dont it ... so whos safer ??"

There is research that shows drivers pass cylists who wear helmets much closer than cyclists with out. So it's probably a thing, people take more risks if they think they're protected.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Same with kissing, would you go without kissing to keep things safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most don't even use condoms, and certainly not anything else xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love the latex!

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always use comdoms but nothing for oral sex but get tested regular. As I am a big lover of oral and swallowing. But that is my preference and by testing I am keeping myself and others safe

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By *eesterMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"We all know the safest sex is not to have any BUT my biggest worry is protecting myself and others at meets. How do you fabbers approach this, condoms are great but are there other options out there for example wanting to give oral to a lady with a barrier, for the experienced swingers out there do most people play safe with strangers? "

Hi viz-jackets and a photo opportunity on the news work for Johnson. Why should the maskless left-behind poor or elderly blue-ditch voters do any different? Let them perish.

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