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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do both sides of cuckold couples enjoy the dynamic? Or is it that some men accept it rather than outright enjoy it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love it. It's very addictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be something you both enjoy. Why would you do it if you didn’t

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I was just curious if it was a bit more varied

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By *igg25Man
over a year ago

andover

Now this is something I’ve wanted to try

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I wouldn't play as a Hot Wife if Hubby didn't enjoy being a cuckold. We only play this way as it's what turns us both on.

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think not only do a lot of men enjoy it, I think in some or even most cases they instigate it !

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

I’ve met couples in the past as a bull and it seemed the male is more into it than the female. Like she was enjoying the sex but he really wanted the submissive element pushed further.

I suppose its different for different couples?

Flynn

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By *eachyfunCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Both of us fully enjoy it all??

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By *eachyfunCouple
over a year ago

Truro

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By *exy wife and her CuckCouple
over a year ago

Angus

As far as I'm aware both of us love it, she has never complained anyway

Don't know about others but for us it was all suggested by me (Mr) in the first place so definitely not just going along with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't play as a Hot Wife if Hubby didn't enjoy being a cuckold. We only play this way as it's what turns us both on.

Mrs N"

Are they not two separate things, cuckold and hotwife?

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By *exy wife and her CuckCouple
over a year ago

Angus


"I wouldn't play as a Hot Wife if Hubby didn't enjoy being a cuckold. We only play this way as it's what turns us both on.

Mrs N

Are they not two separate things, cuckold and hotwife?"

They can be whatever you want them to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve had some private messages saying that their dynamic is not quite as even in terms of enjoyment.

I have no experience with any of it, but it’s interesting to hear different perspectives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As far as I'm aware both of us love it, she has never complained anyway

Don't know about others but for us it was all suggested by me (Mr) in the first place so definitely not just going along with it. "

Same as us i encourage S to see other guys, i don't mind one bit and she loves it, she is out this evening with a lad, i don't have any involvement, just check a few things make sure they are not a dick oh and don't use the C word things could come to a halt real fast, lol.

plus if a young lady ever wanted an evening with a nice older gent, well it wouldn't be fare for S to say no, i can dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much live it equally xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very much live it equally xx"

Love **

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

speaking as hubby i love it, works really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I as the male half love seeing her have pleasure with other guys. I know if she didn't enjoy it she wouldn't do it and vice versa . For it to work both need to be happy and enjoy it .

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By *ikeymMan
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

A big part of it for us is I make out I don’t like it but really love watching her being enjoyed. Would never play though unless I knew she enjoyed it also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching and hearing about my Mrs when she’s been with someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I as the male half love seeing her have pleasure with other guys. I know if she didn't enjoy it she wouldn't do it and vice versa . For it to work both need to be happy and enjoy it ."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s interesting , on this thread everyone seems to agree, but then I get a few messages from couples how say it’s a little different.

Is it maybe a kind of universal guideline that any swinger activity with a couple needs to be fully enjoyed by both to be healthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are couples out there swinging and others kinks including cuckold where its male pushed where the fem really wants nothing to do with it ..you see it in clubs often pushy husbands and wives making the other do it .... they are out there you will see them avoid at all cost as the real thing is very much a joint thing not a bullied into it thing

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By *exy wife and her CuckCouple
over a year ago

Angus


"As far as I'm aware both of us love it, she has never complained anyway

Don't know about others but for us it was all suggested by me (Mr) in the first place so definitely not just going along with it.

Same as us i encourage S to see other guys, i don't mind one bit and she loves it, she is out this evening with a lad, i don't have any involvement, just check a few things make sure they are not a dick oh and don't use the C word things could come to a halt real fast, lol.

plus if a young lady ever wanted an evening with a nice older gent, well it wouldn't be fare for S to say no, i can dream. "

Noooo, not the same as us then. I can't do her going out alone with someone, even the thought makes me insanely jealous and a whole host of other emotions.

If a young lady wanted to have an evening with an older gent she would have to look elsewhere here as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems to be more rare for it to be female pushed then. It seems like it’s generally the make half that wants it first a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I’ve been a cuck in the past I used to enjoy seeing how much pleasure my partner got from being with a man who was able to satisfy her as I was unable to. Sometimes I was allowed to join in with them in some way which I would love. There was an element of frustration when I was watching as I wished I was able to satisfy her like the bull could but overall I would enjoy the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that most men enjoy it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As far as I'm aware both of us love it, she has never complained anyway

Don't know about others but for us it was all suggested by me (Mr) in the first place so definitely not just going along with it.

Same as us i encourage S to see other guys, i don't mind one bit and she loves it, she is out this evening with a lad, i don't have any involvement, just check a few things make sure they are not a dick oh and don't use the C word things could come to a halt real fast, lol.

plus if a young lady ever wanted an evening with a nice older gent, well it wouldn't be fare for S to say no, i can dream.

Noooo, not the same as us then. I can't do her going out alone with someone, even the thought makes me insanely jealous and a whole host of other emotions.

If a young lady wanted to have an evening with an older gent she would have to look elsewhere here as well "

to be fair mate she has a much higher sex drive than me, i'm more a cigar at xmas kind of of guy. we do rarely meet couples and used to visit clubs, but i'm a bit not so keen these days. plus neither of us are bi so that can cut couples meets down a bit. S tends to get more interest from couples than myself, which can be awkward.

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By *ubmissive Cuckold CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nothing better than seeing another man sexually satisfy your wife in only ways you can dream of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing better than seeing another man sexually satisfy your wife in only ways you can dream of."
totally agree,

Love watching her,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant wait for it to happen

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

Anyone intrested looking for a fella for cuckold feel free to get in touch

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I have loved being a cuck and I'm grateful that I've had partners who have also enjoyed this dynamic.

I did once chat to another cuck who told me that he wished that he didn't feel the way he did about the hotwife/cuckold dynamic but he couldn't help himself!

Mike

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We both enjoy it although it did take awhile at the start for my cuck to accept it.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

we both enjoy it my cuck knows his place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it took a while for him to get into it ? He struggled at first ?

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By *lirtypairCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We love the cuckold dynamic. It works well for both of us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the cuckhold couples I have been with mostly they do enjoy it

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Love the cockhold dynamic too, especially when both in the couple are enjoying it, cuckhold couple invites welcomed.

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Definitely both enjoy jointly ….

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By *j20012002Couple
over a year ago

sarisbury ish

I love to watch my hubby fuck other women . Only done clubs so far but thinking a private meet is in order soon ??

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Hot couple I regularly serve are both 100% into it win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i want her too, shes just abit shy

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We both deffo love the cuckold fun

He is a very happy cage cuck.xxx

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By *arlly83Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow

I the male half suggested it as the thought really turned me on and the Mrs wasn't going to complain about getting a shag of someone else she fancies

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By *eachcplCouple
over a year ago

blackpool/preston/normandy france

We both love situation. Both getting pleasure in different ways. As the female I am being pleasured by someone different and love that feeling and he loves seeing me with someone else before he has me after. It's what we both want and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im Always available if any couple needs a respectful guy

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It’s interesting , on this thread everyone seems to agree, but then I get a few messages from couples how say it’s a little different.

Is it maybe a kind of universal guideline that any swinger activity with a couple needs to be fully enjoyed by both to be healthy. "

Definitely a universal guideline - if one half of a couple isn’t enjoying swinging activities but still participating in them, it really suggests coercion and abuse is happening.

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By *randMrsDirtyGCouple
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAM

Massive difference between a hot wife and a cuckold we would say.

Not everyone with a hot wife who is willing to share is a cuck

As a man in this lifestyle it’s a pleasure to know that other men find your partner sexy / hot

However from a wife point (me) I find it a huge turn in to watch my husband fucking too and easily sit watch and play until asked to join xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want watch dvp sex video. Anyone couple shared video

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By *ew_to_it_2018Couple
over a year ago

wigan atea

We love to watch each other. Something really horny about watching across the room..

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

For the men who love to watch their woman with another Man.. is their anything in particular they like to watch .. would love to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not try before dvp. My big fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do both sides of cuckold couples enjoy the dynamic? Or is it that some men accept it rather than outright enjoy it ? "

Both must enjoy the lifestyle otherwise it's not gonna work!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very addictive for us|!!!

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By *ikeymMan
over a year ago

Isle of Wight

Love the eye contact in particular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both love it

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would be very sad if I met a cuckold couple and realised one or other partner had been coerced into playing. For me I want the cuck to enjoy it just as much as the hotwife.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

There was another cuck thread today I commented on this point - i'm looking for cuckold couples but only ones where both partners are equally invested in it

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

For me it has to be driven by the female, my only involvement is to ensure Jojo’s safety. Who she meets, where, the frequency is all part of the helpless nature of being a cuckold. Example, she is meeting a new chap for a coffee Wednesday, I know they are texting (a lot) as I hear her phone going constantly. I know roughly where the pub is but that’s it. He hasn’t looked at my profile, messaged me or even asked about me. This to me is true Cuckolding, plus she locked me in chastity Sunday so I can’t even touch myself!

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By *rssexy mrbitvCouple
over a year ago

Antrim

We both love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are couples out there swinging and others kinks including cuckold where its male pushed where the fem really wants nothing to do with it ..you see it in clubs often pushy husbands and wives making the other do it .... they are out there you will see them avoid at all cost as the real thing is very much a joint thing not a bullied into it thing"

This is so very true which I have unfortunately found out to my peril.

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yea it’s important for us that we both enjoy the experience, wouldn’t work for us otherwise

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Both enjoy the cuckolding

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

We both love it very much plus I get more sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we both love it especially now that she has a regular boyfriend

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By *aysLegs2020Couple
over a year ago

Peak District


"I think not only do a lot of men enjoy it, I think in some or even most cases they instigate it !"

Thats definitely the case with us

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By *pexKinksterMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Any cuckold couples here do overnight stays I'd love to hear about bulls coming over and staying the night

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By *uckyFarmersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Both of us..

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By *udley hotwife86Couple
over a year ago

DUDLEY


"I think not only do a lot of men enjoy it, I think in some or even most cases they instigate it !

Thats definitely the case with us "

Same here I actively encourage kath

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I love watching Mr with another woman with no involvement from me, and I’m pretty sure I instigated that! Definitely no complaints from Mr on that one haha. Someone else mentioned above about seeing male driven couples in clubs, we’ve come across this quite a bit recently, one lady we were chatting to told us she really didn’t want to do what he wanted her to do, but did it anyway! Miss pc

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

I need this in my life

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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We both love cuckold play, sometimes I get to watch, sometimes I have to stay outside the room and sometimes I have to drop my wife at a hotel and then go home and wait for a text the next morning to pick her up

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By *K-Cuck-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes agreed and also it’s the build up to the meet with the guy telling us what Jess has to wear

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral


"We both love cuckold play, sometimes I get to watch, sometimes I have to stay outside the room and sometimes I have to drop my wife at a hotel and then go home and wait for a text the next morning to pick her up"

You lucky cucky

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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"Yes agreed and also it’s the build up to the meet with the guy telling us what Jess has to wear "

Oh yes my wife takes me shopping for lingerie that the bull has requested and I have to pay for them but never get to fully enjoy them

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell


"Oh yes my wife takes me shopping for lingerie that the bull has requested and I have to pay for them but never get to fully enjoy them"

The husband of the hotwife who I visited on-and-off for three years used to buy her outfits - lingerie, stockings, boots and shoes - including a pair of 'stripper heels' - which she and I would 'christen' before he even got to see her in them...

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By *eservesherCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We're very new still but definitely both enjoy it!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"We're very new still but definitely both enjoy it! "
That's great to hear and good to see your first experience went well. That can really make a difference when starting off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We absolutely adore all scenarios of cuckold and hot wifing

S x

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By *w_cuckCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire


"We're very new still but definitely both enjoy it! "

You should try the Bmfc bulls night at xtasia

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