FabSwingers.com forum: Give a man a chance

By *rivervader OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

Are there any ladies that would give a bloke a chance without a veri because not having any luck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you find you aren't having much 'luck' because of the veri situation, could you try and get into the cam rooms and have a chat with people, and gain a veri that way? (obviously my comment is null and void if you are not able to do so / no cam etc.. but it's just a suggestion)

lots of people are willing to help with this.. just ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s even people willing to help on this thread -

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/1217969

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

"Are there any ladies that would give a bloke a chance without a veri because not having any luck?"

Why not just go to a club? You'll easily get a proper verification that way.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I've had socials with guys that aren't verified. They've proved to me who they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met guys with no verifications. I go with my gut instinct when chatting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve met guys with no verifications. I go with my gut instinct when chatting xx"

Good for you lady

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

We couldn't careless about verifications, we judge guys on our intereactions with them.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I meet unverified people but only if they match what I am looking for, have an interesting profile and have exchanged a few exciting messages which have left me wanting to know more about that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We couldn't careless about verifications, we judge guys on our intereactions with them."

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Verifications really aren't that important. They are there to prove you are who you claim to be.

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

Your in the majority looking for the minority you have to stand out from the rest a photo of a guy in a high viz in a van would to us just blend in, look at it on the side of those you want to meet!

Just imagine we want a guy she's looking forward to a bloody good session she gets bathed dressed up we talk about her with 2 cocks she's randy gagging and the guy you've invited doesn't turn up (again) or he turns up bit can't get it up,

So it's a viscous circle really, guys without verification by meeting are a bigger risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet unverified people but only if they match what I am looking for, have an interesting profile and have exchanged a few exciting messages which have left me wanting to know more about that person."

This^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone was unverified at one point. I wonder who the first person on here to get one was, like Adam and Eve, every shag since has been linked to them

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP you have only been here 3 months, that's not long in Fab terms.

Verification won't get you a meet, though it might help.

You need to remember that men are hugely in the majority, meaning that women have oodles of choice.

Most women are looking for a decent message and a profile that sparks their interest. Is your message and profile going to make you stand out from all the others? If your answer is "no", what can you fo to change that?

Failing that you need to get out to socials and clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you have only been here 3 months, that's not long in Fab terms.

Verification won't get you a meet, though it might help.

You need to remember that men are hugely in the majority, meaning that women have oodles of choice.

Failing that you need to get out to socials and clubs. "

This

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"OP you have only been here 3 months, that's not long in Fab terms.

Verification won't get you a meet, though it might help.

You need to remember that men are hugely in the majority, meaning that women have oodles of choice.

Failing that you need to get out to socials and clubs. "

She's right. I was going to say the same but beaten to it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid."

I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.

I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..

You're looking for a meet!

I thought you were looking for a fight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about trying a club where you will meet people there and potentially make friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chill go with the flow stuff ain’t instant even more so now, you will still be live n kicking when it happens. Been here before n now no versis just another day!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.

I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..

You're looking for a meet!

I thought you were looking for a fight

Thanks for the tip, I’ll try a different profile pic

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I've also met guys who haven't lived up to their veris...

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.

I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..

That can also put people off, there's a fine line...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.

I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..

That can also put people off, there's a fine line..."

I had this conversation with a female friend just last night, who said similar, although I did put the case of two guys local to me who seem to be at the top of the popularity ladder right now, and are posting veri after veri…….?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

You asked for profile advice a while back and from what I can see there’s been no change to your pics and bio, so that will mean that you are not going to change your ‘luck’ on here.

Your luck will be much more successful if you try and stand out…whilst wearing a hi-vis jacket does make you stand out, it’s not the right way for FAB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've also met guys who haven't lived up to their veris... "

Veris mean nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed with the lady above saying she would do a web veris !!!!!! Just to show!!!!!

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid.

I couldn’t agree more, as even having a well-verified profile these days doesn’t seem to help…..

You're looking for a meet!

I thought you were looking for a fight

Thanks for the tip, I’ll try a different profile pic

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There’s something you have written in your profile that won’t help you one bit. I mean one picture of your chin may turn some women on but you’ll be lucky to find her on this site.

It’s writing that you never know what to write here.

What do you think women (the very few on the site) are looking for in a man ?

There’s plenty of ‘you’ on this site, the guys with the one picture, who don’t know what to write. If the women are looking for that, it’s easy to find.

What’s harder for them is finding the guy who ‘does’ know what to write and is imaginative with it and the photos he displays.

Be one of the majority or be unique and interesting, that’s your decision to make on the site.

P.S please don’t be one of those guys who make excuses, there’s plenty of ‘advice threads’ some good bits of advice on your thread already. Plus you can always look at other guys profiles and get some ideas.

So it’s down to you, but at the moment I agree with your status

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

OP, keep it to the thread, sending 'pity me' messages is highly unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We couldn't careless about verifications, we judge guys on our intereactions with them."

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"We couldn't careless about verifications, we judge guys on our intereactions with them."
Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to a club. It’s the easiest way

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Maybe try and get your wife involved as you may fair a bit better. Worth shot instead of seeking sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get to a club. It’s the easiest way

Exactly clubs are open if you want to meet other swingers then go to clubs and socials

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By *rivervader OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

"Plenty of ways to get verified but that alone won't get you laid."

Why slag somebody off then block them so they can’t send message back childish

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By *rivervader OP Man
over a year ago

bolton

"Maybe try and get your wife involved as you may fair a bit better. Worth shot instead of seeking sympathy."

I’m not after sympathy at all just to get a polite no thanx or even a reply that’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there any ladies that would give a bloke a chance without a veri because not having any luck?"

I have done before and I would do again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go off how we feel and gut instinct.. verifications are not always a key factor....single males is very competitive on any swinging site for meets, because of the numbers of them.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Are there any ladies that would give a bloke a chance without a veri because not having any luck?"

Yes, if he met our profile and we met his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try and get your wife involved as you may fair a bit better. Worth shot instead of seeking sympathy.

I’m not after sympathy at all just to get a polite no thanx or even a reply that’s all"

Women on here get bombarded with mails off men don’t take it to heart if you don’t hear back we all go through that !

If you dwell on that shit you won’t enjoy this place try not take it so personal !

Best of luck OP

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Get to a club. It’s the easiest way

It’s easy (for some) to get to a club, but meeting single women in one is rare

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