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"3sm not always male ffm" thanks, same question then! | |||
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"Whether it is m or f, we like to arrange in advance as we are picky and the quality of single (blokes especially) is very questionable at clubs, well in our experience anyway." Yes indeed and thats why part of the question was about having a regular candidate, ie someone you already know who you trust and get on with. | |||
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"Whether it is m or f, we like to arrange in advance as we are picky and the quality of single (blokes especially) is very questionable at clubs, well in our experience anyway. Yes indeed and thats why part of the question was about having a regular candidate, ie someone you already know who you trust and get on with." Just our experience and this goes for both couples and singles we meet, word of mouth and fab network seems most reliable x | |||
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"We don't manage regular what with work life and kids etc. However when we're looking we put a meet post or status out and see who gets in touch and who floats our boat (so to speak.) We have one guy we've met multiple times others have been one offs." I would imagine thats a good mix having a regular as well as occasional one off's, thanks | |||
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"With the friends we play with, its pretty much how you would arrange a vanilla thing with any friends. Meaning sometimes we’ll arrange to go for food or drinks on the weekend and see what mood we’re all in, other times we’ve invited them to ours a few days before specifically for sex. And a little more often maybe a last minute thing, invite them around in the evening when we’re in the mood. " Lovely to have friends like that I would imagine, stay lucky xx | |||
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"Only had one three sum arranged via here and it was a meet request. Two guys were a yes but let us down on the day so we arranged it via a last minute status update and one of my friends list came to the rescue. " Good old friends list, I bet you made their day (or night), the two guys lucked out, their loss. | |||
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"We have a bit of a mixture. Clubs aren't really an option for us, so we tend to keep our mailbox open to single guys and after dealing with the idiots, we find one or two each week that we agree to keep on our saved folder. We then try and arrange meets with about a week notice - Char's health issues means she needs to plan time before and after a meet to rest, so last minute things are very rare. We do find that half of them don't turn up though. Of those that do turn up, we've not NOT played on a first meet. And some of them we've got on well enough with to invite back a few times and three of them visit Char while I'm at work. So very much a mix of one-offs and semi-regulars." Sounds like you've got it sorted, hope Char can get the rest she needs without too much of a problem. Take care xx | |||
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"Been trying to find the right match for ages but with lockdowns and the usual bullshiters on here we ain’t done it yet "You will get there I'm sure as I will one day I hope. Good luck | |||
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"A lady friend of ours joined for our threesome and we hope we get to do that with her again very soon. I know that isn't quite what you were asking. I just wanted to be smug. "Good for you, I hope so too, let me know, send me some photo's lol | |||
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"Got a regular girl we message if we get the time for some extra fun but not got a regular guy tried but they are too needy in our experience xxx" There will be a guy who fits the bill out there somewhere, I just wish it could be me lol, happy fabbing.... | |||
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"Clubs mostly, but is one guy we contact if wiggles is horny but no club" Lovely jubbly xx | |||
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"As a couple, we are not interested in having an extra male join us for a 3sum. Wife only wants a lady to join us (she bi and loves being a cuckquean ). Sadly never found a regular lady willing to join us so mostly only ever met other couples (which we also enjoy). On my own though...yeah I've been the extra guy and always enjoyed myself when I have been. What was the question again? Got lost in happy thoughts there " Happy thoughts, I have some of those myself. Hang on to them!! | |||
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"Best way to get a Single Man for a MMF is to reach out to someone you've already met at a Club/party or go to a club. As a rule if we're talking to a guy on Fab if we don't meet him that first Day we talk to him or the Day after.Then the chances of him turning up are drastically reduced. When we first started out on fab we wanted to talk to people for a week before we met them but the way we want to do things and the way we get results are not the same we find. Off the top of my head think we've had about 7/8 different single guys turn up out of arranging about 25 meets. And some of the guys who have let us down have got 10 plus verifications. Oh and we do find the younger they are the more likely they are to let you down. Because the girlfriend puts so much effort into tidying up the house and getting herself ready for a meet. Nowadays we arrange meets for a Saturday evening and if we get stood up we just go straight onto a club. So the girlfriend hasn't got ready for nothing." Good thinking about the Saturday night arrangement-just wonder why any bloke would turn such an opportunity down, timewasters. Thanks for sharing that, take carexx | |||
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"New to this but looking forward to the experience ??" Would be happy to oblige but I am a little outside your age range though xx | |||
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"We need more couples like that in Wigan I can't find anything haha" There will be my friend, just be patient! | |||
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"Got a regular girl we message if we get the time for some extra fun but not got a regular guy tried but they are too needy in our experience xxx" In what way do they come across needy in your experience? I’ve always gone into a mfm with the outlook that each have their own needs and we are all there to fulfill those needs and have fun | |||
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"We prefer clubs we just go and have fun and if a guy we like the look of approaches us we invite him to join us. " That's exactly why we prefer clubs too | |||
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"We prefer clubs we just go and have fun and if a guy we like the look of approaches us we invite him to join us. That's exactly why we prefer clubs too " Thats good, saves a lot of guesswork on whether people will turn up for a meet or not, thanks for your input. | |||
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