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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else seen a profile that looks too good to message?

I have a sexy girl on my hotlist and wasn't sure if I should message, after deciding to pluck up the courage to I have just had a gorgeous reply with a stunning face pic.

If someone is on your mind, now is the time to tell them!!

Go for it and report back with how you got on.

Ready, set, go go go!!

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

over younder


"Has anyone else seen a profile that looks too good to message?

I have a sexy girl on my hotlist and wasn't sure if I should message, after deciding to pluck up the courage to I have just had a gorgeous reply with a stunning face pic.

If someone is on your mind, now is the time to tell them!!

Go for it and report back with how you got on.

Ready, set, go go go!! "

Definitely go for it...sure the worse they can say is no thanks

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By *andicootboneMan
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon

50 no's and 1 yes is still a yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never been in that situation to be honest, if I like a profile and meet their criteria then I send them a message, I don’t normally get a reply though....

I’m glad it worked out well for you in the end. You look amazing so I don’t know why you would worry about messaging anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else seen a profile that looks too good to message?

I have a sexy girl on my hotlist and wasn't sure if I should message, after deciding to pluck up the courage to I have just had a gorgeous reply with a stunning face pic.

If someone is on your mind, now is the time to tell them!!

Go for it and report back with how you got on.

Ready, set, go go go!! "

You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take!

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

All the time. I tend to self censor. Most women don't reply (and I understand why), so the super intimidatingly hot ones are less likely as they are more inundated with messages.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never been in that situation to be honest, if I like a profile and meet their criteria then I send them a message, I don’t normally get a reply though....

I’m glad it worked out well for you in the end. You look amazing so I don’t know why you would worry about messaging anyone."

Thankyou that's a lovely compliment, you would be surprised how many messages I send go unread or just get deleted.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

The OP is very hot.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The OP is very hot.

Just saying. "

Thanks hun! You are my favourite man xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely go for it lol xxx

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

Kent

I am often far too shy and not confident in myself to message. I'll often start writing....... Then delete and run away haha

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent


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Thankyou that's a lovely compliment, you would be surprised how many messages I send go unread or just get deleted. "

Crikey!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am often far too shy and not confident in myself to message. I'll often start writing....... Then delete and run away haha"

Go for it, what have you got to lose. Worst case scenario is nothing back but you never know until you try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am often far too shy and not confident in myself to message. I'll often start writing....... Then delete and run away haha"

I'm exactly the same mate.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"The OP is very hot.

Just saying.

Thanks hun! You are my favourite man xx"

Awww. Ta luv.

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

Kent


"I am often far too shy and not confident in myself to message. I'll often start writing....... Then delete and run away haha

Go for it, what have you got to lose. Worst case scenario is nothing back but you never know until you try x"

I'll be brave and put my big boy pants on one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone should shoot their shot and message who they like!

You have nothing to lose! Rejection isn’t all that bad! Life’s too short.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Exactly the same! So many couples that we perceive to be "out of our league" so we don't message. And so many single women that I (Char) would love to message but don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never been in that situation to be honest, if I like a profile and meet their criteria then I send them a message, I don’t normally get a reply though....

I’m glad it worked out well for you in the end. You look amazing so I don’t know why you would worry about messaging anyone.

Thankyou that's a lovely compliment, you would be surprised how many messages I send go unread or just get deleted. "

You are a sexy looking girl too xx go for it x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not shy when it comes to shooting my shot! I am often ignored or rejected but I don't tend to get abuse in response - they're normally very nice rejections.

Surely everyone likes to feel desired, even if it's by someone you don't fancy?

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By *iss_Cali_xxCouple
over a year ago

Herne Bay


"I am often far too shy and not confident in myself to message. I'll often start writing....... Then delete and run away haha"

I relate so hard to this! The amount of times I end up not sending the message. Think I've sent 2 unsolicited messages since I've been on the site lol

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By *neakypeaky30Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Thought the exact same thing a while back.....still hasn't read it yet. It's only been 3 weeks. Fingers croossed eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’ve only the one on my Hotlist and have a message that says “Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user - Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex”. This does not deter me in my thinking that she is by far the sexiest lady on whole of fabswingers. She remains on my hotlist irrespective of the unlikelihood of us ever meeting each others acquaintance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I’ve only the one on my Hotlist and have a message that says “Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user - Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex”. This does not deter me in my thinking that she is by far the sexiest lady on whole of fabswingers. She remains on my hotlist irrespective of the unlikelihood of us ever meeting each others acquaintance."

Fingers crossed that the users preferences change in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not shy when it comes to shooting my shot! I am often ignored or rejected but I don't tend to get abuse in response - they're normally very nice rejections.

Surely everyone likes to feel desired, even if it's by someone you don't fancy?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do that all the time.......

Good into a profiles, couple, notice they are both stunning, then back straight out and run for the hills!!!!

xx

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

All the time. I’ll open a profile, like a few pics. Read the profile and then think I’ll go about my day and not bother them because they’ve surely got a million other messages so mine will get lost in there somewhere.

I somehow hope they notice me visiting the profile / liking their pics and return the favour. Only then will I send a message.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I had plenty of that where I look at someone's profile and go "no way she/they will message me back" but one lady I really have been keeping my eye on just recently message me back and we have been talking and finally meeting for a drink this week hopefully. Definitely can't wait

Will update on the day if it went well or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had plenty of that where I look at someone's profile and go "no way she/they will message me back" but one lady I really have been keeping my eye on just recently message me back and we have been talking and finally meeting for a drink this week hopefully. Definitely can't wait

Will update on the day if it went well or not "

Well done you, fingers crossed drinks go well x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any more people who have messaged those they have admired but not contacted before? Tell us your experiences xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else seen a profile that looks too good to message?

I have a sexy girl on my hotlist and wasn't sure if I should message, after deciding to pluck up the courage to I have just had a gorgeous reply with a stunning face pic.

If someone is on your mind, now is the time to tell them!!

Go for it and report back with how you got on.

Ready, set, go go go!! "

So so many I just don’t have the balls to contact

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I have had many ‘ too good to be true’ moments on here over the years and 90% of the time they turn out to be fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We do that all the time.......

Good into a profiles, couple, notice they are both stunning, then back straight out and run for the hills!!!!

xx"

This is me !!! I look and I’m like - oh god no way they are amazing ….. and just perv from the sidelines lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one on my hotlist at the moment that I can’t help but drool over (infact there’s 3 that I do that too lol) but this one is local.

His profile says to wink if interested so I sent a wink and didn’t get one back.

I knew I wouldn’t but thought I would try anyway

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"This is me !!! I look and I’m like - oh god no way they are amazing ….. and just perv from the sidelines lol"

And the daft thing is, we looked at your profile and immediately thought "waaaaay out of our league"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is me !!! I look and I’m like - oh god no way they are amazing ….. and just perv from the sidelines lol

And the daft thing is, we looked at your profile and immediately thought "waaaaay out of our league"!"

Oh my god really??? That’s so up the wall isn’t it ! Just goes to show doesn’t it !

Message us !!!!

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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago

Kent


"Any more people who have messaged those they have admired but not contacted before? Tell us your experiences xx"

Not just yet. People are too hot. I get intimidated haha

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