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Do many ladies find married men an acceptable challenge?

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By *ornyandaching OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I know this is a swinging site so it kind of goes without saying..but out of curiousity how many ladies prefer meeting a married fella by himself compared with meeting the couple?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Meeting a couple is a different experience to meeting a man so hard to compare. Meeting a man you don't know whether he's married or not unless he tells you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet a married man if he was playing away as I don’t want to get involved with that. I don’t want to play with someone else’s partner, doesn’t sit well with me but I’m sure many don’t mind.

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By *ed AstaireWoman
over a year ago

Lancaster


"I wouldn’t meet a married man if he was playing away as I don’t want to get involved with that. I don’t want to play with someone else’s partner, doesn’t sit well with me but I’m sure many don’t mind. "

Ditto.. I've too much respect for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t say I “prefer” married men. But I do enjoy meeting them and it turns me on in a different way to meeting a single man. It’s very naughty and men who are attached tend to be a lot more passionate and well rounded.

I definitely won’t fall for a married man, I can quite easily separate sex and emotions, so maybe that’s why I’m comfortable with the idea. I’m sure this response will not be what most people believe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single I had a huge thing for married men, something about their wedding rings turned me on, however and there is one before anyone thinks I'm evil, I never actually had sex with one (not knowinly), I had dinner with a rather charming old forumite about six years ago now).

And yes now my husband goes off with other women but that's a different kettle of fish because I know about it.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've slept with married men but usually try to avoid xx

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

No wonder I don’t get meets need to get wife into swinging

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Wouldn't knowingly meet atatched men x

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We also won’t knowingly play with married men.

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By *ornyandaching OP   Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

So if the male half gives consent by FaceTime or a call would that be more acceptable? Or still not the case?

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By *omblingFreeCouple
over a year ago

The Village

We don't mind meeting married or attached men but we like to be aware they're attached before we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a very different thing.

As a couple, I would love to watch Mike sleep with another woman, if I get to play with them also. And we all agree and are comfortable.

In private if he does it behind my back, we are finished and the black bin bags with his clothes would be at the door and I would be heading over to the woman he did it with for a "chat" xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married man (knowingly ) absolute no no for me - having been on the other end I wouldn’t like to inflict that kind of pain on any woman - apart from any woman who slept with my husband without me knowing (and him of course )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t meet a married man if he was playing away as I don’t want to get involved with that. I don’t want to play with someone else’s partner, doesn’t sit well with me but I’m sure many don’t mind. "

This for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird thing, when i was younger, i had a massive thing for married women. At one point that's all I'd ever sleep with.

Now I'm older i don't need the hassle/don't care if a woman has a partner or not. Would prefer not to know.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

I don't meet couples, I don't even meet men with their partners permission and I'd never knowingly meet an attached man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer meeting couples.. its more fun Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet married men as long as his partner didn't know. I won't meet one half of Swinger couples. Fine meeting them together though, just not apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We also won’t knowingly play with married men. "

It has happened and when I (Mrs) found out it really pissed on my parade. I hate the idea of being any part of a mans deceit and disrespect towards their unknowing wife. It kinda made everything feel grubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a very different thing.

As a couple, I would love to watch Mike sleep with another woman, if I get to play with them also. And we all agree and are comfortable.

In private if he does it behind my back, we are finished and the black bin bags with his clothes would be at the door and I would be heading over to the woman he did it with for a "chat" xx"

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We will meet a married man if his wife knows and this is their thing.

But I am pretty sure half the time we dont really know if they are married or not...I just remind myself that this is not my guilt

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"We also won’t knowingly play with married men.

It has happened and when I (Mrs) found out it really pissed on my parade. I hate the idea of being any part of a mans deceit and disrespect towards their unknowing wife. It kinda made everything feel grubby."

In that situation you are the deceived as well. He is to blame, and you are innocent of intent.

I get that it puts a downer on the experience, but short of doing a full background check, what can you do ?

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