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By *ueenie555 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alfreton

How long is your blocklist?

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By *uke DuchessCouple
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

18 Guys, all because they won't be told,

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

15 couples and singles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 guys x

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By *axtanMan
over a year ago

los Cristianos now

How grand are you all? Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but it has to be hundreds, shame you can't see a total number.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Make that 16 thanks to another stupid dude.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

247, , yes I counted them all. Blocked 4 this week, always adding to the list too.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

44.

17 women, 17 couples and 10 men.

Around half of the women and couples simply because we have nothing in common but all the rest for being unable to read or for forum comments.

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By *ueenie555 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alfreton

Ours is somewhere around 250 after adding a couple more this morning.

For us it's a nice simple way of saving time for ourselves and folk that send us messages and winks.

Those whose first message or two either aren't that appealing or are completely off putting, are simply filtered out using the block button.

It's not an issue of conceit etc. It's a handy route to a quiet life on fab.

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

9 as We usually just tell them but these are repeat offenders haha

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By *ueenie555 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Alfreton

This is an exchange we've had this morning.

Him "Love to come and play."

Us "Not a great first message."

Him "Let's fuck??"

Us "Even worse."

Him "Are you on here for chit chat or sex?"

Whenever I wonder about the size of our block list, and objectively question whether our approach is the right one , someone comes along with something like this and provides a little clarity.

Perhaps we should be grateful!

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Bingham

Just single guys on ours. We have no need to block couples or females because after a chat, if we're not suitable for each other then we can say so and there ends the messaging. On the other hand, single guys seem to think that sending multiple messages after you've told them you're not interested, is suddenly going to make the knickers fall off !

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall

16 ours, all men. Most emails we get are fine, but some just refuse to take a polite no for an answer. One or two just get the straight block with messages like

“ I wanna fuck your throat until you puke”

I kid you not. Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine on Facebook is about 300. On here its 2 so far. Both OAP men who ignored my profile and messaged me anyway

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By *erandHerManCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

Weve actually only got one profile on our blocked list.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No idea as I am not going to count them all but it is very very long

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am on a few I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be arsed to count it but a couple of hundred. Makes my experience of the site far more enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the last count, over 300 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No idea but it has to be hundreds, shame you can't see a total number. "

Ditto

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Only lets you see the last 240 ISH on block list and I know it's way more than that and wouldn't be surprised if it was 4 figures

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

Just 6, we must be being too lenient lol

The easiest to block was the idiot who just kept sending question marks, nothing else in his messages.

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

24, 16 men, 6 couples, 2 women. Hadn't thought it would be that many, but I have been on here a while!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just single guys on ours. We have no need to block couples or females because after a chat, if we're not suitable for each other then we can say so and there ends the messaging. On the other hand, single guys seem to think that sending multiple messages after you've told them you're not interested, is suddenly going to make the knickers fall off !

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Pleased I have them filtered then but I get some odd ones from couples too

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

How do I find out this information, please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just single guys on ours. We have no need to block couples or females because after a chat, if we're not suitable for each other then we can say so and there ends the messaging. On the other hand, single guys seem to think that sending multiple messages after you've told them you're not interested, is suddenly going to make the knickers fall off !

Pleased I have them filtered then but I get some odd ones from couples too "

99.99% singles but a few couples where they made some not so nice comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

124

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I find out this information, please?"

Under account tab near the bottom of the page

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"124"

Mainly couples and single females

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

201

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

33.

32 guys and 1 couple.

Main reason for blocking is guys switching pictures back and forth from private to public to be able to message us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s 87 on mine… if people aren’t interested, or compatible then I block so I can just see potentials on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just 3.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

36 repeat offenders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My blocklist is huge

Three in a row in the space of a few seconds

best feature on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 on mine but I expect I'm on a few thanks to my early fab-days and ignorance (so, sorry to those Ladies/Couples)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ours is somewhere around 250 after adding a couple more this morning.

For us it's a nice simple way of saving time for ourselves and folk that send us messages and winks.

Those whose first message or two either aren't that appealing or are completely off putting, are simply filtered out using the block button.

It's not an issue of conceit etc. It's a handy route to a quiet life on fab.

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We do this too. Every now and then I’ll flick through the who’s near, and last viewed and block those we’re never going to be interested in, and same with those who message. Great way to filter down those areas.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

It's as long as it needs to be.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

Probably 1000s. I use it as intended, a site tool. If I go browsing and open a profile that's not for me, I'll block. Won't come up if future searches that way.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

239, currently. It consists of:

- people who I've seen say unforgivable shit

- obvious trolls and bullies

- people I'm just not attracted to

- people I don't want to be able to contact me

- people local to me who clog up my updates feed

- attractive people whose tastes or safety profile are so incompatible with mine I need a reminder not to start eyeing them up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure you can count above 200 as they drop of the page we have several pages tho we cant really see how many but we know its several so 800 to 900 at a guess could be more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 just a small list

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Hundreds I reckon. Is there anyway to see the total?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you can pnly coumt up to 250 anything after that drops of the page still blocked just not showing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting longer by the day

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Several at the moment.

Mainly local idiots that keep posting nonsense that appears on my update feed.

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

66 mostly men but some couples too. I only block those who won’t take a polite ‘no’ for an answer or anyone who’s rude/nasty or really pushy towards me

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"Only lets you see the last 240 ISH on block list and I know it's way more than that and wouldn't be surprised if it was 4 figures "

Oh that's intersting. I thought as members left the site the list shortens. Well apart from us always adding. So way more than 248 for us then.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

no idea... one, two, skip a few, 99, 100

so many fakes and flakes...

don't usually give them a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you all add me to yours please

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

117

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

153 for various reasons. Some people I've fallen out with, others overly pushy and also those who have flat out said not interested, just so I don't accidentally message them again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12. You have to be a special kind of arsehole to get blocked by us

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

Watton

About 150. Of course we block knobs, but really for us it is just about keeping our searches more refined and to remove those we wouldn’t play with for any reason.

A good example is if we are reading in a forum that someone loves bareback and seems to be too relaxed about it for our liking, of a couple stating that their male partner would have to join in. Neither are a bad thing as everyone is free to make their own decisions, they are just not for us

So anyone on our block list is rarely because they are knobs, just we wouldn’t be the right people for them

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

My block list is pretty long. If I message a profile twice within a 6 month window, they read my message and can't be fucked enough to reply. I block them to avoid wasting my time. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines not too long I don’t think, usually pushy people or people I’ve met and don’t want to re encounter lol. I just found out I’m on someone’s and I don’t think I’ve ever spoken to them so that’s interesting lol, gotta love the fab fickleness.

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By *ogging-funMan
over a year ago

stone

Zero so far I've found everyone I've chatted with on here really nice

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Huge - full of guys who either couldn't be bothered to read our profile or argued about our decision.

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe


"How do I find out this information, please?

Under account tab near the bottom of the page"

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

simply don’t bother, much easier to ignore / delete...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

My block list says ‘full’ at the top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the people on mine are the dreaded unverified pic collectors.

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By *riv2u2Man
over a year ago

sussex

15 women , 22 couples

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Too long to even bother counting.

Mrs

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By *urvy-blue83Woman
over a year ago

Lichfield

Currently 56 blocked on mine lol

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