FabSwingers.com forum: Couple's profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do so many couple's profiles only have pictures of the woman?

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Because she's the bait and/or the bloke has too important a job to show himself naked as his bosses/clients will definitely recognise him. Or, if they show him they'll definitely get no interest. Or, the classic "folk run their profiles how they see fit and it's no-one else's business but their own."

Frank

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

This so true we not interested in only half of a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s amazing how many couples I talk to when the female is asleep so only the male can chat and whenever I’ve discussed meeting up with a couple the male has always said that I’ll just be meeting him first and then I’ll meet the female the next time. Seems like females tend to let their partner deal with the vetting process of chatting and doing the first meet and only want to get involved when it gets sexual.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You do see that a lot. We have more pictures of Mrs because there's more variety in terms of outfits for women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only show female because its about her getting pleasure not me but if asked to prove if we are a couple we are happy to send a pic,cam or whatever

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By *atentHeelsCouple
over a year ago

Salford

"You do see that a lot. We have more pictures of Mrs because there's more variety in terms of outfits for women."

Absolutely true

Also, it depends what the couples interest is. Not all couples are here for the same thing. Sometimes the male has no intention of playing with other women so there’s no need to show him. There’s countless reasons why.

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"You do see that a lot. We have more pictures of Mrs because there's more variety in terms of outfits for women.

Absolutely true

Does the no intention of the male playing with other women apply to you?

Frank

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"We only show female because its about her getting pleasure not me but if asked to prove if we are a couple we are happy to send a pic,cam or whatever"

To be fair if you're just looking for another bloke to join you then there's no need to show the male half of the couple. If not though...

Frank

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We have mainly Mrs on ours and a few of Mr.

Suppose there is more ideas for photos of females, different clothing ect where as males don't tend to dress up so its more limited in choice

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By *rsandBooMan
over a year ago

Reading

"Why do so many couple's profiles only have pictures of the woman?"

Due to our profile amd what we are looking for then Mrs is the prominent one in our profile. As we're looking for guys for her it makes sense to us.

Boo

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Why do so many couple's profiles only have pictures of the woman?"

Because those are the pictures they want to show, and as it's their profile they're free to do so without being questioned about it. It's called choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many couple's profiles only have pictures of the woman?"

Because I’m hot AF and hubby is shy (although hot as fuck too!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us when we was meeting the wife was the only one that played, hubby had no interest in playing with other women.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Because we only 99% of the time look for single men and tv/ ts for me - fem to play with. We only play with couples in clubs. He's there in person, so they can see him. Therefore not requiring face pics of him. Alhough there are 2 body shots on here.

We all have oit accounts, and can do with them what we want.

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By *winging90scoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northfield

We’ve had endless conversations which have lead to nothing. Some people really do have the ugliest of personalities. But that’s where we are now, male will do the conversations initially and show pics to wife. If she likes the look and the chat seems good she’ll join. If not then I let them know that we aren’t interested and move on. Any meet would be both of us though not just 1 of us or “male half first”

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We're looking for single straight guys, if they want to see lots of pictures of me, I'd be a bit puzzled.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

For us it’s simply, I enjoy taking photos of M

if we were chatting to a couple I would gladly send them more of me.

But if there is an attraction we would just meet up for a social as people are three dimensional and personality goes a long way.

And to be honest I have found even with single women and couples the women that they are only really Intersted in M!!! ( this is our experience I know it’s not all before I get the hate)

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

Similar to some of the above, traditionally we've only met single guys who are obviously more interested in Mrs than me. She also looks better in her outfits than I do lol.

Another thing for us is I like to take pictures of her where as she's not so quick to pick up the camera.

I do have a pic of my best side on our profile, it's all downhill from there though lol.

We will have a profile rewrite when we start meeting again, if we ever start meeting again, but that's another topic altogether!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a couples profile - probably has more pics of him than me , as he is more confident and enjoys having his picture taken!

I (female ) also do the messaging etc as I find as a bi sexual female myself if I was single that being approached and conversing with men all the time when I’m actually interested in females too wouldn’t work for me !

I was going to say works for us , but I mean we are still looking so ?

I don’t think there is any one way to do it and it’s often down to luck!

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

"We’ve had endless conversations which have lead to nothing. Some people really do have the ugliest of personalities. But that’s where we are now, male will do the conversations initially and show pics to wife. If she likes the look and the chat seems good she’ll join. If not then I let them know that we aren’t interested and move on. Any meet would be both of us though not just 1 of us or “male half first” "

Similar to us. Mrs gets fed up with some of the messages and attitudes so I tend to filter it for her. We only meet together also.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Why do so many couple's profiles only have pictures of the woman?"

I (Mark) removed mine as I got dogs abuse like I did on cam as I’m not Brad Pitt, or even his brother ,Cess.

I put one up with my scars as I was encouraged to do so by a lovely General Chat regular.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well thank you all for your replies, it was just a curious question though! I understand what couples post is their preference, me personally, I like to see pics of the man too.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep, v frustrating

I'm half a couple and it's rare there's many profiles with a few pics of the man too.we have plenty of Jack my partner on our profile.

I'm straight, so do need to see the man and it feels as if I'm not important when a profile with only the woman winks or messages us.

We just ignore those now,as in past we've chatted and when I eventually see the male, there's been no attraction for me.

Fair enough if it's just the lady playing with other men.

However, couples seeking to meet other women or couples should have one or two pics of the male too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own, of course, but it tends to put us off. We like to play with both parties in a couple so like to see both too in a profile.

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By *hatever works for USCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield/Sunderland

We post pics of us both although admittedly there are a few more of me. We try to mix the style of pic up too…..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep, v frustrating

I'm half a couple and it's rare there's many profiles with a few pics of the man too.we have plenty of Jack my partner on our profile.

I'm straight, so do need to see the man and it feels as if I'm not important when a profile with only the woman winks or messages us.

We just ignore those now,as in past we've chatted and when I eventually see the male, there's been no attraction for me.

Fair enough if it's just the lady playing with other men.

However, couples seeking to meet other women or couples should have one or two pics of the male too. "

Exactly this!! It doesn't help whem M messages and says "we" were admiring your pics when there's only ones of the woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Each to their own, of course, but it tends to put us off. We like to play with both parties in a couple so like to see both too in a profile."

Totally agree! I've tried to change our profile pic to M but he keeps changing it to me! Hahaha my point is that we're a couple, so why not have him as our profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s initially to dangle the bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because mrs is a lot more photogenic than I am. We want to attract people not scare them off!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have mainly pictures of the Mrs but there are are a few of me but I don’t have hundreds of sets of different lingerie to spice it up and keep it different

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
over a year ago

Angus

I'm not as confident as my wife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We have mainly pictures of the Mrs but there are are a few of me but I don’t have hundreds of sets of different lingerie to spice it up and keep it different "

I understand that, but at least you have some of yourself too

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By *uriousminds2008Couple
over a year ago

London

We have pictures of both as we understand there needs to be an attraction for all parties.

But on that the majority of the pictures are of the mrs. We struggle to come up with sexy ideas for the mr, we have the suit idea that we still need to do but after that we draw a blank.

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By *lipperyhalo69Couple
over a year ago

norwich

For us it's more cause how many cock pics can you see. Mr is very happy to add more. We both do the talking depending on our days and will always send more pics or add as friend.

We have found though that a few other couples will only 1 person play or speak to us

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By *odgerNbadgerCouple
over a year ago

Chepstow

Mostly pics of Mrs because Mr is better at taking pictures. There's no hidden agenda. And it's mostly Mrs chatting until it gets to exchange of numbers/kik when we use Mr for safety.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

this was my single profile before I married cj

his pics are on his profile, but there are a couple in the friends ones here

we also have a joint profile with both of us there

but it's true, I have seen many many profiles of couples without seeing the male photos.

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By *outhsuffolkcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We have a good mix of pictures on our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have a good mix of pictures on our profile "

And what a beautiful array of photos, indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr PD appears in the pictures, but not as often as Mrs PD because he's not as gorgeous as she is!

Mr PDx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are equal partners in this and we both see everything xx

G and P xx

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Our public pictures were originally just one of each of us to give an idea of what we look like, but found I enjoyed sharing my pics, and it then maybe got a little out of hand. Call it a vanity project.

Our private pictures are a good mix of both of us and are shared with people we are interested in meeting or talking to.

So to our mind, the public pictures don’t really matter, nobodies entitled to see any pics of us, unless we are planning on meeting or talking to them, in which case they absolutely get to see both of us.

We also attach pics of both of us when we send a message to people we’re interested in, so don’t really see it as important what is publicly on show for people just browsing.

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By *outhsuffolkcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

"We have a good mix of pictures on our profile

And what a beautiful array of photos, indeed

And we must say likewise

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