FabSwingers.com forum: Fabs or online dating apps works better?

By *oolman34 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Hello, according to your experiences fabs or other regular online dating apps works better for having good sex with new people. I dont mean only numbers but also finding the right people as well. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab for sex and exciting new experiences...I find the forum and meets section etc helpful. Dating apps for longer term, especially those where the woman messages first.

Although a date from someone on Fab would be great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello, according to your experiences fabs or other regular online dating apps works better for having good sex with new people. I dont mean only numbers but also finding the right people as well. Thanks."

As someone who genuinely tries to use dating apps to get dates and not laid

I would appreciate the casual sex staying on dedicated sites

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By *ornsMan
over a year ago

west Midlands

Definitely dating apps....no luck on fab

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I use both, because the majority of people I match with are on here anyway, but I get to see them and match them before they can contact me elsewhere. Then I come here for a proper perv

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I find most guys are on both... There equally flakey though! They just pretend they want more on the dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating sites are just a nightmare.... scary people on there for sure!!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Haha its so funny. When i use dating apps if a guy so much as mentions pics or meeting for the bang bang..i really do come ovet all " how dare you" " this isnt a sex site you know" " this is not wbat im here for" borderline self righteous attitued. I just like to seperate the 2, what i thought were, different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've received some strange pictures and requests from women on dating sites and 2 stalkers that sent me pictures via the postal service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life's what you make it

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By *oolman34 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Clever approach ??

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By *oolman34 OP Man
over a year ago

london

So true

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By *oolman34 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Sent you pics with postal service? Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dating apps - met loads of women from 1 night stands to full on relationships.

FAB - never met anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find real life to be by far the best way to meet.

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Statistically it's gotta be dating sites hasn't it? Here there is probably a 100-1 ratio of men to women vs 50/50 on tinder as the population is about even and each coupled up person takes someone of either the same or opposite sex out of the dating pool (I'm assuming an equal balance of gay and lesbian couples here) maybe add some of the men who cheat on their wives back in but yeah the odds are nigh on 100x better which leaves the only advantage to fab is if you want to play with couples or you're looking for someone to get into swinging with but then that isn't exclusive to fab either.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I've had more luck on fab for meets and socials than I ever had for just dating on dating sites. Makes it sound like I'm just not boyfriend/ husband to be material lol

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

"I use both, because the majority of people I match with are on here anyway, but I get to see them and match them before they can contact me elsewhere. Then I come here for a proper perv

Exactly this

I much prefer Fabbers though, the others are not nearly kinky enough and I am too old to keep breaking in vanillas lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done very well on here. But I've had sex with a lot of nice men off Tinder as well xx

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

Been very lucky with fab so far, yet to try a dating app though !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use both, because the majority of people I match with are on here anyway, but I get to see them and match them before they can contact me elsewhere. Then I come here for a proper perv

Exactly this

I much prefer Fabbers though, the others are not nearly kinky enough and I am too old to keep breaking in vanillas lol

Breaking in vanillas

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

"Breaking in vanillas

I know, its exhausting

But always worth it

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't want a relationship so never join dating apps. I like to find folks with a similar attitude to me who like and want sex. I have found those folks on Fab.

How many dating apps lead to a nice mfm with a couple? Or a mmfmm or a gang bang? I enjoy a 1 on 1 as much as others but I really like the extras Fab can provide.

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

On both, seem to match more on the sites but same no responses, cursed telling you

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By *MCMan
over a year ago

London/EA

Dating sites, probably due to having face pictures on show.. whereas on here I have none showing publicly..

I have met a few people on dating apps who I have later discovered to be on here though.

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"I use both, because the majority of people I match with are on here anyway, but I get to see them and match them before they can contact me elsewhere. Then I come here for a proper perv

Exactly this

I much prefer Fabbers though, the others are not nearly kinky enough and I am too old to keep breaking in vanillas lol

Breaking in vanillas

I read that as breaking vanillas and just had images of them just rocking in the corner of an orgy lol

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

Fab is better for me.

Men on dating sites, in my experience, lie. They want nsa sex, but present disingenuous profiles.

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

"Men on dating sites, in my experience, lie. They want nsa sex, but present disingenuous profiles. "

Women have been known to do similar

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've had more conversations in two years on Fab than I've had in six years on multiple dating sites.

Both are terrible for getting any meets at all, though. I've had far more success getting out and putting myself about in person. Shame the pandemic has put a stop to that, though. It's been a cold and lonely nineteen months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find most guys are on both... There equally flakey though! They just pretend they want more on the dating sites."

I just don’t get the flakey thing from anyone, why waste your own and others’ time?

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

"I find most guys are on both... There equally flakey though! They just pretend they want more on the dating sites.

I just don’t get the flakey thing from anyone, why waste your own and others’ time?"

To get a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why compare the two ? clearly there are more women on dating sites as they are looking for the right one ... how can you compare that to a swinging site ? where formost its abut swinging ...the two are clearly different as night n day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would agree , half the time most men and women on dating sites cant make their minds up what they actually want .

Expectations on some profiles are way off, unrealistic to say the least, and some ladies and gents tend to tell porkies over their ages, as i have on numerous occasion had to do a double take on their photos.. very hard paper rounds in some cases…

Reality now is to enjoy each day and anything else is a bonus …

As for here, hate to say it, again very unrealistic wants, and id window shop thanks

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

they are very different things, prople on fab are looking for casual sex, or that is the point in the site anyway, and dating sites are for more long term relationships, not sure i understand the question tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is better for me.

Men on dating sites, in my experience, lie. They want nsa sex, but present disingenuous profiles. "

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By *untime5Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

It’s pretty hard to meet couples on tinder. The two don’t compare.

Had some great experiences once I told a tinder match that I knew about her dark side

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

I can’t seem to talk to people the same way on dating sites , I just don’t feel comfortable. Like I have to hide what I’m really into plus I’m not looking for love but only attract those who are

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Dating apps seem great if you either want one off sex or long term relationships.

However, if you want to socialise with like minded people, find fwbs and have repeated no strings sex or sex that is not so vanilla, FAB seems much better.

At least that's my experience, and explains why FAB is so much easier for me than Tinder.

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"I find real life to be by far the best way to meet. "
Is this not real life ?

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By *oolman34 OP Man
over a year ago

london

Exactly, that is why i wanted to ask people on fabs how they think to compare these two. In fabs i feel more comfortable too

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By *allnlongMan
over a year ago

Torpoint & Stonehouse

"I can’t seem to talk to people the same way on dating sites , I just don’t feel comfortable. Like I have to hide what I’m really into plus I’m not looking for love but only attract those who are "

This!

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I find real life to be by far the best way to meet. Is this not real life ?

Exactly. It has been a serious problem for quite a number of years that so many people think that things on the internet are somehow imaginary.

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