FabSwingers.com forum: MSN

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do others on the forum find,as I do,that anyone who requests that you 'have a chat on MSN' is invariably a timewaster with whom you never end up meeting?

Be interested to hear others' views.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Do others on the forum find,as I do,that anyone who requests that you 'have a chat on MSN' is invariably a timewaster with whom you never end up meeting?

Be interested to hear others' views."

No I don't. I've had quite a few 'meets' after chatting on MSN and showing faces on Cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like going on msn i think it stops time wasters so you can cam and its easier to chat

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

I prefer to see/speak n chat before I give my msn.

At first I'd give it out to couples, but was amazed by the amount of fems who had a headache etc etc

I am now very choosey who I give it out to.

Good luck in your hunt as I know there are many GENUINE (as in real life couples) who trade msn's x

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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago

The Dungeon

We don't use msn, or cams, at all. We have kids, teenage and we never get the time or privacy to use either. People have turned us down because we don't use it, some have accused us of being fake because we don't use it but we don't care. We think our verifications prove we're real, our photos show us at play with those that verify us, so they can think what they like, accuse us of what they want. We're happy enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use msn any more. I wouldn't give out my email addy as I thought guys just wanted dirty talk and to wank plus I had kids living with me, and with 2 jobs, I don't have the time and I am not interested in wasting my free time continually chatting to someone then my account got hacked into so deleted my account.

I don't use any other chat facility either and it never ceases to amaze me the number of guys that ask if I do as it shows they haven't read my profile

3 years ago when I registered on Fab I didn't think or know that it was a way to verify that someone is who they say they are, no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did a couple of times when we first joined but unsurprisingly all the guys who promised it was purely for verification always ended up trying to flash me their cock...*yawn*

I belong to another adult orientated site and although i've tried it, cyber and all that stuff does absolutely nothing for me...bores me "frigid"...most people are really bad at it anyway...prefer the real thing-if it loses us meets, then so be it

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By *ppleby11Couple
over a year ago

Berkhamsted

We do use msn predominantly as a chat mechanism with friends we have made. Whilst its not always practicable to have this website open on our laptops, msn justs sits there on the taskbar.

Its nice to say hi every now and again as people pop in. A pleasant distraction from work, or worse, Eastenders !

Likewise, if the home circumstances permit, a chat can easily develop into plans being made for something in the future.

Its easy enough to delete someone if false pretences have been used or our trust abused. We don't see it as some sinister forum, its just software that can be used for whatever purpose we choose. Think it would be harsh to categorise it.

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use MSNN for chat as the mssag system on here isn'kt great and can also have on my phone. Also have yahoo and skype for cam fun. Never had too many issues but then i've nver been shy on cam.

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By *orny Biker 69Man
over a year ago

Greenford

I use MSN all the time, find it very useful for arranging a meet, it's faster than back and forth messages on here, plus you have the webcam facility

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By *reybearMan
over a year ago

medway

Same as the op here, we found when we started that the guys who wanted to 'chat' on man were more likely to be the pic collectors or timewasters, we then started to meet socially quite early so that he wife could check them out and only after a meet, social or plying would we chat online....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errr no!!!!! Ive been a swinger ten years and always use msn to see if we click and its more private if their too shy to use a chatroom on here. Its the timewasters who wont use them in my eyes and ive enough experiance in this. Each to own but i ask for a webcam chat to make sure its a woman and to see if were of each's cuppa tea. Works for me and its only way i meet. I aint no timewaster!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only show our faces on msn and insist that any couples interested in us do the same.We find that this sorts out the single guys from the real couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is extremely rare we meet someone if we haven't chatted to them on msn, at least a few times.

Ive lost count of the number of single guys who on first contact seem fine, then a few weeks later make some wierd creepy statement that makes us think we've just had a lucky escape.

If we click on fab, we invite msn chat and take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How dare you suggest that MSN is a haven for timewasters when it is clear to see that timewasters can be found on all IM based communication. I shall be reporting you to Bill Gates.

Its all down to peoples preference/choice really.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Have had many a meet after some long sexy chats on msn ...havent been on msn for a long time maybe thats why i'm not gettin any

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We use msn all the time. Its a great way of getting to know people before a meet. We never cam on it though.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do others on the forum find,as I do,that anyone who requests that you 'have a chat on MSN' is invariably a timewaster with whom you never end up meeting?

Be interested to hear others' views."

we don't do MSN anymore. Far too easy for someone to capture the email address and it snowballs from there...

We keep a 'fun phone' for this and always make contact that way before we take things too far. If someone gets 'funny' with that number, we just get a new SIM card and that's them scuppered.

Sad when you have to be like this we people, but it's the reality of it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and far too time consuming ...... err says me reading all these forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use msn to verify people are who they say they are and not a guy pretending to be a female failing that its always a telephone call.

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By *exyminxy111Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Prefer to use Skype, can make the cam view full screen, great for verification and fun with other couples

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By *nteressanteMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My research has found that 99% of the women on here mysteriously don't have msn, which is an incredible stat when you think about it..........

eh? what do you mean they're just telling you that cos they're not interested?

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By *_midland_cpl_xCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Do others on the forum find,as I do,that anyone who requests that you 'have a chat on MSN' is invariably a timewaster with whom you never end up meeting?

Be interested to hear others' views."

well no actually we have chatted to every person we have met on msn and never let them down we have had it the other way we have spoken to ppl that have let us down via the phone and other chat systems

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok good to hear all that....maybe I have been unlucky then lol.....and x midland couple...I was def NOT including you in what I said about MSN lol....just more recent members lol! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have MSN but like to keep friends and family on there and Fab on fab, I've been accused of being fake and time wasting for not giving out my ID. Not that it bothers me, just annoys me that just because I won't give out details to all and sundry at the drop of a hat people get funny, everyone has a choice and a right to speak to people where they're happy to!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope dont use it would rather have a natter on the phone before we meet up xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My research has found that 99% of the women on here mysteriously don't have msn, which is an incredible stat when you think about it..........

eh? what do you mean they're just telling you that cos they're not interested?

or they could just be saying they don't use MSN, to be fair, its no where near as popular as it used to be

we don't cam or MSN, photos

A few messages and a phone chat is enough for us - normally enough to tell us if we like someone or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use a MSN account for chats, cam, pic shares etc. We only play together so always happy to verify both around/exist wirh a quick hello on cam. We can easily block or delete any time wasters/oddities!

We have most of our fab friends on there for regular chats, we like to tease with a few surprise pics/vid emails and often have a little cam fun with those who want to

We often ask to chat to new friends on MSN as we find it easier to chat there.

Many dont have it but works for us...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep!!!

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By *addy and shaunCouple
over a year ago

goole

not MSN no good ,like it just fb or fab is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer MSN, I find the people that take the time to chat on MSN are more likely to meet, well from my experience anyway, Im sure you will find variations though but thats life x

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

"We did a couple of times when we first joined but unsurprisingly all the guys who promised it was purely for verification always ended up trying to flash me their cock...*yawn*

-if it loses us meets, then so be it"

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

who want my msn then ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have found that guys who ask to be added to MSN are usually the ones who just send me cam invites every time they see me log on

Tho im happy to chat on MSN soon as they start sending cam requests i just block them

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

i dont pester no one if they want up to themcam on they ask to,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use msn/cam to confirm who it is I'm chatting with - I don't do the cam sex thing, have done and felt a bit of an idiot prancing around in my frillies, just my preference. Tried the phone veri a long time ago with a woman - and yes it sounded like a woman; but when I asked about cam, they didn't have one. All pics appeared genuine too - then I smelled a rat during chat one day, whilst arranging to meet. She turned out to be a he, who very quickly left the site (not Fab)when I confronted him, no doubt reappearing under a different name. I felt more sorry for the poor woman who's pics he'd used - unless she was in on it too. Bizarre how some people get their kicks - so now, for me, no msn cam = no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use MSN just to see the person I am looking to meet is the same one in the pictures on fab, as I disovered the hard way some people are not entirely honest about the photos they use....(pics taken years ago are a giveaway when you have seen them on cam!)

Not into playing on cam, just doesnt work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always use msn as its the only place you will see our faces on. have found the opposite to the forum instigator we find those on msn to be more genuine. We also dont mind a chat then meet but are also happy to establish a short friendship before meeting as some cpls prefer this

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we don't cam or MSN, photos

A few messages and a phone chat is enough for us - normally enough to tell us if we like someone or not

Same. We did set up msn but never really used it and then it got hacked so that's the end of that!

I do kind of agree with the original post though - not to say everyone that asks to msn is a waster - but in nearly every case that people have asked and we've then offered to phone them we've had no reply, which has made it feel it's just people looking for a quick wank rather than actually meeting.

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