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Private meets are like chores

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By *sexyH OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicester

Don't people find arranging private meets really hard and becomes a chore. We usually love the club scene but would be nice to meet a nice lovely couple rather than people being so picky. Although we've met some lovely couples buy trying to arrange a meet in general is more like impossible

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

It can be difficult but when you click with the right people it can be truly lovely x

Mrs N

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

If you think it’s hard as a couple, you should try it when you’re a single male. Fighting your way through the mass of idiots is damned near impossible.

Shame that the site has so many tw@s!!

The best way I have found is to go to a local social event. You will meet all sorts there. And get to find out if you click before it all gets a bit awkward.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with people being picky?

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I don’t think it is a chore at all. If I wanted a meet _now_ then that would be pretty much impossible but as long as you are flexible then I don’t think it is that hard or too much of a pain.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"What's wrong with people being picky? "

Agree!

Take one for the team, no thanks.

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

This is an interesting one for us.

Mrs doesn't like the idea of going to clubs but also likes spontaneity so unless we bump into singers when out (has happened), we have to try and arrange a meet.

Often we chat and either haven't clicked, or because we can't meet this weekend people lose interest which is a shame. However, once you get past that, we have chatted and met some wonderful and kind people. So, our advice is be patient and put the effort in and it will pay off. We now have some friends we play with so it feels less planned as if something happens when we meet, so be it.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"What's wrong with people being picky?

Agree!

Take one for the team, no thanks."

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you are finding it a chore then it's maybe time to take a step back.

I love my 1-1 meets x

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford


"Don't people find arranging private meets really hard and becomes a chore. We usually love the club scene but would be nice to meet a nice lovely couple rather than people being so picky. Although we've met some lovely couples buy trying to arrange a meet in general is more like impossible "

We find it easy enough to find single guys, though accept that one in three won't turn up on the day. Couples is much harder, generally because half of them aren't couples, just guys pretending, and most of the others want full swap and we don't play that way. We thought it'd be easier as there'd only need to be three people that fancy each other, but it's not easy at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing that works for my wife & I, are clubs.

You meet genuine people face to face. Chat, make connections and see how things go, and all this ia done on neutral ground and no pressure to play either way.

If someone there is what you're looking for and you all agree, you can arrange private or home meets from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are finding it a chore then it's maybe time to take a step back.

I love my 1-1 meets x"

I agree with Sparkle.

It's as they say on the online bingo ads 'when the fun stops, stop'

Give yourselves a breather and you may find that you come back invigorated and raring to go!

Vx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding the correct meet can be hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that finding the people to have fun with is all part of the entertainment- and the expectation before a meet for the first time is great.

If you click and really enjoy it and plan more meets then you made the right connection

I’ve met some lovely people on here by private meets and would not have met otherwise

I’m enjoying it

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move


"What's wrong with people being picky?

Agree!

Take one for the team, no thanks."

3rd'd

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By *sexyH OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"This is an interesting one for us.

Mrs doesn't like the idea of going to clubs but also likes spontaneity so unless we bump into singers when out (has happened), we have to try and arrange a meet.

Often we chat and either haven't clicked, or because we can't meet this weekend people lose interest which is a shame. However, once you get past that, we have chatted and met some wonderful and kind people. So, our advice is be patient and put the effort in and it will pay off. We now have some friends we play with so it feels less planned as if something happens when we meet, so be it. "
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Exactly our point.

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By *sexyH OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicester


"If you are finding it a chore then it's maybe time to take a step back.

I love my 1-1 meets x"
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It's always hard trying to get couples meet. Of course it's easy to arrange mmf.

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