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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interested to know how people approached this on their first visit. Goes without saying that single guys go with one intention even on first visit lol, but guessing slightly different for couples and single fems?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went with the intention of seeing what it was all about with no intention of playing.. Then that went out of the window

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By *hill44Man
over a year ago

hinckley

My 1st time was watching a couple then they invited me to join then how could I refuse

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By *agic fingers 73Man
over a year ago

Manchester

1st visit I had at a club I was very nervous, it was an open night for newbies so wasn't that busy. Didn't play but did watch and pick up a few tips lol.

Probably best to try and be yourself, don't be the creep who follows women / couples around. Just talk at the bar of communal areas and see how it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go on every club without visit with the thought of not playing as it is not guaranteed but i will confess that on my first nervous visit i did not play, just looked around and left

They must of thought i was mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t play at clubs, I go for the social side

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Nothing is guaranteed op so go with the intention that nothing will happen. If it does bonus

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

When I go it will be with the mindset nothing will happen , I’ll see some action and get the odd hello. Had it not been for a meeting at work this afternoon I’d be at me kestrels for the first time. Oh well will have to wait for after half term

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By *ylonlickMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I went to a munch on my first visit I was still too shy.

Hoping next time I let myself go and hopefully be more adventurous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing is guaranteed op so go with the intention that nothing will happen. If it does bonus "

I'm thinking this is sound advice and we will take it on board for when we build up the courage for our first visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely for me. I'm going straight in at the deep end on a greedy girls night xx

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

My first club visit is in a couple of weeks. I’m going with zero expectations with regard to playing and will see what happens. My main aim is to see what it’s like, try to socialise and get to know more like-minded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first 2 visits I did nothing but chat and relax..

I don't think I'll ever be able to go With the intention of playing. If it happens it happens, if not, oh well, I'll have been chatting with some interesting people

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

My first club vist many years ago i stripped of and just dive straight in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely for me. I'm going straight in at the deep end on a greedy girls night xx"

And have fun with that x

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow


"Definitely for me. I'm going straight in at the deep end on a greedy girls night xx"

You will have no problem getting any action lol

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By *ohnj21Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Love to try club heard quest good in Leeds is it

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We were bricking it on our first visit and just played with each other in a room on our own, even that was exciting knowing someone could walk in. On our second visit we were in an orgy room, a few glances then some fem/fem fun.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


" Goes without saying that single guys go with one intention even on first visit"

I never expected to play on any of my club visits! Attraction is a two-way street, and I don't play with someone just because I can. I've only played 3 times out of a total of 15 club visits.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Single fem and I attend with the expectation of playing on every visit (if there’s someone I’m attracted too).

Be confident and direct yet polite, join in conversations and don’t be afraid to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest with being new to the scene I just go in hoping to meet new people in the lifestyle and hopefully this could lead to freindships that I could explore the lifestyle further. Fwb, fb and ons are obviously welcome but not my soul point of going.

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By *ack and MiriCouple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Our plan for our first visit to a club is to go socialise look around and maybe play with each other. If we like it then maybe we will be more adventurous on our 2nd visit.

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

No two club visits will be the same, If you meet the right people and it feels right go for it, do what you want.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Interested to know how people approached this on their first visit. Goes without saying that single guys go with one intention even on first visit lol, but guessing slightly different for couples and single fems?"

I did. I had been without sex for several years so went with the intentions of having sex. I had a blast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went intending to have sex and wasn't disappointed.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We were so nervous on our first visit! We waited outside for ages trying to get the nerve to ring the bell. We figured we'd just go in, have a look around, have a drink and then go home.

20 minutes after getting inside we were naked in the hot tub chatting with the locals We found a private room and did our own thing and then left.

Now when we visit a club, we go with the intention of having a drink and a chat with others before heading upstairs and just playing together. If anything else happens then that's fine.

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By *amLaraCroftWoman
over a year ago

London


"Interested to know how people approached this on their first visit. Goes without saying that single guys go with one intention even on first visit lol, but guessing slightly different for couples and single fems?"

It’s going to be my first visit to kestrels on Saturday and I am just touring around and seeing how things work

I have been clear that I will just be watching and chatting no expectations and see how I feel someone who has been seeing me a few times one to one is coming with me so I won’t strictly be a single fem

But he is a free agent and can wonder off that’s okay with me xx

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

Ive been to the old Kestrels and was made feel welcome, the hardest part of going to any club will be going in, after that there will be no going back, Enjoy It !

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We have always gone for fun drinks dancing and to meet new people with sex after that and had amazing times without having sex.

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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago

nottingham

My first visit (Mrs) I went with a friend and had spoke to a couple on here and said I was going. Didn’t go with intentions of anything happening and was just seeing how i felt and to a open to out for Mr, but after half a bottle I was feeling quite loose and myself and the couple who had arrived just after me decided to end the night in. a private room and as they say the rest is history. I guess it’s a go with the flow kind of situation. Don’t go expecting things to happen

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