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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace your Curves

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

^^^ what he said ^^^

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Hate tags .. for me it’s what’s between the ears that count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey curves are simply the best xxx

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Envy slimmer girls, I hate being bigger. Am losing weight though

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Big girls are my weakness

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Curves are my weakness, so much more sensual

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

To be fair - curves aren't exclusive to bigger girls.

People are petite and curvy, slim and curvy, athletic and curvy. Teeny tiny and curvy.... as well as voluptuous as curvy and all the other permutations... less curvy.. one big curve...

If I were a man, I wouldn't be able to keep it in my pants because I would want to fuck everyone (including other men hehe but that's another thread)

Shapes aren't as diametrically opposed as we are led to believe.

As for me I lost a load of weight because of a thyroid problem... and whilst I liked fitting into smaller clothes and having more choice... I prefer being bigger.

Seeing bigger girls on here.. on fet.. on insta just does something to my reptilian brain. Sends a message straight to the stem.

Representation is important.

That said I've always been more turned on by my own body than anyone else's. Maybe that's because I'm a perverted narcissist.

But beauty in all its forms is the point.

One is not superior to the other - unless you have very strict preferences.. which is ok too.

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Simply go to any curves or BBW event at any club in the country. Some of the busiest events out there.

I truly believe we are swingers because we like variety, and understand we all enjoy different things.

Never judge, just embrace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look stunning in your pics

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I’m happier when I’m slimmer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly wish I was smaller xx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I’m happier when I’m slimmer x "

I'm the same I just need to get my ass in gear again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm aiming for slimmer, so do envy others....

Gotta put the work in though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be slimmer…but guys seem to like my size.

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I’m happier when I’m slimmer x

I'm the same I just need to get my ass in gear again ."

It’s so tough isn’t it? I used to be a lot bigger than I am now. Every time my weight starts to creep up again I panic I’ll end up back there and have to try and pull it back again. It’s a permanent battle x

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By *thletic gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Funky

Large, small, tall, short….. all taste the same to me x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m happier when I’m slimmer x "

I'm happy to help you if you want to try the 'F-plan' diet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems what ever size therell always be something mines the baby weight that bugs me there are some gorgeous girls on this thread who see what none of.us do all.stunning xx

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I’m happier when I’m slimmer x

I'm happy to help you if you want to try the 'F-plan' diet. "

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Massively envy and working ridiculously hard on it.

Hate being slightly bigger and guys messaging me because of it makes me cringe! The whole “bbw or bigger/ curvy” inboxes make my skin crawl haha.

Smaller but still curvier is the dreaammm! Ha x

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"I’m happier when I’m slimmer x

I'm happy to help you if you want to try the 'F-plan' diet.

"

I really need to lose some fat off these fingers! I meant to put

Awkward!

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

I always wanted to be slimmer but I must say people seem to like my curves, I’m happy with my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the curves

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m happier when I’m slimmer x

I'm happy to help you if you want to try the 'F-plan' diet.

I really need to lose some fat off these fingers! I meant to put

Awkward! "

Shhhh. I don't think anyone noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

Embrace and enjoy your curves x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx

Embrace and enjoy your curves x"

Can I embrace yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It seems what ever size therell always be something mines the baby weight that bugs me there are some gorgeous girls on this thread who see what none of.us do all.stunning xx"

So are you x

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By *onseagullMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Interesting to see the different takes on this. I think we all suffer from some kind of body envy or are self critical at times. I know I am but more to do with my face than body.

As mentioned embrace who and what you are. You're all lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair - curves aren't exclusive to bigger girls.

People are petite and curvy, slim and curvy, athletic and curvy. Teeny tiny and curvy.... as well as voluptuous as curvy and all the other permutations... less curvy.. one big curve...

If I were a man, I wouldn't be able to keep it in my pants because I would want to fuck everyone (including other men hehe but that's another thread)

Shapes aren't as diametrically opposed as we are led to believe.

As for me I lost a load of weight because of a thyroid problem... and whilst I liked fitting into smaller clothes and having more choice... I prefer being bigger.

Seeing bigger girls on here.. on fet.. on insta just does something to my reptilian brain. Sends a message straight to the stem.

Representation is important.

That said I've always been more turned on by my own body than anyone else's. Maybe that's because I'm a perverted narcissist.

But beauty in all its forms is the point.

One is not superior to the other - unless you have very strict preferences.. which is ok too."

You look stunning!!!!!

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

I've just looked at your pictures OP and you have an amazing gorgeous body with beautiful curves. I'm sure there are an awful lot of women on here that envy your body

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Myself, I feel sexier when I'm slimmer but, really appreciate a bigger, curvy girl. So much to admire and play with mmwwwah

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By *uicytits78Woman
over a year ago

gloucester


"To be fair - curves aren't exclusive to bigger girls.

People are petite and curvy, slim and curvy, athletic and curvy. Teeny tiny and curvy.... as well as voluptuous as curvy and all the other permutations... less curvy.. one big curve...

If I were a man, I wouldn't be able to keep it in my pants because I would want to fuck everyone (including other men hehe but that's another thread)

Shapes aren't as diametrically opposed as we are led to believe.

As for me I lost a load of weight because of a thyroid problem... and whilst I liked fitting into smaller clothes and having more choice... I prefer being bigger.

Seeing bigger girls on here.. on fet.. on insta just does something to my reptilian brain. Sends a message straight to the stem.

Representation is important.

That said I've always been more turned on by my own body than anyone else's. Maybe that's because I'm a perverted narcissist.

But beauty in all its forms is the point.

One is not superior to the other - unless you have very strict preferences.. which is ok too."

Very well put and you've got a gorgeous figure x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Myself, I feel sexier when I'm slimmer but, really appreciate a bigger, curvy girl. So much to admire and play with mmwwwah "

You'll do for me.

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Myself, I feel sexier when I'm slimmer but, really appreciate a bigger, curvy girl. So much to admire and play with mmwwwah

You'll do for me. "

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

To me all ladies different shapes and sizes are all beautiful in there own way.

Make you if what you have ladies, enjoy what you have and not envy what could be.

Personally I enjoy every lady, flaunt what you have

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By *aznshaneCouple
over a year ago

St Annes


"Massively envy and working ridiculously hard on it.

Hate being slightly bigger and guys messaging me because of it makes me cringe! The whole “bbw or bigger/ curvy” inboxes make my skin crawl haha.

Smaller but still curvier is the dreaammm! Ha x"

But you are absolutely stunningly attractive and got the nicest ass and tits to boot. Such an amazing personality and so naughty after a sambuca or two (bottle) your gorgeous inside and out and we are so honoured to class you as a friend

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I don't envy those slimmer than me (most of the population is slimmer than me so if I did that would be a LOT of envy!).

I do accept my body and my size, which is not quite the same as liking it, but it's as close as I can get right now.

I'm very fat, and even when I lose weight I'm still very fat, but I know I'm happier when I'm two to three stone lighter than I am right now so I'm sadly facing the fact I need to change what I'm doing.

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By *ilf3423Man
over a year ago

Beds


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

I’d happily embrace your curves, and any bigger girls curves for that matter

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sexy is a mindset, not a shape. Many bigger, or 'curvy' girls are hugely sexy and totally gorgeous. Own who you are and you're well on the way there. X

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

dirty old town

Love a girl with curves

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Confidence in your own skin is very sexy and desirable ladies so learn to love yourselves is what I would say

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Sexy is a mindset, not a shape. Many bigger, or 'curvy' girls are hugely sexy and totally gorgeous. Own who you are and you're well on the way there. X"

Really agree with this, I'm more confident now in my late forties than I ever have been. Regardless of what size I am

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Confidence in your own skin is very sexy and desirable ladies so learn to love yourselves is what I would say "

Super confident, but still have a preference on body shape lol

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I do envy slimmer girls but I try to remember some men genuinely prefer bigger girls. Those men can make me feel very sexy indeed.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not happy with mine but others seem to be x

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By *r-OreoMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Lol put up "going to bbw night" or "love bbc" and watch the mandems flock you like bees flock honey.

You're welcome

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I do think that more guys prefer bigger ladies than smaller ones.

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By *r-OreoMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I do envy slimmer girls but I try to remember some men genuinely prefer bigger girls. Those men can make me feel very sexy indeed. "

Yea believe it or not when I talk to my friends and they make fun of me for only fucking slim girls. I am the odd one out in my friendship circle. They're all mostly Jamaican guys so maybe that's why

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By *lut and sirCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Ended up just embracing it.. if i didnt. Id have to diet or go to the gym. And thats just not gunna happen

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By *r-OreoMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I do think that more guys prefer bigger ladies than smaller ones. "

Nah I disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we'd all redesign ourselves if we could, but that's not possible for everyone, so be happy in your own skin.

How a person carries themselves and treats other people is by far more important.

Happiness and contentment is the key to being comfortable with yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind losing the stone I put on last year but I love my body and many others do. X

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By *uicytits78Woman
over a year ago

gloucester

I have weight to lose that I put in over the last couple of years.. but I've always been curvy..

I do wish I didn't have tummy or quite such big thighs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love curvy girls ....x

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

I'll embrace your curves ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I were a little slimmer but on the whole I love my curves.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

*holds out arms ready to embrace curves*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*holds out arms ready to embrace curves* "

.....lol....bloody blokes ,

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"*holds out arms ready to embrace curves*

.....lol....bloody blokes ,"

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"*holds out arms ready to embrace curves*

.....lol....bloody blokes ,"

You're Next, when I'm driving pass Doncaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer it, i was a size 10 some time ago and I didn't like it at all. I'd like to get fitter and more toned though, but injury has gotten in the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby will love this thread ...best of fab all on one page xx

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By *eandher4and9Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I embrace all my curves x

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Bigger girls - do not embrace your curves… let me!!! That way 2 people feel better!! Xx. Love your body and don’t let media stereotypes affect your opinion about what’s ‘normal’ or ‘sexy’ or ‘attractive’ and if you don’t look the same you can’t be the above xx you’re gorgeous how you are xxx

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Be happy with what you have...

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Big girls, you are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happier when slimmer but I don’t hate my body, Just parts of it.

What I do envy though is perfect boobs. Mine aren’t the best and I wish they were

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"I am happier when slimmer but I don’t hate my body, Just parts of it.

What I do envy though is perfect boobs. Mine aren’t the best and I wish they were "

Your boobs are gorgeous!! Just saying xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be comfortable in your own skin, embrace how you are and those around you will buy into who you are, a beautiful woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must say I do wish I was a little thinner, but I like food too much.

I still get a bit of attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

You look perfectly delectable to me flaunt it girl, size really doesn't matter its the person within thats important

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By *rincess PhoenixWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I've lost 31lbs and still have about 33lbs to go! However 95% of Fab don't seem to care what size or shape you are and don't judge.

I hate messages where they call me a bbw or the most recent one that told me he liked my fat ass it shakes my confidence a little

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I find slim beautiful girls have just as many body image issues, sometimes more , it’s almost epidemic these days. I even have a mate my age I workout with constantly telling me we’re fat , and we’re definitely not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvier the better with a gorgeous round bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy is a mindset, not a shape. Many bigger, or 'curvy' girls are hugely sexy and totally gorgeous. Own who you are and you're well on the way there. X"

Correct

You can have a feel good sexy mindset, with an achievement over a different shape, then you are well on your way to owning the new you

Can still be curvy but fitter

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By *amLaraCroftWoman
over a year ago

London

I don’t really envy anyone but I appreciate a well put together woman

I am out going and very optimistic always confident and happy

I embrace my curves and don’t think all the effort is worth being miserable for. I swim and eat a balanced diet and I am very happy with my larger body xx

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Embrace them!

See my profile for mum tum and stretch marks galore

If someone doesn’t like it, they can just scroll past. I’m done with hiding away!

You are sexy as hell OP!!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Embrace them!

See my profile for mum tum and stretch marks galore

If someone doesn’t like it, they can just scroll past. I’m done with hiding away!

You are sexy as hell OP!! "

Go girl, go girl, go girl.....

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"I don't envy those slimmer than me (most of the population is slimmer than me so if I did that would be a LOT of envy!).

I do accept my body and my size, which is not quite the same as liking it, but it's as close as I can get right now.

I'm very fat, and even when I lose weight I'm still very fat, but I know I'm happier when I'm two to three stone lighter than I am right now so I'm sadly facing the fact I need to change what I'm doing."

Your lovely how you are love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please embrace them, because there are without a doubt many many people out there who find you sexy, and much prefer women of your stature in comparison to those you may envy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do not going to lie but know how to use what iv got so I embrace that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the same token, there will no doubt be many of women who may envy those women of a bigger stature, for they just can't put on much weight themselves. Always two sides of the same coin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair - curves aren't exclusive to bigger girls.

People are petite and curvy, slim and curvy, athletic and curvy. Teeny tiny and curvy.... as well as voluptuous as curvy and all the other permutations... less curvy.. one big curve...

If I were a man, I wouldn't be able to keep it in my pants because I would want to fuck everyone (including other men hehe but that's another thread)

Shapes aren't as diametrically opposed as we are led to believe.

As for me I lost a load of weight because of a thyroid problem... and whilst I liked fitting into smaller clothes and having more choice... I prefer being bigger.

Seeing bigger girls on here.. on fet.. on insta just does something to my reptilian brain. Sends a message straight to the stem.

Representation is important.

That said I've always been more turned on by my own body than anyone else's. Maybe that's because I'm a perverted narcissist.

But beauty in all its forms is the point.

One is not superior to the other - unless you have very strict preferences.. which is ok too."
If I were a man, I wouldn't be able to keep it in my pants because I would want to fuck everyone (including other men hehe but that's another thread) brilliant that's how I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

I embrace mine. I think it's the best way.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Embrace "

Given half a chance, I would.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

The only slimmer body I envy is my own old one

That said I embrace my curves, I enjoyed every bar of chocolate that helped me achieve them & I'm happier naked than clothed, but I do admit I am attempting to get my old body back but it's health issues driving that change rather than aesthetics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only slimmer body I envy is my own old one

That said I embrace my curves, I enjoyed every bar of chocolate that helped me achieve them & I'm happier naked than clothed, but I do admit I am attempting to get my old body back but it's health issues driving that change rather than aesthetics "

I feel more confident naked than clothed which I find really weird considering I don’t have much confidence body wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I envy curvy girls…. I hate being big but I’m losing weight. Just not quick enough!

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By *cooby07_1Man
over a year ago

nottinghamshire

Nothing better then curvy woman s run hands alover them they are the best so hot

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Embrace them

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

When I was younger I hated my body even though most would probably have considered it enviable.I love my body now even though noone would want to look like me haha.

Although there is alot more to attraction and sexiness ,than how you look.

Embrace your curves.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Yeah I’ll admit to being a little envious sometimes, especially when I work hard to try to lose weight and it is such slow progress and some people have slimmer figures without doing anything.

I know other people like my curves and I do like that but it’s about how I feel about myself when i look in the mirror.

I do love other women’s curves though, it’s just my own I don’t like

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Yeah I’ll admit to being a little envious sometimes, especially when I work hard to try to lose weight and it is such slow progress and some people have slimmer figures without doing anything.

I know other people like my curves and I do like that but it’s about how I feel about myself when i look in the mirror.

I do love other women’s curves though, it’s just my own I don’t like "

You know I admire yours. Xx

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

Just wanted to say that I'd love to embrace your curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace the curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m happier when I’m slimmer x "

Your pictures look great as they are

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By *inkunicorn2021Woman
over a year ago

Downham Market

Absolutely embrace them- every one of them. The more you learn to love them the more confident you will come across.

I now exclusively pick men who absolutely adore bigger women - but I have been known to turn a man or two whose usual type I am not just by confidence alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

comfortable the way i am, but for health reasons I'd like to lose weight.. i admire fems nice figures but never envy them

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I wish I was smaller and fitter but for the most part I rock my body.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I do get flat stomach envy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bigger girl and I hate it! That being said I’ve also been a gym bunny and a size 12/14 and felt huge then. So you can’t win! I am more confident curvier but right now nope. I hate myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my body, I'll never be a slim girl. I've got a fat ass, big tits and a belly. Learn to love your jiggly bits, just means there's plenty to grab onto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always an eye opener how many ladies aren’t happy. It shows the power of advertising and thinking about having the perfect body as I think most men really like curves in all the right places.

I’m fully aware I’m speaking as a complete hypocrite as well btw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confident but I don’t “love” my body.

I’m beginning to love it as I lose my weight!

I wouldn’t say I’m envious but I admire women with beautiful bodies regardless of size!

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

I was a size 16/18 when I left school in 1976 and blew up to a 26 by the time I married and had my sons.

Wasn't happy being a 26/28 so I slimmed down again to an 18/20

I embrace my curves, but only to the lower end of the scale.

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

If you look back at pictures from when we first joined this in March last year I was about 2 stone lighter (pre lockdown) felt so so confident, now I’m heavier (current pics) I’m just not the same confidence wise but I’ve been on cam quite a few times and the amount of compliments that come in amazes me so it just goes to show that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we should try to learn to love ourselves. It’s very difficult though … so appreciate everyone’s lovely comments x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Envy slimmer girls, I hate being bigger. Am losing weight though "

Hi

I just looked at your profile and your pics.

We all need to be comfortable in our own bodies and love ourselves first! But…….

Wow!! Your profile is great and your pics are so sexy!! xx

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By *oloris obsequiumWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd like to be slimmer, can be self conscious of my tummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I honestly wish I was smaller xx"

You look absolutely stunning in the photos on your profile! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really been slim, would absolutely love to be though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the most part I think I’ve accepted my curves.

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"If you look back at pictures from when we first joined this in March last year I was about 2 stone lighter (pre lockdown) felt so so confident, now I’m heavier (current pics) I’m just not the same confidence wise but I’ve been on cam quite a few times and the amount of compliments that come in amazes me so it just goes to show that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we should try to learn to love ourselves. It’s very difficult though … so appreciate everyone’s lovely comments x"

No, I've looked at your pictures and no way is there a 2 stone difference. All I see in the recent ones are a sexy curvy woman. You have a beautiful body!

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Fuk other people's thoughts or opinions we all are what we are so I guess we all just have to accept it but curves are still sexy

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By *outhwalesbbwWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend,

I joined here to gain more confidence,as a bigger girl.

Whilst Ive had more attention,I'm still not happy with how I look,or

comfortable with myself naked.

Despite the pictures

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By *ugRollersCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle


"If you look back at pictures from when we first joined this in March last year I was about 2 stone lighter (pre lockdown) felt so so confident, now I’m heavier (current pics) I’m just not the same confidence wise but I’ve been on cam quite a few times and the amount of compliments that come in amazes me so it just goes to show that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and we should try to learn to love ourselves. It’s very difficult though … so appreciate everyone’s lovely comments x

No, I've looked at your pictures and no way is there a 2 stone difference. All I see in the recent ones are a sexy curvy woman. You have a beautiful body! "

Ah dude that’s so kind, but there’s a massive difference … I can feel it in my waist band haha Nevermind I will get back to pre lockdown one way or another but I have been saying that since April hahahah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is sexy

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

I embrace my curves every single day! And I know hubby loves them too. I really don't care what others think xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy is sexy"
100%

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes


"Fuk other people's thoughts or opinions we all are what we are so I guess we all just have to accept it but curves are still sexy "

Absolutely xx

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes


"For the most part I think I’ve accepted my curves. "

You so should! Hubby and I just peeked your profile and we think your pics are superb xx

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

LikesEmBig

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

We are far to self critical on ourselves. Thin, fat, althletic, toned, wobbly, short, tall..we will only concentrate on the bits we hate and try to hide, when in fact most take no notice as too busy checking out the good bits we dont notice in ourseleves. lol

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan


"Fuk other people's thoughts or opinions we all are what we are so I guess we all just have to accept it but curves are still sexy

Absolutely xx"
why thank you very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never really been slim, would absolutely love to be though!"

Hi

I just had a look at your profile and pics…..wow!! Absolutely gorgeous! You are stunning!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined here to gain more confidence,as a bigger girl.

Whilst Ive had more attention,I'm still not happy with how I look,or

comfortable with myself naked.

Despite the pictures"

I’m lease be happy with how you look and try to be comfortable with yourself naked….you are gorgeous!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the most part I think I’ve accepted my curves.

You so should! Hubby and I just peeked your profile and we think your pics are superb xx"

Thank you!

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By *r-OreoMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Nothing more unattractive than a woman with low confidence

Fabs is the biggest confidence booster for women since anti-wrinkle cream...Just be yourself one thing I know is on fabs a woman's size doesn't matter at all....Infact bigger women get equally or even more attention than slim women if i was to guess.

Post some alot of thirsty pics.. You're welcome

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By *r-OreoMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Post some more***

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I hate the way I look, seriously hate it. I am working on it. I don't want to be skinny as I'd look ill but I'd like to reduce my mum tum. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest turn on is a woman with curves I love them

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Nothing more unattractive than a woman with low confidence

Fabs is the biggest confidence booster for women since anti-wrinkle cream...Just be yourself one thing I know is on fabs a woman's size doesn't matter at all....Infact bigger women get equally or even more attention than slim women if i was to guess.

Post some alot of thirsty pics.. You're welcome "

I’ve never found Fab to be confidence boosting, in fact it can easily have the opposite effect!

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

I'd happily embrace your curves for you if it helps

I believe there's envy everywhere. There's a slim girl out there wishing her bum and boobs were bigger.

As someone has mentioned, people love different shapes and sizes here on Fabs. Love who you are and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bigger woman I find it a struggle - I am what I am and I am unlikely to change. I admire ALL other women in all kinds of bodies! It’s the terminology I’m not happy about…curvy suggests slim but with a lovely bum, hips and boobs. I personally don’t like BBW as a title. Fat seems a bit harsh but for me it’s true.

We need to be kind to ourselves and other people. G

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

I don't feel envy when I see slim women, I appreciate the way they look. I'm far bigger than I should be and am working at losing it (4 stone off so far). I don't like that my weight limits me as it's had an impact on my knees more than anything. Sexiness and beauty come from within in my opinion.

One thing I hate is slim people looking down on larger ladies.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd embrace those curves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a bigger woman I find it a struggle - I am what I am and I am unlikely to change. I admire ALL other women in all kinds of bodies! It’s the terminology I’m not happy about…curvy suggests slim but with a lovely bum, hips and boobs. I personally don’t like BBW as a title. Fat seems a bit harsh but for me it’s true.

We need to be kind to ourselves and other people. G "

This is exactly true dont worry both others just accept and admire lol.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The saying is true, skinny dudes love bigger women haha. Nearly every girl I’ve been with has been thick. There’s just more to love. Crush me with yo thighs.. sit on my face ahahah

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By *inch love bbwMan
over a year ago

Bigger women are beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bigger woman I find it a struggle - I am what I am and I am unlikely to change. I admire ALL other women in all kinds of bodies! It’s the terminology I’m not happy about…curvy suggests slim but with a lovely bum, hips and boobs. I personally don’t like BBW as a title. Fat seems a bit harsh but for me it’s true.

We need to be kind to ourselves and other people. G "

What about one of the following?

Rubenesque, curvaceous, full-figured, ripe, lush, curvalicious, voluptuous or (newly discovered) zaftig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bigger woman I find it a struggle - I am what I am and I am unlikely to change. I admire ALL other women in all kinds of bodies! It’s the terminology I’m not happy about…curvy suggests slim but with a lovely bum, hips and boobs. I personally don’t like BBW as a title. Fat seems a bit harsh but for me it’s true.

We need to be kind to ourselves and other people. G

What about one of the following?

Rubenesque, curvaceous, full-figured, ripe, lush, curvalicious, voluptuous or (newly discovered) zaftig "

They all sound wonderful!! I would LOVE to meet anyone who used any of the above to describe themselves. But I am so scared of rejection upon meeting that I feel I need to say fat - loud and clear so that no-one expects curvy Kim Kardashian and is horrified by little fat me when I rock up!! So many terms for larger women conjure up narrow waisted yet buxom beauties and I don’t feel represented by them.

I am woman and confident, come grab a handful!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bigger woman I find it a struggle - I am what I am and I am unlikely to change. I admire ALL other women in all kinds of bodies! It’s the terminology I’m not happy about…curvy suggests slim but with a lovely bum, hips and boobs. I personally don’t like BBW as a title. Fat seems a bit harsh but for me it’s true.

We need to be kind to ourselves and other people. G

What about one of the following?

Rubenesque, curvaceous, full-figured, ripe, lush, curvalicious, voluptuous or (newly discovered) zaftig

They all sound wonderful!! I would LOVE to meet anyone who used any of the above to describe themselves. But I am so scared of rejection upon meeting that I feel I need to say fat - loud and clear so that no-one expects curvy Kim Kardashian and is horrified by little fat me when I rock up!! So many terms for larger women conjure up narrow waisted yet buxom beauties and I don’t feel represented by them.

I am woman and confident, come grab a handful!! "

I disagree. Claim one of those words for yourself and be surprised by how many men will respond. I've just updated my profile - dare you!

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By *tag and curvey HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

herts

I make personally prefer chubby curves what ever is allowed to be said. I like a belly or milf tummy juicy bum. Wife has the perfect body for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing as an 'unsexy' body, but give me curves everyday of the week...........I wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lover of curves here - boobs, bums , tums xx

As sexy woman is a sexy woman regardless of her dimensions xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wish I had the confidence to pull off my curves but unfortunately I absolutely hate my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should embrace them curves all shapes and sizes are gorgeous

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I agree that we should all be able to embrace our curves etc, but I’m sure I can’t be the only lady here that’s been subjected to insults about her size over the years by random males; I can think of examples at school, on nights out and also online in more recent years. It’s hard to believe that people find it attractive when you’ve had those experiences. I know it shouldn’t matter but you can’t help being affected by it sadly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that we should all be able to embrace our curves etc, but I’m sure I can’t be the only lady here that’s been subjected to insults about her size over the years by random males; I can think of examples at school, on nights out and also online in more recent years. It’s hard to believe that people find it attractive when you’ve had those experiences. I know it shouldn’t matter but you can’t help being affected by it sadly!"

I’ve been a big lady all my life and got bullied for it when I was younger and that has stuck with me ever since.

It’s rare I see a full body photo of myself and think I look good.

I’ve also had abuse on here over the years when I’ve turned guys down but I just block them and move on although their comments always stick in my mind.

I’ll never be body confident but I know that there are some guys out there who like my mum tum and thick thighs

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield


"So im a bigger girl and had a child just curious do other girls my size envy slimmer girl or just embrace there curves xx"

You look sexy to me

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By *lipperyhalo69Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Big girl here and proud!

Flaunt what you have, life's to short to worry about what ifs

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I have no body envy for others, I don't like my body however I am working on that mentally and physically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Envy slimmer girls, I hate being bigger. Am losing weight though "
you look stunning

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Nothing wrong with you ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most women prefer to be slim as that's what the media portray as attractive but since being on fab I'm starting to believe men prefer a lady with curves.

I always had a flat stomach, even after having kids until menopause happened and doesn't matter how much I lose I also have the belly and so dislike it.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I hate being big. We’re taught that not being slim makes us non-women by the media. As much as I hate this, I’d still give anything to be skinny!

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By *nfinitylandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I find it a bit upsetting that so many woman aren't happy with their bodies. The female body is beautiful big or small

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By *onseagullMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I think most women prefer to be slim as that's what the media portray as attractive but since being on fab I'm starting to believe men prefer a lady with curves.

I always had a flat stomach, even after having kids until menopause happened and doesn't matter how much I lose I also have the belly and so dislike it. "

But you know you look fantastic?

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By *onseagullMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"I hate being big. We’re taught that not being slim makes us non-women by the media. As much as I hate this, I’d still give anything to be skinny!"

You look absolutely wonderful with your curves and such fantastic eyes as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate being big. We’re taught that not being slim makes us non-women by the media. As much as I hate this, I’d still give anything to be skinny!"

Seriously, you're not in anyway big.

You have an amazing body, pretty much perfect in my opinion.

Curves are awesome, especially athletic ones like yours

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By *imbob85Man
over a year ago

inverness

All women are stunning no matter there size or shape

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025

Embrace and flaunt your curves..... Its what we are all about!!

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 2025


"I have no body envy for others, I don't like my body however I am working on that mentally and physically. "

You are stunning missus and we both think you're lovely!!

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

love the skin your in, as long as you love your body who cares what others look like.

If you don’t like your body, do something about it, but don’t tell anyone, just do it.

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By *lackpepper78Man
over a year ago

St Albans

Think we have to respect individuals' image of their bodies and how/whether they'd like to change them, but natural is natural and natural is sexy, because that's what's makes us, us.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Chunky's curve admiration service is available. Atm it's free of charge.

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By *ad_DriverMan
over a year ago

Driffield


"To be fair - curves aren't exclusive to bigger girls.

People are petite and curvy, slim and curvy, athletic and curvy. Teeny tiny and curvy.... as well as voluptuous as curvy and all the other permutations... less curvy.. one big curve...

If I were a man, I wouldn't be able to keep it in my pants because I would want to fuck everyone (including other men hehe but that's another thread)

Shapes aren't as diametrically opposed as we are led to believe.

As for me I lost a load of weight because of a thyroid problem... and whilst I liked fitting into smaller clothes and having more choice... I prefer being bigger.

Seeing bigger girls on here.. on fet.. on insta just does something to my reptilian brain. Sends a message straight to the stem.

Representation is important.

That said I've always been more turned on by my own body than anyone else's. Maybe that's because I'm a perverted narcissist.

But beauty in all its forms is the point.

One is not superior to the other - unless you have very strict preferences.. which is ok too."

Great response and attitude to life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to work with what you’ve got, there’s no point in spending your life waiting to live until you’re slimmer, your hair grows, you lose your cellulite, etc etc etc. Life is for living. There’s nothing wrong with thinking you’re hot as fuck, even if some people don’t agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work those curves girls. Imo big girls look so utterly feminine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely adore curves. Such a turn on.

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Wish I was slimmer but have come to terms to enjoy what I have xx

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By *uckyou8Man
over a year ago

Coventry

my weakness big girls love to lic deep and slap on ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that we should all be able to embrace our curves etc, but I’m sure I can’t be the only lady here that’s been subjected to insults about her size over the years by random males; I can think of examples at school, on nights out and also online in more recent years. It’s hard to believe that people find it attractive when you’ve had those experiences. I know it shouldn’t matter but you can’t help being affected by it sadly!"

Sadly negatives stick to us like velcro and positives are like silk to our subconscious. The trick is to actively seek more silk moments. The 10% percent of nob heads that have a negative opinion about your body shape are just that, nob heads and as different as it is to put into practice, they need to be ignored.

You have a stunning body shape and I bet you have an extremely sexy smile too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curves all the way

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