FabSwingers.com forum: SINGLE GUYS!

By *ollynTwitch OP Couple
over a year ago

Sible

For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!??

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? "

Just block single guys? Don't see the problem.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Could you explain a bit more, I don't really understand your post. What should Fab be?

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only being a single man was a protected characteristic…!!

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By *xmarkxx321Man
over a year ago

sittingbourne

If your saying that single men should be banned does that mean the single women should be too??

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Quite a few females hide their profiles for obvious reasons…

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By *ollynTwitch OP Couple
over a year ago

Sible

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Just hide single blokes, and block messages from them

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Entire population!!!!????

I don't think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your saying that single men should be banned does that mean the single women should be too??"

There's nowhere near enough women on here ...

We stay

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Just block every single male profile you come across and use the filters.

Not particularly complicated.

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? "

But youve got M on your looking for, then say will find you. Either want them or you dont

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? "

I agree with you. It's something like 75% of the site is single guys now and there's no way all thise guys are getting meets. Just look at the daily posts in these forums about it. What's stranger is people telling them to go to clubs or social events like they don't limit single guys as well.

It's a reality that a lot of guys just won't get a meet. It's how it is.

HOWEVER.....it's not for us to decide who can or can't join Fab and its most certainly not for us to say who others should or shouldn't be able to meet. Everyone deserves deserves chance to explore and see what happens.

So the only thing you can do if single guys are not for you is to just block the guys completely and ignore them.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"If your saying that single men should be banned does that mean the single women should be too??"

This totally

Can't allow one and ban the other

Just block them as others have suggested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean by that x but don't tar us all with the same brush x there are a lot nice guys on here too

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Why don’t you just put message filters on?

The site has given you a perfectly acceptable fix for what you see a problem.

What do you want them to do? Not allow single guy profiles?

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By *ollynTwitch OP Couple
over a year ago

Sible

Some would try lol

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By *ollynTwitch OP Couple
over a year ago

Sible

Clearly didn't read, where did I say no males at all! I said its become over run! Too many, you know... its not difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is 'what it should be'? Couples only? Goodbye to threesomes then which would annoy a lot of couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Some of us are prefer single guys to couples & that includes my couples profile too

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By *ollynTwitch OP Couple
over a year ago

Sible

let me rephrase - "Close The doors" aka far too many single guys! I'm not objecting merely stating far too many and Swinging which is or was predominantly couples sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously just fit couples or young fit hung lads no doubt would be aloud

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"let me rephrase - "Close The doors" aka far too many single guys! I'm not objecting merely stating far too many and Swinging which is or was predominantly couples sharing. "

Close the doors on what though? Your basically saying close the doors on single guys like they can’t swing too lol.

By the couples sharing logic I can’t swing either haha.

Your saying far too many, but other than giving you the option to block single guys like they have, how can they “close the doors”?

Do you not want single men to be allowed on here just because that’s not what your looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has been said before..

Chuck the Filters on, stop Single Guys messaging You..

But as has also been said, please don't tar us all with the same brush!

I've been turned down thanks to that mentality and it's not fun!

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Ban all single men? Well that's me fucked then. its been nice knowing you all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very myopic opinion...filters designed for a reason. Individual choices are the moral fibre of democratic process.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I am only here for the single men.

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

"let me rephrase - "Close The doors" aka far too many single guys! I'm not objecting merely stating far too many and Swinging which is or was predominantly couples sharing. "

Nope, single guys are why we started swinging.

I really don't get the point of this thread, when fab gives you the tools to block single guys

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? "

The entire population? really

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I get what you mean about shutting the doors. Not getting rid of single guys, just stopping more joining as it's being overrun.

However, surely that just means you have more options of who to meet? Isn't that a good thing?

If it's because they are a hassle, block them (as others have said) and hunt them down yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a SINGLE guy and I get asked by couples and group organisers to attend there nights because not all single guys are looking for a quick fuck. I’m genuine, honest and love to have a good time, if you don’t like or want to chat to single guys then block them, take it that’s the case for single lady’s also.

Happy Fabbing and everyone stay safe x

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I think what OP is suggesting is that the site limits single guys in the same way clubs do on the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet you indicate you are looking for M (single men) on your profile… odd. Attention-seeking?

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Us poor single males

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By *oldswarriorMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"I think what OP is suggesting is that the site limits single guys in the same way clubs do on the night."

But this is an open, free to join site for anyone over the age of 18.

Limiting single men is not the problem when the site provides specific tools to filter and block the said issue.

I'm sure the OP was well aware of this when they joined.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If the site were to limit the number of single male profiles, there would be a proliferation of couples profiles where the wife is at work, in bed, or visiting a sick relative.

If your 'Looking for' says men, then surely you should understand why men will contact you, especially with several veri's from single men?

If you don't want them to contact you then just stick on your message filters. It won't eliminate everyone but it will drastically cut down the messages.

The site caters for all people, and let's not forget that some of us are here to find single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"let me rephrase - "Close The doors" aka far too many single guys! I'm not objecting merely stating far too many and Swinging which is or was predominantly couples sharing. "

utter rubbish swinging has never been couples only that just wishful thinking for a few couples swinging is for all not a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess your getting lots of messages when your profile says "single Men we'll find you"

If you block messages from single Men that'll solve your problem.

I bet alot of us single Men actually contribute towards the site so I doubt they would cut our numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"let me rephrase - "Close The doors" aka far too many single guys! I'm not objecting merely stating far too many and Swinging which is or was predominantly couples sharing.

utter rubbish swinging has never been couples only that just wishful thinking for a few couples swinging is for all not a few"

and its this thinking with couples and clubs that will slowly kill the swinging clubs too we and many other couples go to clubs to meet guys yet there hardly ever any there due to moaning couples ... yet if it was not for the guys moneny most clubs would hit a brick wall

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Well for those of us who only look for single guys to play with, any influx of them is nothing more than positive. Then again, it wouldn’t be a day on FAB without some post in the forums slagging single guys off some way.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? "

This post screams entitlement… why should single men by prevented from joining this site and basking in this wonderful lifestyle? If we’re going by the same logic that you inadvertently tried to make out about us not being “proper swingers” then the same should be applied to single women no?

What a pointless post this is. As already has been said, filters are your friend and block if you don’t want single men messaging you….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So... I'm in a couple in a hothusband situation, should that mean I'm limited to using this couples profile or should I be allowed a secondary profile too?

What should be the line in the sand? You can't say stop allowing the men in unless you're also going to stop women as its not very equal is it?

Single guys make a fair amount of revenue for fab so they'll never stop letting them in.

Doughnut

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

OK, then as a compromise maybe Fab could ban all single males other than me?

I think that we can all agree that this is a perfectly reasonable solution.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Stirred up quite a hornets nest but in the OPs defence I think they were getting at say for arguments sake there are 1000 guys already on here then that's the max. Same as clubs,they don't let piles of guys just roll in,they get a balance. Impossible to do on a website such as this but Holy Hell,some people can't read.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? "
what should it be? Is wanting lots of partners not part if swinging. Just block single guys if your not after them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

Well said x

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? what should it be? Is wanting lots of partners not part if swinging. Just block single guys if your not after them."

Well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a SINGLE guy and I get asked by couples and group organisers to attend there nights because not all single guys are looking for a quick fuck. I’m genuine, honest and love to have a good time, if you don’t like or want to chat to single guys then block them, take it that’s the case for single lady’s also.

Happy Fabbing and everyone stay safe x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Stirred up quite a hornets nest but in the OPs defence I think they were getting at say for arguments sake there are 1000 guys already on here then that's the max. Same as clubs,they don't let piles of guys just roll in,they get a balance. Impossible to do on a website such as this but Holy Hell,some people can't read."

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By *ust_FlynnMan
over a year ago

St Neots

Who do you let in and who do you reject then?

Is it just on numbers so newcomers don’t get the opportunity to explore the lifestyle but disrespectful/lurkers/time wasters get to stay because they’ve been here a while ?

Or are we sorting single guys out on how attractive they are …. Who picks that!? What might be attractive to me might not be to the next person?

There’s a lot of irritating single guys on fab yes …but we’ve also come across single women and couples that have found their way to our block list too.

The way I see it is you don’t have to interact with any person you don’t want to, fab gives the ability to block single men, new accounts, unverified people from even interacting with you.

Seems to be a total non issue here?

Elle.

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

"If your saying that single men should be banned does that mean the single women should be too??"

I bloody well hope not lol x

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By *orello-pieWoman
over a year ago

southwest

Who do you let in and who do you reject then?

Is it just on numbers so newcomers don’t get the opportunity to explore the lifestyle but disrespectful/lurkers/time wasters get to stay because they’ve been here a while ?

Or are we sorting single guys out on how attractive they are …. Who picks that!? What might be attractive to me might not be to the next person?

There’s a lot of irritating single guys on fab yes …but we’ve also come across single women and couples that have found their way to our block list too.

The way I see it is you don’t have to interact with any person you don’t want to, fab gives the ability to block single men, new accounts, unverified people from even interacting with you.

Seems to be a total non issue here?

Elle."

Well said Elle!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

We 99% of time activly look for single guys. We havecquite clearly on profile say, we have on status or a meet up if we're out and looking. We had 4 offers to play yesterday. As they hadn't read the profile. They were just deleated and we didn't give it a second thought.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I love them"

We love you too

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"We 99% of time activly look for single guys. We havecquite clearly on profile say, we have on status or a meet up if we're out and looking. We had 4 offers to play yesterday. As they hadn't read the profile. They were just deleated and we didn't give it a second thought.

Spot on, I guess some people just love drama

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why should someone not be allowed to join .Just because you think there are too many that don't suit what you want doesn't mean they won't suit others.

The site gives you the means to stop messages etc if you don't want them off single men. If you want to still meet some them go actually look for those who might interest you.

But so many like to sit back expecting the men to do all the work on here them moan because those that message don't suit what they are looking for.

I always find it amusing how people want fab to change just to suit them as though they are more important on here than anyone else.

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By *ipvanwinkieMan
over a year ago

out of town!

I always find it amusing how people want fab to change just to suit them as though they are more important on here than anyone else. "

This.

Plus the dramatic profiles.

Some folk can’t help themselves.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

The attacking of single men is relentless on here now, this is another example. So single men are to be excluded from the swinging scene and it’s now the exclusive privilege of only couples?? Unbelievable

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

sexytown

I believe that everyone should be made to be photo verified within 24hours until then restricted too what profiles they can look at!! as there are a lot of lurkers and not just single guys a lot of women who join and then want you to go to a website etc etc. It needs to be more balanced for us true swingers.

Just put the appropriate filters up and enjoy

I’ve a couples profile and a lot of guys don’t read the basics we just block no stress!!!

Have a Fabulous Time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? "

Just think how much money the site makes from single males who are site sponsors. Still it doesn't seem like a good balance of genders on here and men do heavily outnumber other genders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The attacking of single men is relentless on here now, this is another example. So single men are to be excluded from the swinging scene and it’s now the exclusive privilege of only couples?? Unbelievable

I think alot of men don't understand why they can't get meets on here but if the site is mainly full of men then it will be harder to stand out from the crowd.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I think alot of men don't understand why they can't get meets on here but if the site is mainly full of men then it will be harder to stand out from the crowd. "

I do agree with that but excluding them isn’t the answer. More rigid criteria to join could be xx

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"For a swingers site, FAB is getting rediculous now, its more of a Single Mens site looking to fuck their way through the entire population!!

WHEN is the site going to EVER close its doors and make it what it should be!?? "

And the award for todays have a dig at single guys...goes toooo..

So I can decide whether to stay or go...

Can you expand on what it should be ? Limits you'd like etc ?

Should I stay or should I go now..

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Swinging websites have always been over subscribed with single guys. Same goes with swinger clubs (though they can’t access all nights). There are two main reasons for that...

1) Most guys are permanently horny and always up for some action!

2) Guys are cashcows (just look at club entrance fees).

I think the bigger problem is that so many of the single guys are not really what you might class as swingers. They are looking for casual sex (nothing wrong with that) but many don’t “get” swinging and have been suckered in to places like Fab by the instant gratification low effort encouraged by swiping left/right.

You only have to see the daily “why can’t I get any action” threads to know that.

The guys who fo get/understand swinging get plenty of action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alot of men don't understand why they can't get meets on here but if the site is mainly full of men then it will be harder to stand out from the crowd.

I do agree with that but excluding them isn’t the answer. More rigid criteria to join could be xx"

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I think alot of men don't understand why they can't get meets on here but if the site is mainly full of men then it will be harder to stand out from the crowd.

I do agree with that but excluding them isn’t the answer. More rigid criteria to join could be xx

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access? "

I think everyone should have to photo verify as a minimum tbh. I get loads of approaches from what are clearly fake couples profiles

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

I think alot of men don't understand why they can't get meets on here but if the site is mainly full of men then it will be harder to stand out from the crowd.

I do agree with that but excluding them isn’t the answer. More rigid criteria to join could be xx

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access?

I think everyone should have to photo verify as a minimum tbh. I get loads of approaches from what are clearly fake couples profiles"

Agree with that and becoming more necessary as years go on (we aren’t but are going to change that as it is hypocritical to start asking that of others)

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

This is akin to any real club, but on a virtual level:

You have lots of single men that will pay the entrance fee, dole out money for drinks for the women in the room, and then navigate the room with as many lies and deceptions as they can in an attempt to finagle some horizontal action.

And because the majority of men act this way, ALL get called out for their immature and disrespectful actions.

I don't contact any couples on here. If they are interested in me, they can read my profile and if I am interested, we can engage further.

I don't play the disrespect game, EVER.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"let me rephrase - "Close The doors" aka far too many single guys! I'm not objecting merely stating far too many and Swinging which is or was predominantly couples sharing.

Close the doors on what though? Your basically saying close the doors on single guys like they can’t swing too lol.

By the couples sharing logic I can’t swing either haha.

Your saying far too many, but other than giving you the option to block single guys like they have, how can they “close the doors”?

Do you not want single men to be allowed on here just because that’s not what your looking for? "

Bravo! Well said! X

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have considered carefully the OPs complaint. If they don't want men contacting them then, as other have said, block them and remove looking for men from their profile; that is simple. However, I have concluded it is not a case of too many men on Fab.

There is an equal number of men and women in this country. It is therefore the unacceptable, antisocial, failure of women in general, whether in a relationship or not, to fulfil their public duty and join Fab to even up the numbers.

Where are all these women? Why must men carry the burden of joining alone? Why must a small select elite band of real women be left to represent their gender whilst their sisters hide on 'facepage' and shirk their responsibility?

We must hunt them down and get them signed up so others like the poor harrassed overloaded OP can have some peace.

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By *aramelcock69Man
over a year ago

west midlands

Single guy here

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

You can use filters to block single men and not search for single men in the searches and the site will work for you how you want it to

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access? "

Why?

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access?

Why? "

Because it would make it harder for someone to pass themselves off as something they are not. For example a single guy or woman pretending to be a couple. It’ doesn’t cost them anything to do. Obviously it would cost the site missed revenue so maybe it’s not a viable option.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access?

Why?

So single men have to verify their single male account so they can't pretend to be a couple?

I am lost

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access?

Why?

So single men have to verify their single male account so they can't pretend to be a couple?

I am lost"

No ! To photo verify as a couple you have to present a photo with two people in it and your fabswingers name on paper. If you’re a single with the intention to deceive you can’t do that if photo verification is mandatory

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access?

Why?

So single men have to verify their single male account so they can't pretend to be a couple?

I am lost

Blimey I didn't know how PV's work, thanks for that

I think maybe you should read the post I was asking the question of why too though, it isn't about couples. It was about the OP

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access?

Why?

So single men have to verify their single male account so they can't pretend to be a couple?

I am lost

Everyone should have to verify with a photo to prove they match their profile and with ID I think. Hopefully that’s the way social media goes… a lot less abusive idiots if so!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

OK back to the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point in excluding them, they have just as much right to be here as anyone else, maybe make single male profiles photo verify before they have full site access?

Why? "

Why not??

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Don’t think they should be banned , probably only access to one room where they have their profile pictures and verifications, where couples interested in meeting single guys could visit , allow them into one chat room , some of us couples are interested and the ones not looking wouldn’t be plagued by them , filters not great as they do set up couples profiles, be just like the club we use , single guys with restrictions. We get so many messages from guys who don’t read our profile , even with filters on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and make it what it should be!?? "

I am genuinely intrigued as to 'what it should be' having only ever been a member of this swinging site.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok lets end this I think as it is not very respectful to decent men on the site. They are on here to find fun too and not just be fodder for the couples or females who throw them some crumbs or think they should be lined up to see if they can be useful

Respect for others is a good thing.

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