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How would u approach your other half

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would u approach you other half about asking them to give swinging a try ?

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By *reybearMan
over a year ago

medway

As a first for both of you, or to bring them into something you are already into?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try watching 'screw my wife please' porn and see if she gets wet!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We were watching an orgy scene from a porn DVD filmed in La Chambre (one of the 'Swinger' series) and he asked her if she'd like to try it - she said yes, so we visited La Chambre that Saturday night (wasn't far away). We didn't swap that first visit, but we liked the scene so much we went every month and soon we were doing what the couples were doing in that DVD! Haven't stopped since, and that was 10 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have done it a little before a really enjoyed it i know my other half would be willing to give it a try as alot of her family do it but was just wondering how to get the ball rolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with fantasy, maybe some group porn, get a discussion going then ask them if they want to try it... simple really just needs open conversation.

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By *reybearMan
over a year ago

medway

I jus t asked (it was new to both o us) , but knowing what I know now, I would say go to a club and play together in a couples room and see if you like the idea of others around you, from there it is a small step to someone else joining in...

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

take her on holiday to cap de agde

i just come back ex had booked it before we split this summer, she had booked it as naturist holiday as we still friend or more than friends we went, she found out as week went on that she enjoyed watching others!! so not sure were we go soft swing maybe.

she was happy having sex on beach and club by the end of the week just not sure about letting anyone else touch her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont understand men who say they find it difficult to discuss things with their wives.

i was reading an article in forum magazine once about swinging and just said to him, how would you like to try that then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How very dare you.

It's all down to peoples preference/choice.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

a ex girlfriend of mine was giving me a bj

and informed me her friend had had a three some was quite taken back asked her did she want one yes but i never chased it up was still recovering from cumming missed opportunity wished i had did , so ask her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told hubby from the start when we 1st met what i did.

Just ask her what her fantasy is and take it from there...

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Man up and get her told ....women love that......oh and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Told hubby from the start when we 1st met what i did.

Just ask her what her fantasy is and take it from there..."

Yep agreed, discuss fantasys with eachother, that's how we started

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Ask what here fantasy is and then show her how to make it real.

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By *empnbunkCouple
over a year ago

south coast

Make her a nice candle lit dinner take her by the hand and whisper to her..."we're just 2 lost souls swimming in a fish bowl year after year....want to try swinging and shag lots of people? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we were away for the weekend a couple of months back and were sat in a bar chatting

someone walked through the bar wearing not very much and somehow the conversation went from me telling her i'd love to see her in a bar in really sexy clothing.....

that quickly moved from her saying "well it wouldn't be allowed in here" to talking about clubs where it would be allowed, out came her phone and we were looking at swingers clubs...and she said "yeah ok lets do it"

that was only 12 weeks ago

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