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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() That’s a really subjective view and not really helpful here! (Or even remotely true) | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() Same ! I’d never came from a bj before Mrs Crazy, she knows what gets me going and has managed it loads of times. If you know what gets you off then let the other person know what to do | |||
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"I've never been able to cum from a blowjob, usually ends with a vigorous wank or fuck so I can cum. Is this common or am I just odd?" I worked out it was 2015 the last time I cum from a bj, and 2014 was the first time I ever cum in a woman’s mouth. I think it’s more common for a man not to cum from a bj than people admit, mostly because they don’t want to upset a female……. ![]() | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() I know right ! If anyone started spitting all over my cock il politely ask them to stop please haha this is a very 'porn' view of bjs | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() I find spitting a massive turn off. People are watching too much porn. | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() The ‘you’re just not doing it right’ attitude that dispels all aspects of individual differences drives me insane! I hide my frustrations well, I know ![]() | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() Haven’t you heard? There’s no such thing as ‘a bad bj’ ………apparently ![]() | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() Not at all, from your perspective maybe, but not from mine. I'm far more active in the bedroom and can find lay back being pleasured this way somewhat a tad boring, it's fine for a short while but to keep going until climax, not. | |||
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"I've never been able to cum from a blowjob, usually ends with a vigorous wank or fuck so I can cum. Is this common or am I just odd?" I’m the same. Can only cum through penetration of the pussy. Blowjobs make me either desensitised or overly sensitive. | |||
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"Most men are the same I have cummed from 2 bjs in my life. " Have you any research data to support that first statement? If not, it’s a big step to generalise and assume most men are the same (or similar) to you. I’ve cum loads from having my cock sucked in the past…. And equally had lots of BJs that didn’t make me cum. More about the mood of the moment than the woman or her technique, in my experience… | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() ![]() Expecially if the jaw is hurting, neck killing, knees sore after 30 mins of top draw effort. And he still blames you haha ffs | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() ![]() Me too. I've had some amazing blowjobs, and I know she knows how to do them well... but they just don't do it for me in that way. I enjoy them, but I've never cum from them. Not everyone is or should be the same. | |||
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"Have cum on every BJ I have had since I was 16! Does that make me odd?" Could mean you may have a ‘hair trigger’, or you might only have received 2 bj’s since the age of 16? | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() ![]() Can I just take a moment to give this reply the recognition it deserves please? ![]() | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() Nonsense!..Some guys have self control and don't go off like a loose cannon, others just don't like them, and for some, it just doesn't make them cum. | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() It’s all about self control. I won’t cum from a blowjob until my partners sorted.. would feel guilty. Mutual fun and also she knows what shes doing. We’re doing a couple profile soon so it’ll be great to watch her in another couple | |||
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"Most of the girls who’ve given me a BJ were never happy to have cum in their mouths so I’ve just never done it. The odd one or 2 who were happy with it and told me they wanted it I did but it was normally after having a fuck and me putting it in mouth after. Most of the time oral has been part of the forplay and never the endgame. Would love to receive just a blowjob knowing the women wanted all of my load in her mouth. Makes it much easier to cum then thinking about not cumming!! " I’m the same mate; the first time I ever cum in a woman’s mouth (2014 btw), I could only do it by fucking her pussy then pulling out to finish off in her mouth ![]() | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() It’s probably more psychological than anything to do with the person giving | |||
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"I've never been able to cum from a blowjob, usually ends with a vigorous wank or fuck so I can cum. Is this common or am I just odd?" I never cum from just blowjob always need to wank to finish. one time I nearly cum because the blowjob was amazing I stopped quickly fucked her then cum | |||
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"I keep seeing comments like if a girl knows what she’s doing. Tell the girl what you love and how you like it before a meet. Find a girl who loves to please. Every guy is different but it takes two to have the best blow job ever ![]() Exactly that. There's nothing to stop anyone saying what pleases them. And sexy when it's acted on. | |||
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"I find that a guy who struggles to come while receiving oral usually changes his mind when I lube my middle finger gently insert it into him and probe for the walnut" A proven technique. ![]() | |||
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"If I use my fingers and mouth together when I suck Tom he always cums. Not so much if I only use my mouth. Sometimes I can be Down there for ages and he won't cum! " Toms a very lucky boy ![]() | |||
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"I find that a guy who struggles to come while receiving oral usually changes his mind when I lube my middle finger gently insert it into him and probe for the walnut A proven technique. ![]() And one that works for me every time lol | |||
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"Try the other way round then ....get yourself on the verge then start the bj" Genius! | |||
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"BJs make me cum for sure. If it’s not working for you, tell them how to make it better" It's down to this in my experience. I've had some terrible BJs, where there was absolutely no chance whatsoever of a happy ending. But on the other end of the scale I've had some toe-curlers. It's simply been down to the quality of the provider. Communication is key within this frame. | |||
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"I can totally understand that for some they are just not able to cum from a blow job but I have in fact made a few guys cum who have said they have never came from oral before ![]() Pretends he’s never cum from oral before ![]() | |||
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"Must be getting some bad BJ’s ![]() I agree a very porn style bj.. and not something I would be comfortable doing! I'll do it may way.. its worked everytime so far!! ![]() | |||
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"I never have. I usually don’t find them that enjoyable. " What is it you don’t you like about them? | |||
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"I never have. I usually don’t find them that enjoyable. What is it you don’t you like about them?" I’m not sure. It’s just never felt that pleasurable. There’s plenty of other things I rather have done. | |||
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"I can totally understand that for some they are just not able to cum from a blow job but I have in fact made a few guys cum who have said they have never came from oral before ![]() ![]() Form a line lol | |||
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"wow, so many guys cant cum from a BJ like me. It really feels horrible not being able to. Could there be something physical that prevents us doing so?" Same. I literally have to hold back/pull away . The felling can be almost instant aswell. I feel lucky because cumming completely hands free deep in a mouth is unmatched I think | |||
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