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Married men v Married women

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By *l couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Does anyone think its more alright for one than the other, and which?

Married guys have been around fab for a while but theres more and more married women showing up.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I really don't care.... There is no diierence.

But if they want to be here, their choice.

They should declare it to allow others to make an informed choice.

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By *erkshireMan123Man
over a year ago

Devizes

i dont think it matters either way, or at least it shouldnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone think its more alright for one than the other, and which?

Married guys have been around fab for a while but theres more and more married women showing up."

Being a tad cynical, I'm always skeptical of the new female profiles that state along the lines of "Married bored housewife. Message me".

I really have such a jaundiced _iew at the moment. Lol

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I really don't care.... There is no diierence.

But if they want to be here, their choice.

They should declare it to allow others to make an informed choice."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't play with a married woman without her hubby being there. How do I know he's really 'ok' with what she's doing if I can't see his face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's equally as bad, but people will do what they're going to do and we just make the choice to not play with someone we know is attached.

Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they are both as bad as each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither is any better not any worse than the other.

The danger is in making them pariahs, because then they lie about it and stop the rest of us from making an informed choice.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"

Being a tad cynical, I'm always skeptical of the new female profiles that state along the lines of "Married bored housewife. Message me".

"

Agreed.. Also wonder how many will reply to a message saying "i only play with hubby"??

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Does anyone think its more alright for one than the other, and which?

Married guys have been around fab for a while but theres more and more married women showing up."

Married and playing with hubby's knowledge. Not seeking anyone's judgement or approval. If people don't want to meet me I shan't lose any sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wished i had known about this site when i was married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i love meeting with married women, adds to the thrill of the meet

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Does anyone think its more alright for one than the other, and which?

Married guys have been around fab for a while but theres more and more married women showing up."

nope... quite proud to say that my opinion on the subject is very much "equal ops"..... I don't specify my answer because of gender...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Neither is any better not any worse than the other.

The danger is in making them pariahs, because then they lie about it and stop the rest of us from making an informed choice.

"

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I think it would be a score draw.

But if it went to extra time the men would gain a slight physical advantage and would probably win it on a golden goal/shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ... no difference ... both may or may not have perfectly good reasons for doing so and they are thier own.

Should be declared .. not necessarily on profile but in the first conversation.

It's just manners to be honest ... I found honesty gets me EVERYWHERE!

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

And why not - it's all about equality for women now and if they want to play away with or without the husbands knowledge it's their choice!!!

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"I really don't care.... There is no diierence.

But if they want to be here, their choice.

They should declare it to allow others to make an informed choice."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't play with a married woman without her hubby being there. How do I know he's really 'ok' with what she's doing if I can't see his face?"

same here hun x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I really don't care.... There is no diierence.

But if they want to be here, their choice.

They should declare it to allow others to make an informed choice."

* difference

just noticed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it matters. There's married people on both sides and they aren't always on here for the same reasons.

Some are cheating behind people's backs.

Some are on here with consent but without their other half's involvement.

Some are on here as couples. (obviously)

Some are on here with their other half very much involved in their fun.

It really doesn't matter as long as they are honest with the people they are meeting. Some people try to paint it all with a broad-brush by saying 'no married or attached people' even though the couples they are meeting are obviously 'attached'. Because 'couple', obviously.

I think some people fail to see their own hypocrisy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people on here are far too concerned with other peoples business. If you dont want to play with married people then dont... but some people seem to feel the need to take the holier (sp?) than thou attitude towards what other people choose to do. If you.dont like it.. move on, not difficult really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no difference between the two really on a moral level. (if you care about such things)

The main difference is that she'll mainly be seen as a single woman and get laid seven ways to Sunday, whereas the man will be yet another single guy and get fuck all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it matters. There's married people on both sides and they aren't always on here for the same reasons.

Some are cheating behind people's backs.

Some are on here with consent but without their other half's involvement.

Some are on here as couples. (obviously)

Some are on here with their other half very much involved in their fun.

It really doesn't matter as long as they are honest with the people they are meeting. Some people try to paint it all with a broad-brush by saying 'no married or attached people' even though the couples they are meeting are obviously 'attached'. Because 'couple', obviously.

I think some people fail to see their own hypocrisy."

But surely there is a difference between cheaters and couples who also agree to play separately as well as, as a couple? Hypocrisy then doesn't come into it does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people on here are far too concerned with other peoples business. If you dont want to play with married people then dont... but some people seem to feel the need to take the holier (sp?) than thou attitude towards what other people choose to do. If you.dont like it.. move on, not difficult really. "

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think some people on here are far too concerned with other peoples business. If you dont want to play with married people then dont... but some people seem to feel the need to take the holier (sp?) than thou attitude towards what other people choose to do. If you.dont like it.. move on, not difficult really. "

you are right and that is why declaring it is important... you can only follow exactly what you say ' don't play with them' if you know.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Still no winner then?

I will keep coming back to check results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From personal experience i know a lot of people wont meet married men/women and fair play to them. However if you meet with someone local surely a married man/woman is probably a safe bet with regard to them bragging about it with friends because of the consequences. Just a thought ! Id much rather wake up of a morning to see my dog eating a bowl of winalot rather than meat and two veg lol

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