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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently found a guy I went to school with in Walthamstow and we’ve been chatting ever since. Strange as I’ve now seen him totally naked from his pics and he’s seen my pics.

Anyone else been in a similar position and found it strange or a turn on?

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I’d love to find someone I know to see if we can join forces lol

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By *aseyjones7Man
over a year ago

leicestershire


"I’d love to find someone I know to see if we can join forces lol"

I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently found a guy I went to school with in Walthamstow and we’ve been chatting ever since. Strange as I’ve now seen him totally naked from his pics and he’s seen my pics.

Anyone else been in a similar position and found it strange or a turn on? "

I’m guessing that he didn’t recognise you from your Fab pics!

I’ve only seen one person on here I knew. Someone I worked with many years ago. But I never revealed to him who I was.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I recently found a guy I went to school with in Walthamstow and we’ve been chatting ever since. Strange as I’ve now seen him totally naked from his pics and he’s seen my pics.

Anyone else been in a similar position and found it strange or a turn on?

I’m guessing that he didn’t recognise you from your Fab pics!

I’ve only seen one person on here I knew. Someone I worked with many years ago. But I never revealed to him who I was. "

I recognised him and we talked to see if he could remember me but then I ended up revealing who I was. To my surprise he wanted to carry on talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not when it’s family or close family friends who recognise you!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes. We don't mind if we bump into someone we know x

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Yes. We don't mind if we bump into someone we know x"

Same here. They are on fab for the same reason as us.

Met a few through fab we used to work with or went to school with. Never really been a problem for us.

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By *_and_J2021Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

Someone from hubby’s work is on here. As they winked us and their profile photo is their face. We have decided to ignore, we agreed it was too close being at work.

Someone I know is on here and we have chatted and he’s helped us out. And a family member is as well but we already know she was when we joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in my 20s I had a different group of friends and two of them got married - they split because he was into different things sexually than her ….. unknowingly on here we were chatting and he sent a face pic (couple )and I blocked them!!! It was a bit of a panic thing lol and interestingly I saw him out a few nights later and thought that was silly!

I saw a guy I know “of” in my area and blocked him also …..

I don’t know why I block people ? I worry some people may talk and spread my private info - where I live is a small place

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don’t get the whole “ block” if you know them culture.

We’re all on here for the same reason so why would anyone think they would get outed unless of course it was a family member.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. We don't mind if we bump into someone we know x

Same here. They are on fab for the same reason as us.

Met a few through fab we used to work with or went to school with. Never really been a problem for us. "

Exactly, we all want fun

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago

I found a ex work colleague. I noticed her tattoos on her pics and we were within a quarter mile of each other on the who’s near feature.

It was quite exciting when I realised. I didn’t contact her or anything because I didn’t know how she would react.

We were out on a night out one time and I purposely sat next to her then on my phone under the table I logged in, she saw me on here and when I looked up and she gave me a cheeky grin. Later in the night once a few people had left we sat and had a full conversation about fab!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found a ex work colleague. I noticed her tattoos on her pics and we were within a quarter mile of each other on the who’s near feature.

It was quite exciting when I realised. I didn’t contact her or anything because I didn’t know how she would react.

We were out on a night out one time and I purposely sat next to her then on my phone under the table I logged in, she saw me on here and when I looked up and she gave me a cheeky grin. Later in the night once a few people had left we sat and had a full conversation about fab! "

Good work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few on here locally that we kinda know from the school gates etc….. but weird but we are all here for the same reason. One of the few rules we have is no ex’s and no one we count as friends… - Griz

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By *ilva69Man
over a year ago

stockport

A customer recognised me led to substantial discount for the decorating all parties happy though , interesting initial conversation

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By *ave1963MexboroughMan
over a year ago

Mexborough

It wouldn't bother me in the slightest if I met someone I know on here or in a club.

We're all here for the same reason and besides, I'm fairly open about being into swinging anyway.

For me, it's a part of my life I enjoy very much and I see no reason to be embarrassed about it whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s a few on here locally that we kinda know from the school gates etc….. but weird but we are all here for the same reason. One of the few rules we have is no ex’s and no one we count as friends… - Griz "

School gates…living the dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few on here locally that we kinda know from the school gates etc….. but weird but we are all here for the same reason. One of the few rules we have is no ex’s and no one we count as friends… - Griz

School gates…living the dream"

We have kids, I’d not take the piss…. - Griz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There’s a few on here locally that we kinda know from the school gates etc….. but weird but we are all here for the same reason. One of the few rules we have is no ex’s and no one we count as friends… - Griz

School gates…living the dream

We have kids, I’d not take the piss…. - Griz "

I actually wasn’t, I did in fact mean that I’d love to hook up with a school mum

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By *aybail-238Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

I think it all depends who it is. Luckily we haven’t been in that situation yet

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By *eegh0stsMan
over a year ago


"I think it all depends who it is. Luckily we haven’t been in that situation yet "

Hello neighbours

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By *aybail-238Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool


"I think it all depends who it is. Luckily we haven’t been in that situation yet

Hello neighbours "

We neighbours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get the whole “ block” if you know them culture.

We’re all on here for the same reason so why would anyone think they would get outed unless of course it was a family member."

I think that there will be people on here who aren’t here for actually meeting people and the community - in fact I know that having come across a profile created with someone else’s pics!

Seeing someone I knew at a club - having fun would be different to having someone I know , whose intentions I don’t know having access to pics etc.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I was fine bumping into a couple I know at a club. The only time I was unsettled was when a chap messaged me saying he knew me and lived close to me. He sent a few messages before he told me he was my 24 year old sons best mate !!!!

The fact he might tell my son or tell other friends worried me. He wanted to get together and obviously I said a very clear NO and blocked him.

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

I work with someone on here, never said anything though, completely different sexual interests.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was fine bumping into a couple I know at a club. The only time I was unsettled was when a chap messaged me saying he knew me and lived close to me. He sent a few messages before he told me he was my 24 year old sons best mate !!!!

The fact he might tell my son or tell other friends worried me. He wanted to get together and obviously I said a very clear NO and blocked him. "

Yeah that could’ve been embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it all depends who it is. Luckily we haven’t been in that situation yet

Hello neighbours

We neighbours? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to find someone I know too...saves all the susssssssing out bit etc...& Ya know exactly what you're getting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love to find someone I know too...saves all the susssssssing out bit etc...& Ya know exactly what you're getting "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have recognised some. Strange seeing them in Tesco shopping, thinking I've seen pictures of you naked. Would never say anything in public. Some more local on who's near, I'm intrigued who they might be.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Found a good friend and his wife… no way in a million years did I expect to touch his wife let alone fuck her…. How wrong was I !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've posted this before but a few years ago now I had to sack someone, repeated lateness and missed appointments. Only time I've ever done this - I'm not a nasty boss, honest.

Anyway, a couple of months later I was in the bar at Chams...

Very awkward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have recognised some. Strange seeing them in Tesco shopping, thinking I've seen pictures of you naked. Would never say anything in public. Some more local on who's near, I'm intrigued who they might be. "

I would never say anything to anyone in public and only ever speak to the guy I know on here or on Kik.

I’m keen to find more now though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Found a good friend and his wife… no way in a million years did I expect to touch his wife let alone fuck her…. How wrong was I !!!"

Wow that’s the dream. I’m hoping the guy I’ve come across let’s me fuck his wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last person we saw that we knew was in a club we chatted was friendly never played that night with anyone and went home ...

next day had a message via fab depite us not telling him abount anything on fab saying he'd love to meet sexually for me to say no not my type and then the anger erupts im going to out you im going to do this n that ... so not everybody needs to know we dont have anything to do with people who claim they know us ... as for seeking more people that you may know sounds very very creepy ..

as for the guy who kew us hubs found out where he lived and waited outside to confront the threats he went white when he saw him as he never let on he was married with kids ...that was the end of that .... not everybody you know is a nice person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Found a good friend and his wife… no way in a million years did I expect to touch his wife let alone fuck her…. How wrong was I !!!

Wow that’s the dream. I’m hoping the guy I’ve come across let’s me fuck his wife "

lets you fuck his wife ??is that not his wife desicion ??

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By *randMrsDirtyGCouple
over a year ago

BIRMINGHAM

It becoming more common we know a couple in here but they don’t know that we know (if you get my jist)

However I guess when you press who is near you button these things are going to happen.

Now question is do we reach out or keep quiet lol

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By *moothCriminal_xMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Got a veri off someone at a houseparty because we realised we were both on here. I winked at tjem! Shocked to see someone else i knew on here and she mentioned it that she'd seen me in front of some people id rsther not have known...think she was trying to preempt me mentioning it as i winked at her too.

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By *1c4yMan
over a year ago

stourbridge

I found 2 people I know and it freaked me out to the point I felt I had to make my pictures private.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It becoming more common we know a couple in here but they don’t know that we know (if you get my jist)

However I guess when you press who is near you button these things are going to happen.

Now question is do we reach out or keep quiet lol "

Definitely reach out lol

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By *hitelunchMan
over a year ago

colchester

The thought of someone you know and finding out they’re on here is a turn on for sure, especially if you both find out you’ve had naughty thoughts about each other but neither of you knew about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The thought of someone you know and finding out they’re on here is a turn on for sure, especially if you both find out you’ve had naughty thoughts about each other but neither of you knew about it "

I’m finding it a turn on

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By *hitelunchMan
over a year ago

colchester

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By *hitelunchMan
over a year ago

colchester


"The thought of someone you know and finding out they’re on here is a turn on for sure, especially if you both find out you’ve had naughty thoughts about each other but neither of you knew about it

I’m finding it a turn on "

What about someone you knows family member? Is that ok? Haha

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By *eloton40Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I know you. But mum's the word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few on here I know, 1 I have known 30 yrs, we used to play in our late teens early 20's and he has made it very clear he would to play again but for me he is part of my past and that's where he will stay although am still friends with him. He helped shape the person I am today and I will always treasure him for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen a few on here all of which I've worked with over the years

The one that sticks in my mind was a colleague of mine who was on here with his wife, she would come and pick him up from work looking all prim and proper and yet I new what tattoos she had and where they were,I also saw her hubby deposit a huge load of cum on her face (at least I assume it was her hubby), I could never quite look her in the eye again after stumbling across there profile

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

People i know they are on here i pretend i know nothing about , is the best way to be i believe

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

Met someone we have known for years on here so did the decent thing and had her round for some fun xxx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

In all our time on here we've never seen anyone that we know thankfully

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all our time on here we've never seen anyone that we know thankfully"

You probably have, you just don’t know that you have!

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By *ill.willMan
over a year ago

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There's a few profiles on here of people i know or friends on friends, never messaged them but happy to have a perv

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Found 2 people I know on here. Had no idea they like the same things as me. Was brave enough to send a message a while back to one of them. Have had a few meets with them since. Happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been recognised by a couple of members on here but I still don’t know who they are

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By *irthyDickMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

I'm a delivery driver and know one couple on my round are on here but wouldn't dare letting them know it's me - they must see me on who's near but it's better they don't know who I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Found 2 people I know on here. Had no idea they like the same things as me. Was brave enough to send a message a while back to one of them. Have had a few meets with them since. Happy days "

Good work

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m sure I’ve been recognised as others have blocked me as soon as I send face pics. Wish they would just say if they did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure I’ve been recognised as others have blocked me as soon as I send face pics. Wish they would just say if they did."

There might be other reasons they blocked you after seeing a face pic

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By *ragon1booMan
over a year ago

blackwood

I’ve recognised a few people I know on here, not been a problem so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure I’ve been recognised as others have blocked me as soon as I send face pics. Wish they would just say if they did.

There might be other reasons they blocked you after seeing a face pic "

That might be true as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve recognised a few people I know on here, not been a problem so far "

Ever acted on it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met someone we have known for years on here so did the decent thing and had her round for some fun xxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. We don't mind if we bump into someone we know x"

????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found 2 people I know and it freaked me out to the point I felt I had to make my pictures private. "

Why did it freak you out

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