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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does any of your family know you are swinger?

If so how did they find out or what made you tell them. If not, are you worried about telling them? Or feel ashamed if they found out.

I ask because my son knows I swing and is perfectly fine with it. quick FYI he is 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all my important people do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sisters know and my

Mum did too when she was alive, no one was the least bit suprised, it came out via an ex trying to expose me.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes and it's fine as they are non judgmental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't talk bout my sex life with family.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I showed my sister a face pic of someone I'd met and she instantly spotted the watermark

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

Mine don't know and don't think they would be happy with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my 3 older kids do 24 20 20 they don't judge me for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, all my side close family know and are cool with it.

Wife's parents don't know though, they are very old fashioned and judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez No, my family don't have sex, not since I was born anyway and that was a one off

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple
over a year ago

Watford


"Yes my 3 older kids do 24 20 20 they don't judge me for it."

I'm really intrigued by that answer. So if they know, they could go on Fab and see your photos.

I'd be mortified if my (grown up) kids even knew we had a profile here.

Kudos. Personally, I think nobody should ever be judgemental over what lifestyle others choose. We once went to a swinging camping event organised by a couple, in Cambridgeshire, where the organising couple brought their parents along!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my family are so unphased by it.

my parents were swingers, so they can't really say anything can they

the most important one knows, and so does my best friend, because they are too.

so it's alllll gravy baby Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to go to a club in Manchester where the owners 19 yr old daughter used to work there and take over so mum and dad could play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes my 3 older kids do 24 20 20 they don't judge me for it.

I'm really intrigued by that answer. So if they know, they could go on Fab and see your photos.

I'd be mortified if my (grown up) kids even knew we had a profile here.

Kudos. Personally, I think nobody should ever be judgemental over what lifestyle others choose. We once went to a swinging camping event organised by a couple, in Cambridgeshire, where the organising couple brought their parents along!"
lol yes they could but we talk openly about sex in my house they are all men and have long term girlfriends and have said they have no interest in swinging but they all think it's great there mum gets out and gets what she wants/needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither my friends nor my family need to know any details regarding my sex life

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Nope. Not even my closest friends know. Not that they're prudes (they most definitely aren't), I just want to keep it separate personally. One or two of my friends would probably be absolutely intrigued and would need to know all the details!

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By *exfunmaleMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I tend not to discuss my sex life with family

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Nope it's are naughty little secret

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

None of our family know and we want it to stay that way. Some people around us can be very narrow minded and judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope my private life is actually that private. My family don't need to know about my sex life lol however if they found out so be it x

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Our kids (24 & 34) and their partners know. We don't talk about it, but it was easy enough for them to work out.

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By *inkyfuckery69Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I used to work in porn and they all knew , and one thing leads to another etc and I'm not shy !I sort of came out years ago . Most of them want to hear stories now

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Not a chance. My family are orthodox Irish Roman Catholics and would be appalled, if they ever found out about this 'secret' part of my life.

Discretion is my watchword.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've no reason to discuss my sex life with my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. My sex life is private.

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Only one brother. And he's no monk either, but has settled down

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

My sister knows and she's fine with it.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I have a group of friends, none of whom have made unorthodox lifestyle choices about NSA sex; swinging has never cropped in our diverse conversations, and even if it had I would never divulge anything. This is something I have been interested in for many years; intimacy with relative strangers who are like-minded, open-minded and willing to explore their sexuality with no strings attached.

I expect others with whom I have been intimate to be equally circumspect about our encounters. That's the unwritten implicit secret contract; we f###, and we don't kiss and tell, ever.

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