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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

If you are a couple how did you both know you wanted to be a swinger? how did the conversation start about it all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on fab we then got together talked about our fab experiences and decided to stay and play on fab as a couple.

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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

i had once met someone, that almost into everything... sadly it never worked out, i would love to meet someone who would be interested in all this, but how do you bring that conversation up to someone who isn't in to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a couple how did you both know you wanted to be a swinger? how did the conversation start about it all?

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We started taking photos at home for fun, watched porn and discussed having sex with other people. We eventually went to a club in Manchester and on it went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband of 16 years said he would lie to watch me with other men. Here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months pregnant I was and horny

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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

what was your thought when he said that to you though? must be weird to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wanted sex on tap... seemed like the logical place to end up Px

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I wanted to enjoy sex more regularly without necessarily wanting a relationship

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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

hahaha i think for women to have is much easier than men though is it not?

I am just curious how you would bring it up to someone you are dating etc. Most likely when you are steaming d*unk haha

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I'll leave it to Mister Mischief to explain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby mentioned it when we first met as he'd had some experience on the scene... so here we are lol and I bloody love it

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Ok this all started for us after we had our first child, that is to spice things up in the bedroom I mentioned it and Mrs mischief agreed to give it a go. Our first fab outing was to a swingers club we were newbies and very nervous with the whole scene but we enjoyed it. And here we still are 7 years later , we now also meet separately as well as together as that suits the home life too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met the right man who i feel in love with very quickly and within weeks of meeting and the way we both free talked we both knew it was going to be a very sexual journey 28 years later we are stronger than ever total love and trust in each other and still doing sexy things

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I wanted/needed sex with ladies as I'm bisexual.

This was a great place in which to find what I was hoping for.

I found that and so much more.

We just had a very open and bluntly honest conversation, it's the only way.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I had always been intrigued by the swinging world so when I became single again I toddled into a swingers club and have never looked back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby corrupted me!

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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

hahaha awesome

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We always say it was an extension of fantasies we play out in the bedroom. As for the conversation we had mentioned it a few times and then 8 years ago we walked along the beach chatting about it and decided if we really were going to do it we wanted to do it before we got too old.

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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

i defo want to do it, even just to go to a club and see what it is like

But its the whole first step etc

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We began with fantasy in the bedroom. Back in the 2000s then we moved onto camming back I'm the early days of yahoo adult rooms. Moved on from there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex drive went through the roof and it'd been something I brought up in conversations now and then. He must have got sick of having sex with me so often because he finally agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He must have got sick of having sex with me so often"

Sounds impossible

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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

hahaha, it is my goal to get into all this.... i also know a friends she was like that.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we had two relationships with girls one very long term and when that ended we tried loot ads which was the internet equivilent in the 90s

some one we contacted told us about a club near us

that wa the start of a massive adventure

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we had been to a few clubs and parties with out me seeing her fucking and she wanted to know if i would be jealous so she picked a guy only to find he had an enormous cock she had two thrust and made her excuses and asked me if i liked it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started with my ex she was a lot more adventurous in the bedroom than I was ...she led me astray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were discussing me having a high sex drive joined a random site ended up at their annual social 5 days later...site was rubbish but kept the swinging

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Stumbled onto a nudist beach in Lanzarote and got chatting to a couple who seemed so comfortable naked.

From there just chatted and chatted about visiting a swingers club.

Cupids in Manchester was the first place, absolutely terrified but so excited.

The rest, as they say, is history.

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By *blasiansCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Bedroom remark, curiosity, fantasy exchange, excitement and escalated to a couple of site before settling on fab where fantasy became reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't even know such a thing existed. We both were looking for some "sexy fun" in a holiday and came across a swingers resort in Spain. Started looking into it more and we both really liked the freedom of such a holiday and one thing led to another and we now frequent clubs regularly

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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

if a single guy comes to a swingers night is it frowned upon or are they are they welcome, got to be honest i just want to go to see what its like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh the days of yahoo ... excite .... aol chat groups way before any of the big sites them were the golden days of swinging and dogging ... no bullshit back then just fun

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We've always had kink in our relationship (20 years together and counting)

One day S told me his biggest fantasy... And we took it from there. First bedroom talk. Then me sending him videos of me with my toys. Then pretending to meet. To eventually meeting other men. I love it. He loves it.. The ultimate fantasy still hasn't been fulfilled but it will be one day. And we're having loads of fun along the way.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"if a single guy comes to a swingers night is it frowned upon or are they are they welcome, got to be honest i just want to go to see what its like

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Yes single guys are very welcome, just be sociable and respectful and don't go with an expectation of play. Treat it as a night out to get to know people, if play happens then it's a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've always had kink in our relationship (20 years together and counting)

One day S told me his biggest fantasy... And we took it from there. First bedroom talk. Then me sending him videos of me with my toys. Then pretending to meet. To eventually meeting other men. I love it. He loves it.. The ultimate fantasy still hasn't been fulfilled but it will be one day. And we're having loads of fun along the way.

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What’s the ultimate fantasy?

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

I mentioned to hubby on holiday few years back that I had done quite few threesomes before I had meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what was your thought when he said that to you though? must be weird to hear"

Was strange yes. Didn’t believe he would actually enjoy it and all this swinging started out as a joke to start with as I said no one would be interested in coming to fuck me anyway.

Men did want to. Hubby does like it and I love putting on a show for him.

Don’t think there is any going back now.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Funny how you lovely ladies think my wife was exactly the same thinking men wouldn’t want her.

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By *cottish..1234 OP   Man
over a year ago

annan

To be fair that is what i would want to do anyway. Just find out what it is all about etc

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