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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Does anyone else have problems meeting bi women on this site?

Wife is looking for ff play and all we had are fakes,timewasters and dreamers.

This site has gone downhill and we feel sorry for the real ppl that want to meet.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Does anyone else have problems meeting bi women on this site?

Wife is looking for ff play and all we had are fakes,timewasters and dreamers.

This site has gone downhill and we feel sorry for the real ppl that want to meet. "

Try the clubs, it’s where they appear to congregate.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Not really ... have you both thought in attending bi nights in clubs or bi private party's? Is a good option to take in consideration

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'm straight, but it does seem many want to play with another lady, to put a show on for the men.

I can't think why bi women would struggle to get meets with other women otherwise tbh.

I've even had messages from couples saying it's the males fantasy to watch his Mrs with a woman.

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"I'm straight, but it does seem many want to play with another lady, to put a show on for the men.

I can't think why bi women would struggle to get meets with other women otherwise tbh.

I've even had messages from couples saying it's the males fantasy to watch his Mrs with a woman. "

Im not too bothered if I watch or not. Mrs is bi and wants to play with other fems.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I'm straight, but it does seem many want to play with another lady, to put a show on for the men.

I can't think why bi women would struggle to get meets with other women otherwise tbh.

I've even had messages from couples saying it's the males fantasy to watch his Mrs with a woman.

Im not too bothered if I watch or not. Mrs is bi and wants to play with other fems. "

Yeah I wasnt aiming that at you,

Just seems from lots of forum posts that many women agree a meet and then want the male there too.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve met 3 couples in the last couple of months

It is really hard to get a 3-way-attraction... that can also be a reason it takes more time to meet! I have to be really attracted to both parties (even if it’s just one half playing) otherwise, nothing will happen.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We don’t usually have a problem, although mostly we meet as a couple so that does limit it somewhat I suppose

However if you’re happy to meet alone there’s certainly a lot of women who prefer to play that way, may be worth exploring if you’re comfortable with that dynamic.

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By *oirinMarkusCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands and West London

I'm very happy to meet another bi lady from here, I'm actually in the unpopular camp of wanting to put on a show!

OP, my ideal is exactly what you've described on your profile so message me if you're interested xx

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"I'm very happy to meet another bi lady from here, I'm actually in the unpopular camp of wanting to put on a show!

OP, my ideal is exactly what you've described on your profile so message me if you're interested xx"

Messaged x

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Does anyone else have problems meeting bi women on this site?

Wife is looking for ff play and all we had are fakes,timewasters and dreamers.

This site has gone downhill and we feel sorry for the real ppl that want to meet. "

Yep.

Socials and clubs are better. Fab isn't great for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me (as a bisexual female married to a man ) I come across many women who say bi-curious and I don’t really want to be someone’s experiment , especially not in a 3sum situation! I’m way past the curious stage

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By *ac31Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep! I’m bi. On this site and another it’s easy enough to strike up conversations with single bi/bi-curious females but I think for many it’s a fantasy and the reality scares them too much to take it forward. I’m happy to meet fems alone too but fed up of chatting for weeks n all going well n then get ghosted. Happened twice now and it’s put me off trying again. X

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I'd suggest a solo profile for your wife if she's happy to meet 1 on 1

I'm also married & we have a couples profile but my preference would be to meet a woman solo rather than with either of our partners

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Also I've just read your profile are you messaging or just winking at people

I personally don't use the wink function at all & ive heard others say the same, I've currently got over 400 winks that wil never get looked at (messages are hard enough to keep up with let alone trying to work out what someone else thinks a wink means) which means you could be missing people if you block people who don't respond to your winks - I had no idea you were supposed to respond to them

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"Also I've just read your profile are you messaging or just winking at people

I personally don't use the wink function at all & ive heard others say the same, I've currently got over 400 winks that wil never get looked at (messages are hard enough to keep up with let alone trying to work out what someone else thinks a wink means) which means you could be missing people if you block people who don't respond to your winks - I had no idea you were supposed to respond to them "

Both..we wink and message them.

We always respond to winks and messages if they appeal to us.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We've found it pretty easy to meet women, bi and straight. It's couples we have difficulty finding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are most definitely the way to go!

I rarely have interaction from women on here but at a club I’m like a kid in a candy shop

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By *ixen13Woman
over a year ago

Cowdenbeath

I'm bi but when i am meeting i only meet with other singles. i find the idea of playing with a couple, even just half of a couple, doesn't do it for me at all. i do enjoy 3sums ect but all parties need to be single for me to join in. I know that puts me in a minority on here but then the world would be a boring place if we were all the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it almost impossible to meet another bi woman either as a couple or singularly through my own profile for girl/girl. We’re a little bit picky but regardless it’s extremely difficult. Feel free to message if your near by x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lou has her own profile for bi fun with women only

Our profile mentions that we are looking for bi girls for Lou to play with (and me if im lucky!!) but im happy to watch and just play with lou.

problem we have is as soon as we mention phone or video calls then the majority disapear !!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I'd suggest a solo profile for your wife if she's happy to meet 1 on 1

I'm also married & we have a couples profile but my preference would be to meet a woman solo rather than with either of our partners "

I set up a single profile but I didn't have any luck with the ladies. It really is difficult to find a local bi lady for ff fun.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not easy for bisexual women on here either to be honest, it's difficult enough to find other bi ladies on fab where the attraction is mutual.

To add to that lots of couples profiles say that they would be open to the female half playing with another lady alone but in reality the male half always wants to watch.

After I have built a connection with her I would be happy to involve the men but most want it straight away.

Trust me if the ladies get on and have a spark it will make for much better future meets, not awkward stage fright moments that leave you feeling like a performing animal.

Obviously this is my opinion from verious meets on different swinging sites over the years but finding bi ladies is just as difficult for a female as it for many couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find it almost impossible to meet another bi woman either as a couple or singularly through my own profile for girl/girl. We’re a little bit picky but regardless it’s extremely difficult. Feel free to message if your near by x"

Being picky is not a bad thing at all, why meet with people you have no attraction to. Have fun with no regrets!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t agree more hun xx

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"Couldn’t agree more hun xx"

You look amazing x

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By *ueenbee77Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I'm bi but when i am meeting i only meet with other singles. i find the idea of playing with a couple, even just half of a couple, doesn't do it for me at all. i do enjoy 3sums ect but all parties need to be single for me to join in. I know that puts me in a minority on here but then the world would be a boring place if we were all the same x"

I feel the same about attached people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm bi but when i am meeting i only meet with other singles. i find the idea of playing with a couple, even just half of a couple, doesn't do it for me at all. i do enjoy 3sums ect but all parties need to be single for me to join in. I know that puts me in a minority on here but then the world would be a boring place if we were all the same x

I feel the same about attached people x "

Me too.

There's always a man partner who suddenly needs to be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm straight, but it does seem many want to play with another lady, to put a show on for the men.

I can't think why bi women would struggle to get meets with other women otherwise tbh.

I've even had messages from couples saying it's the males fantasy to watch his Mrs with a woman. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else have problems meeting bi women on this site?

Wife is looking for ff play and all we had are fakes,timewasters and dreamers.

This site has gone downhill and we feel sorry for the real ppl that want to meet. "

why is it the site's fault ??? we are still in a pandemic things have been weird for nearly 2 years many have given up many are waiting how is that fabs fault ??? fab is just a platform that provides the tools to meet they dont offer you things on a plate ...

i suspect that swinging (all forms) will take a while to recover fab is not the scene its just a small part (all be it a very good part)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve also set up a single profile separate from my couples one so that I can find a woman. Unfortunately I am in the category of not knowing if I will like it or not. I know my husband would love to watch but I would rather try it out for myself first before anything else. Maybe after that I would involve my hubby and others partners then I could meet couples on my couples profile. At the moment I wouldn’t want to do that as it’s just too many people for now when I’m only just getting into things.

I still on this account, even though I think my profile is quite clear, get messages asking for their husbands to watch or that their husbands want me. If I’ve kicked my own hubby out from watching I wouldn’t be involving someone else.

Too busy to actively look right now but can’t say I’ve found it easy.

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By *asycouple1971 OP   Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"I’ve also set up a single profile separate from my couples one so that I can find a woman. Unfortunately I am in the category of not knowing if I will like it or not. I know my husband would love to watch but I would rather try it out for myself first before anything else. Maybe after that I would involve my hubby and others partners then I could meet couples on my couples profile. At the moment I wouldn’t want to do that as it’s just too many people for now when I’m only just getting into things.

I still on this account, even though I think my profile is quite clear, get messages asking for their husbands to watch or that their husbands want me. If I’ve kicked my own hubby out from watching I wouldn’t be involving someone else.

Too busy to actively look right now but can’t say I’ve found it easy. "

Likewise. Have almost given up. The wife doesnt want the hassle of setting up her own profile and going thru endless messages or talking to fakes/timewasters/pic collectors etc.

Ive got the job of looking for and arranging meets for her.

Looks like she might just have to do with enjoying cock for the time being.

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Would love to to meet another bi lady.

Needs a mutual attraction though and no partners involved.

I’m thinking clubs are the best best as the messaging back and forth is a bit repetitive. Also it’s easier to click with someone else in person m. Ive also set up a single account on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes clubs do sound good but I wouldn’t want to go to one alone and we don’t have childcare so will be a good few years before venturing into that side of swinging for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lou has her own profile for bi fun with women only

Our profile mentions that we are looking for bi girls for Lou to play with (and me if im lucky!!) but im happy to watch and just play with lou.

problem we have is as soon as we mention phone or video calls then the majority disapear !!"

Are you also happy for Lou to play with the other lady alone? Husbands been required to watch is a red flag for a lot of single women interested in meeting women for play.

I'd be happy to sit and have a brew with the other hubby and let the ladies have some privacy for 1 on 1 play upstairs as an option. That way both males can know there partner is safe.

KJ

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I don't have any problems meeting ladies, be they single or part of a couple

but I do wish more bi ladies would message me from time to time for a chat perhaps?

seems like it's only men who know where my inbox is lol such a shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also set up a single profile separate from my couples one so that I can find a woman. Unfortunately I am in the category of not knowing if I will like it or not. I know my husband would love to watch but I would rather try it out for myself first before anything else. Maybe after that I would involve my hubby and others partners then I could meet couples on my couples profile. At the moment I wouldn’t want to do that as it’s just too many people for now when I’m only just getting into things.

I still on this account, even though I think my profile is quite clear, get messages asking for their husbands to watch or that their husbands want me. If I’ve kicked my own hubby out from watching I wouldn’t be involving someone else.

Too busy to actively look right now but can’t say I’ve found it easy.

Likewise. Have almost given up. The wife doesnt want the hassle of setting up her own profile and going thru endless messages or talking to fakes/timewasters/pic collectors etc.

Ive got the job of looking for and arranging meets for her.

Looks like she might just have to do with enjoying cock for the time being."

This would put me right off. If I'm meeting a woman I want to talk to her, not her husband. Perhaps that's putting other women off too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also set up a single profile separate from my couples one so that I can find a woman. Unfortunately I am in the category of not knowing if I will like it or not. I know my husband would love to watch but I would rather try it out for myself first before anything else. Maybe after that I would involve my hubby and others partners then I could meet couples on my couples profile. At the moment I wouldn’t want to do that as it’s just too many people for now when I’m only just getting into things.

I still on this account, even though I think my profile is quite clear, get messages asking for their husbands to watch or that their husbands want me. If I’ve kicked my own hubby out from watching I wouldn’t be involving someone else.

Too busy to actively look right now but can’t say I’ve found it easy.

Likewise. Have almost given up. The wife doesnt want the hassle of setting up her own profile and going thru endless messages or talking to fakes/timewasters/pic collectors etc.

Ive got the job of looking for and arranging meets for her.

Looks like she might just have to do with enjoying cock for the time being.

This would put me right off. If I'm meeting a woman I want to talk to her, not her husband. Perhaps that's putting other women off too. "

It would definitely put me off

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I have problems meeting anyone from this site weather it be m/f couple or females bi or straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also set up a single profile separate from my couples one so that I can find a woman. Unfortunately I am in the category of not knowing if I will like it or not. I know my husband would love to watch but I would rather try it out for myself first before anything else. Maybe after that I would involve my hubby and others partners then I could meet couples on my couples profile. At the moment I wouldn’t want to do that as it’s just too many people for now when I’m only just getting into things.

I still on this account, even though I think my profile is quite clear, get messages asking for their husbands to watch or that their husbands want me. If I’ve kicked my own hubby out from watching I wouldn’t be involving someone else.

Too busy to actively look right now but can’t say I’ve found it easy.

Likewise. Have almost given up. The wife doesnt want the hassle of setting up her own profile and going thru endless messages or talking to fakes/timewasters/pic collectors etc.

Ive got the job of looking for and arranging meets for her.

Looks like she might just have to do with enjoying cock for the time being.

This would put me right off. If I'm meeting a woman I want to talk to her, not her husband. Perhaps that's putting other women off too. "

100% agree with this too, I’d never meet someone having never spoken to them.

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By *leopatra 64Couple
over a year ago

Poole

I'm happy to meet females on my own as long as I know its safe , or having my partner dropping me off knowing I'm ok first .

There's quite a shortage on the South Coast I think .

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By *ittleCurvyChickWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the rainbow


"I'm bi but when i am meeting i only meet with other singles. i find the idea of playing with a couple, even just half of a couple, doesn't do it for me at all. i do enjoy 3sums ect but all parties need to be single for me to join in. I know that puts me in a minority on here but then the world would be a boring place if we were all the same x

I feel the same about attached people x

Me too.

There's always a man partner who suddenly needs to be there. "

It's nice to know that i'm not alone in the way i feel. For me the thought of playing with a couple would always make me feel like an outsider or a plaything for them. That leaves me stone cold i'm afraid x

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By *OSHNROUGHCouple
over a year ago

Sex Bi Th sea


"Clubs are most definitely the way to go!

I rarely have interaction from women on here but at a club I’m like a kid in a candy shop "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve also set up a single profile separate from my couples one so that I can find a woman. Unfortunately I am in the category of not knowing if I will like it or not. I know my husband would love to watch but I would rather try it out for myself first before anything else. Maybe after that I would involve my hubby and others partners then I could meet couples on my couples profile. At the moment I wouldn’t want to do that as it’s just too many people for now when I’m only just getting into things.

I still on this account, even though I think my profile is quite clear, get messages asking for their husbands to watch or that their husbands want me. If I’ve kicked my own hubby out from watching I wouldn’t be involving someone else.

Too busy to actively look right now but can’t say I’ve found it easy.

Likewise. Have almost given up. The wife doesnt want the hassle of setting up her own profile and going thru endless messages or talking to fakes/timewasters/pic collectors etc.

Ive got the job of looking for and arranging meets for her.

Looks like she might just have to do with enjoying cock for the time being.

This would put me right off. If I'm meeting a woman I want to talk to her, not her husband. Perhaps that's putting other women off too.

It would definitely put me off "

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never had a problem with meeting women for fun ... either on fab or other ways ...i just dont put all my eggs in one basket ..

and we/i totally avoid bi women in male led profiles ... and there are lots of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not particularly interested in chatting to women with couple profiles. Feel like it’s either just fake and a guy getting off on it or wanting their partner to watch. There are some hot bi women on the site but plenty of hot bi women on regular dating apps who are just looking for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all have challenges meeting the people we would like to. But the right ones are out there

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

All of our play meets have been with bi woman, I suspect some couples do make it hard for themselves either by attitude or approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not particularly interested in chatting to women with couple profiles. Feel like it’s either just fake and a guy getting off on it or wanting their partner to watch. There are some hot bi women on the site but plenty of hot bi women on regular dating apps who are just looking for fun. "

and thats the main problem not all women want to put a show on they just want to have fem on fem fun ...one thing as a couple we've never done to each other push to get/ or see .... 75% of women ive met have been on there own the others wanted to put a show on if they want then its different ... i would never put a show on for another couple and thats why we avoid male led / pushy male led couples

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I am not particularly interested in chatting to women with couple profiles. Feel like it’s either just fake and a guy getting off on it or wanting their partner to watch. There are some hot bi women on the site but plenty of hot bi women on regular dating apps who are just looking for fun. "

I've never thought of joining a regular dating app to find ladies. Maybe I should try that.

Our profile is led by me, I'm the driving force and joined here predominantly for FF fun. I've had a little success but single bi females in the North East are extremely rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bi fem and to be honest I've never really had a successful meet as such with a couple.

I find the messages are very we want this and it often makes me feel like a free prostitute.

The last couple was nothing like pics and previous meets have usually ended in nothing as one got too nervous and drank themselves silly

Most recently I've been sent messages with a massive list of rules first message from the fem, what she wants and I rarely read past first line as it reads obnoxious.

My best couple meets have always been at clubs.

Add to that, bi FEMS often want doing after and this isn't a thought, it was a discussion in Quest on bi girl night. Otherwise FF is really lesbianism.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We have been lucky, most bi females have always been happy to meet again.

Then again (unless it is in a dungeon) the play is FF lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it’s bloody hard, most people on my block list are single and women because they usually end up being time wasters and or fakes so I just end up blocking. Getting frustrated with this site it’s not like it was pre COVID.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lou has her own profile for bi fun with women only

Our profile mentions that we are looking for bi girls for Lou to play with (and me if im lucky!!) but im happy to watch and just play with lou.

problem we have is as soon as we mention phone or video calls then the majority disapear !!

Are you also happy for Lou to play with the other lady alone? Husbands been required to watch is a red flag for a lot of single women interested in meeting women for play.

I'd be happy to sit and have a brew with the other hubby and let the ladies have some privacy for 1 on 1 play upstairs as an option. That way both males can know there partner is safe.

KJ"

Yes Lou plays on her own with girls. ill only be involved if everyone agrees. get as much of a turn on with lou telling me what happened after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be happy for mrs sky to have ff fun....i wouldnt need to be there ...she is definitely up for it

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

trying to find 3 people is dificult trying to find four is even harder like you we both need a connection and to find equal atraction four ways is realy hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m finding there is no real bi women on here they are all just pretenders or have a bi fantasy, or I’m just struggling to find them too x

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

I have terrible trouble. I keep messaging anyone with a dykey hair cut.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Odd when you walk down the same path, you end up in the same place.

Bi ladies are stunning, more they are outstanding fun.

This is a fun play, not focused hunting.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"Odd when you walk down the same path, you end up in the same place.

Bi ladies are stunning, more they are outstanding fun.

This is a fun play, not focused hunting."

Oh if only it was light-hearted and fun. Fab would be a more uplifting place. It's more about the endless hunt for the right person/ people.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Odd when you walk down the same path, you end up in the same place.

Bi ladies are stunning, more they are outstanding fun.

This is a fun play, not focused hunting.

Oh if only it was light-hearted and fun. Fab would be a more uplifting place. It's more about the endless hunt for the right person/ people. "

Not for us if it’s not fun… don’t do it, hunting never had come across as fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And more messages today from couples wanting to meet together. Even one that her husband wants to see me.

Maybe it’s cos I’m only curious and can’t really call myself bi. Maybe that’s what’s off putting.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"Does anyone else have problems meeting bi women on this site?

Wife is looking for ff play and all we had are fakes,timewasters and dreamers.

This site has gone downhill and we feel sorry for the real ppl that want to meet. "

im a fully bi lady i only want a women not a man i got my boyfriend for the cock so dont need one.

last year i was to meet a cpl for a drink she text me and he did on the day i got a text 20min before we were to meet saying she could not make it.

this is not the first time its happened.

now i just let my bf sort it out for me

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

and im very genuine and you can ask the people we have met what im like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My good lady has tried to meet other bi women with only 1 successful meet which became a regular thing

She had lots of interest but majority backed out

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"My good lady has tried to meet other bi women with only 1 successful meet which became a regular thing

She had lots of interest but majority backed out "

yes your right its best to meet at partys or clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My good lady has tried to meet other bi women with only 1 successful meet which became a regular thing

She had lots of interest but majority backed out

yes your right its best to meet at partys or clubs."

We couldn’t pluck up the courage to visit a club

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Does anyone else have problems meeting bi women on this site?

Wife is looking for ff play and all we had are fakes,timewasters and dreamers.

This site has gone downhill and we feel sorry for the real ppl that want to meet. "

Your profile very clearly states the wife will meet alone. I'd be happy with that. I'm also happy in a threesome with the right couples, where I have attraction to both. What I'm not interested in is playing with a woman while her man hopes to watch. I'm not a show.

I can count the messages I've had from women on one hand...

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

At the end of the day, meeting single women directly through this site has become nigh on impossible.

My wife is bi but we also enjoy the cuckqean kink as well.

We have never met a woman directly through fab..yet.

We've never met one as a couple through fab, she's never met one on her own through fab and I've never met a lady in my own through fab either. We have only ever met couples.

Most chats with single ladies on here don't go anywhere.

But we have had success through social events that we have hosted or attended where we meet ladies who just happen to be on fab as well.

But on the flip side, listening to these ladies point of view, I can see why it's the way it is on fab.

They get hammered with messages and.often treat like a fantasy fulfillment device rather than a person. They get all sorts of weird messages and often get abuse when they're not interested. They guys often trying to pull fast ones and there's also a huge safety aspect for them. It's of zero surprise to us so many won't meet outside of clubs now (unless they feel.they know you Well enough).

So take heart bi ladies and couples seeking bi women. Those ladies are out there. Its just the odds of.meeting them through fab are significantly diminished. Go to clubs or socials and put yourselves out there. You'll meet them soon enough.

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe


"My good lady has tried to meet other bi women with only 1 successful meet which became a regular thing

She had lots of interest but majority backed out

yes your right its best to meet at partys or clubs.

We couldn’t pluck up the courage to visit a club "

Just go there and see they not what you think they are really nice places and you meet normal people to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi female looking for a bi female to join myself and my husband I have to say it’s difficult ! I don’t want my husband to stand on the side watching - we are interested in all enjoying each other - for us , if I wanted to have FF play with another bi female I could go on any of the numerous popular dating websites and find someone ? Which is why we have landed here .

I guess for me - if I was single I would go onto a dating website because playing alone with another female wouldn’t be swinging , it’s just dating ? Our aim is to add another sexual partner to our couple .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read all of this thread with interest. Agreeing with lots and understanding. I tried a single fem account for a while too. The response I got wasn’t what I thought it would be … it was sometimes overwhelming and sometimes just plain weird. I found it hard to trust that profiles were really from women so I might have misjudged some because of those other ones I gave it a couple of goes (I read on another’s profile from this thread that they’d felt similarly bewildered) … but then gave up on it and came back to having all on our couples one. Darling husband doesn’t want to join me with a lady - or watch. So far I’ve found I have better chats, which has led to meeting, with another fem of a couple though. On fab that is anyway.

We’ve been on here a couple of years and there’s only been two ladies I’ve felt that great connection with - and we’re still friends - even after one of them has left fab

Oh and in clubs it is different, the other ladies that have commented are right … there’s lots of gorgeous single ladies that go to clubs I can’t tell you it’s eeeeasier - because I’m kinda shy lol - but if your Mrs is confident it might be good for her. Clubs are great fun. I agree with a poster above - the ones we’ve been to are super-welcoming and if nothing else you’ll have a great night out Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi female looking for a bi female to join myself and my husband I have to say it’s difficult ! I don’t want my husband to stand on the side watching - we are interested in all enjoying each other - for us , if I wanted to have FF play with another bi female I could go on any of the numerous popular dating websites and find someone ? Which is why we have landed here .

I guess for me - if I was single I would go onto a dating website because playing alone with another female wouldn’t be swinging , it’s just dating ? Our aim is to add another sexual partner to our couple .

"

My main reason for not looking on a dating site for a woman is I assume they are looking for a relationship and I am already married and we just want people we can have a casual time with really. Wouldn’t be very far to just put on a dating site “only looking for sex sorry” whereas on here we can.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"As a bi female looking for a bi female to join myself and my husband I have to say it’s difficult ! I don’t want my husband to stand on the side watching - we are interested in all enjoying each other - for us , if I wanted to have FF play with another bi female I could go on any of the numerous popular dating websites and find someone ? Which is why we have landed here .

I guess for me - if I was single I would go onto a dating website because playing alone with another female wouldn’t be swinging , it’s just dating ? Our aim is to add another sexual partner to our couple .

My main reason for not looking on a dating site for a woman is I assume they are looking for a relationship and I am already married and we just want people we can have a casual time with really. Wouldn’t be very far to just put on a dating site “only looking for sex sorry” whereas on here we can. "

I'm on a dating site. I hadn't used it in a year and when I went back on it, because my settings were originally set to open to non monogamy, all of my matches were now poly couples!

So yes, I keep the two separate. I'm not trawling dating sites for a threesome or someone where I'm low on their priority list as they already have it all.

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