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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a youngish lad (29) looking to meet with a busty mature women over 50… is this a bit of a rare thing on here or not?

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By *eirdscienceMan
over a year ago

Postwick

Nope, my wife loves a younger guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope, my wife loves a younger guy"

I’m yet to find one on here so far… shame you live so far away she looks amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a way off 50 yet but when looking for single guys we tend to prefer younger. Everyone has their preferences. Just enjoy.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

if my inbox is anything to go by, it's not rare at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely love me an older woman or a couple!

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

Definitely not rare - both ways (older women looking for younger and younger looking for older) - Fab, it’s where dreams come true lol lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are a way off 50 yet but when looking for single guys we tend to prefer younger. Everyone has their preferences. Just enjoy."

Yes that’s true. I think my preference is women older than me because a few of my ex’s have been around 10 years older…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely not rare - both ways (older women looking for younger and younger looking for older) - Fab, it’s where dreams come true lol lol"

Maybe I’ve not given it enough time yet haha…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare"

Can certainly see why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare

Can certainly see why! "

It does nothing for me though unfortunately.

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By *arneyWhite2014Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Nope. When I was a young chap I used to love carrying on with older married women. Had a few on the go all the time. They seem to appreciate s good hard young cock in ‘em. I stick get a kick out of shagging a married woman, just don’t get the time or chance as often.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare

Can certainly see why!

It does nothing for me though unfortunately."

Shame

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare"

Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their preference, i do try and stay within the age ranges but when it’s 18-99 and they say oh your too young well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare

Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time."

Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!

Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are a way off 50 yet but when looking for single guys we tend to prefer younger. Everyone has their preferences. Just enjoy."

Balls… that counts me out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare

Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.

Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!

Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz"

You do have a very specific age range, I must say. Don’t think I’ve seen one so narrow before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have an age range that's way younger than ourselves.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare

Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.

Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!

Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz"

You have a point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare

Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.

Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!

Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz

You do have a very specific age range, I must say. Don’t think I’ve seen one so narrow before "

Exactly! But still I have 25 year olds messaging! I couldn’t be more specific but it’s ignored mostly anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare

Same here but they are not for me. If they could read my profile it would save them wasting their time.

Exactly! At least read the age preferences if nothing else!

Although, how often do you get “I know I’m younger than your preferences but……” zzzzzz

You do have a very specific age range, I must say. Don’t think I’ve seen one so narrow before

Exactly! But still I have 25 year olds messaging! I couldn’t be more specific but it’s ignored mostly anyway "

It’s perked me up to be honest. It’s not often that at 42 years old, I’m too young for someone! Even though you do look bloody gorgeous. Double edged sword I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me. "

Do you tend to meet people around 35 rather than your age then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me.

Do you tend to meet people around 35 rather than your age then?"

Tend to connect with guys in their late 30s and early/mid 40s. I allow some leeway ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me.

Do you tend to meet people around 35 rather than your age then?

Tend to connect with guys in their late 30s and early/mid 40s. I allow some leeway ??"

Leeway towards late 20’s maybe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really common and at time it just feels like a fetish when I am approached (I'm 51). I have a lower age limit of 35 because I just find that's what works for me.

Do you tend to meet people around 35 rather than your age then?

Tend to connect with guys in their late 30s and early/mid 40s. I allow some leeway ??

Leeway towards late 20’s maybe ? "

Tried it. Doesn't work for what I am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm almost 50 and prefer younger men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much younger is younger though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always open to an older lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when you get older, it still stays with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all love a younger man, your in the right place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where on the other end of scale I’m just out of everyone’s age limit fifty six !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all love a younger man, your in the right place "

That’s good to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older too. No shame in it mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all love a younger man, your in the right place "

Maybe add me as a friend ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always use to go for guys my age or older but recently took the dive & met someone younger.... would do it again that's for sure ??

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I like younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much younger is younger though? "

That all depends on the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I LOVE older women, I prefer older women

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By *heone4475Man
over a year ago

upham


"My inbox is full of very young guys messaging so it’s definitely not rare"

Not surprised ,look stunning

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Definitely not rare, I meet younger guys, they are great fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely not rare, I meet younger guys, they are great fun "

Lucky them

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil


"Definitely not rare, I meet younger guys, they are great fun

Lucky them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I LOVE older women, I prefer older women"

Why is that?

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By *ames_SoloMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm absolutely in for being with an older woman / couple. Even just watching.

Love it

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By *95888Man
over a year ago

carlisle

I love a woman older than myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why older ladies?

Are you lazy lovers and want us to do all the work, come up with the sexy ideas?

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By *he Dark Knight09Man
over a year ago

London


"Definitely not rare - both ways (older women looking for younger and younger looking for older) - Fab, it’s where dreams come true lol lol"

Oh for sure, what a magical place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brings back memeories of when I were a cocky 19 year old printer and used to meet one of the ladies in thr bindery for fun. She was 42 and taught me loads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why older ladies?

Are you lazy lovers and want us to do all the work, come up with the sexy ideas? "

Sometimes it seems that way...

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

No not at all rare apparently ! I get many more messages from under 30s! Young as 18 than I do from over 30! Not appealing to me though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"We have an age range that's way younger than ourselves."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course."

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

stafford friday afternoon

Always enjoyed older women less inhibited I found

Harder to find now I’m older lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've wanted to but I don't know how to start the conversation, and I feel like they wouldn't really be interested

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

Don't know if is a fantasy of mine more I've just had great sex with women who are older.

So I'm attracted to people I'm more likely to get on with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways. "

Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've wanted to but I don't know how to start the conversation, and I feel like they wouldn't really be interested

"

I think you can see from this thread that lots of older women are receptive to younger men. Why do you feel they wouldn't be interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.

Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X"

It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.

Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X

It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant. "

Yep, age is just a number.

Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.

Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X

It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.

Yep, age is just a number.

Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable! "

Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.

Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X

It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.

Yep, age is just a number.

Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!

Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me "

Agree with you! I see you’re in the North East? Fair from York?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I used to meet younger guys quite often but post lockdown I’ve found many I’ve chatted to are fantasists and totally unreliable when it comes to actually meeting.

For that reason - and because I go for a mental as well as a physical connection - I now tend to meet a few regular friends around my own age. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.

Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X

It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.

Yep, age is just a number.

Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!

Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me

Agree with you! I see you’re in the North East? Fair from York?"

about an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.

Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X

It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.

Yep, age is just a number.

Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!

Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me

Agree with you! I see you’re in the North East? Fair from York?

about an hour"

Not too far then…!

I would message but you have restrictions on who can message…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve always liked older ladies. Much more demanding and they know what pleases them and expect it!

Even if not they’ve not tried something they’ve always been more receptive to trying something new than some in their 30’s.

Just a personal observation, not gospel of course.

I'm not that much older than you, but I guess yes that describes me. Often men say it's because we are so experienced and confident and it's like "teach me your ways". Especially my kinky ways.

Absolutely agree. Plus it’s about reciprocation, pleasure, enjoyment and taking pleasure from pleasing someone. And that works both ways. X

It should be, certainly. I don't really see age as a big issue. Except if they want me to teach them because I am older. Last week someone got very cross when I didn't want to teach him how to be a dominant.

Yep, age is just a number.

Sounds a bit scripted! Flexibility and exploring each other is much better and preferable!

Quite standard from some guys. That's why these threads about milfs and so forth make me

Agree with you! I see you’re in the North East? Fair from York?

about an hour

Not too far then…!

I would message but you have restrictions on who can message… "

Strange. I've messaged so you can ask me to teach you stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've wanted to but I don't know how to start the conversation, and I feel like they wouldn't really be interested

I think you can see from this thread that lots of older women are receptive to younger men. Why do you feel they wouldn't be interested?"

I tend to be seen as "cute" rather than "handsome". I got ID trying to buy booze yesterday and I'm 38?!?

I just have one of those faces that will probably help me when I'm REALLY old.

I've just never felt like the type an older woman would be interested in. Personal thing, I get that older women like younger guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older women are a massive fantasy of mine ! Any offers welcome !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've wanted to but I don't know how to start the conversation, and I feel like they wouldn't really be interested

I think you can see from this thread that lots of older women are receptive to younger men. Why do you feel they wouldn't be interested?

I tend to be seen as "cute" rather than "handsome". I got ID trying to buy booze yesterday and I'm 38?!?

I just have one of those faces that will probably help me when I'm REALLY old.

I've just never felt like the type an older woman would be interested in. Personal thing, I get that older women like younger guys."

I don't think you can know unless you ask. You're making assumptions about what women will find attractive. I remember the first time a guy in his 30s came onto me and I was . Aged 48 atm. I just assumed I wasn't attractive to younger men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to meet younger guys quite often but post lockdown I’ve found many I’ve chatted to are fantasists and totally unreliable when it comes to actually meeting.

For that reason - and because I go for a mental as well as a physical connection - I now tend to meet a few regular friends around my own age. Xx"

That’s fair enough I guess… I suppose to some lads when it actually comes down to it it’s a bit daunting haha ! x

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