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Why do husbands enjoy seeing their wives fucked?

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasises.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4 dimensional show in our own bedroom?

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own. Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography thar we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *orthWestUKCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Preston

I think number 1 is true. Not 2 or 3 fir us though. We’d add

4. It affirms that the mrs is sexually desirable such that another guy wants and will fuck her. Thus making both mr and mrs feel sexually attractive that she is desired by many and has picked mr for her soulmate

5. That when you love someone so much, to see them have pleasure brings enjoyment. That pleasure can be them orgasming with another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of your scenarios OP seem to ignore the fact that the woman also has a say in this.

You speak of things being done to her, of her being used, of the man including her in HIS fantasies.

Perhaps some enjoy seeing their significant other in a position of power with other men?

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

I’d agree with that too

Absolutely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I think it’s because I find my wife stunningly beautiful and seeing her enjoy herself makes her even more beautiful and that in turn gets me going

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Same as above her pleasure is my pleasure

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By *ihullfunMan
over a year ago

hull

I have watched yet but cannt wait, the idea turns us both on

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY


"For me I think it’s because I find my wife stunningly beautiful and seeing her enjoy herself makes her even more beautiful and that in turn gets me going "

Shes very sexy

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Number 1 for us.

Shes my own porn star and she knows it. I pick the ppl she plays with and pick the outfits she wears at the meets/porno audition.

It works for us both. I get to join in as well.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I think number 1 is true. Not 2 or 3 fir us though. We’d add

4. It affirms that the mrs is sexually desirable such that another guy wants and will fuck her. Thus making both mr and mrs feel sexually attractive that she is desired by many and has picked mr for her soulmate

5. That when you love someone so much, to see them have pleasure brings enjoyment. That pleasure can be them orgasming with another guy."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think number 1 is true. Not 2 or 3 fir us though. We’d add

4. It affirms that the mrs is sexually desirable such that another guy wants and will fuck her. Thus making both mr and mrs feel sexually attractive that she is desired by many and has picked mr for her soulmate

5. That when you love someone so much, to see them have pleasure brings enjoyment. That pleasure can be them orgasming with another guy."

I agree fully with this.

I’ve had this fantasy about my wife for years. I do enjoy watching a good session. Hence being quite the voyeur

My pleasure is from seeing her in pleasure. Love when she plays with her toys and I watch. With my involvement after.

Finally found the courage to tell her and she’s ok with the fantasy. Plays it out in roleplay.

We are both in the same page with things. I love seeing her turned on, so do what she enjoys. And she does the same in return. Does what she can to turn me.

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By *illie99TV/TS
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Or

6. Hubby is far to lazy to expend all that energy when he can get someone else to do it for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasises.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4 dimensional show in our own bedroom?

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own. Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography thar we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x"

Make's sense. Many a mindset and reason that creates tons of sexual fullfilment..

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By *hilswhore1000Couple
over a year ago

tunstall

I love seeing her have fun

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By *arlly83Couple
over a year ago

wilmslow

I love my wife being fucked hearing her moan ! And then coming into the room after other person has gone and telling me all about it while she does things to me , I assume I like this due the fact I'm there and the anticipation of it and the whole not knowing aspect of it

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By *eachybum2020Man
over a year ago

Victoria

Probably one of the best threads on here in a long time.

Although I have been involved in a threesome with a couple I have never really understood why the male of the couple enjoys seeing another man taking his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably one of the best threads on here in a long time.

Although I have been involved in a threesome with a couple I have never really understood why the male of the couple enjoys seeing another man taking his wife.

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The "reason" you may not have "understood" is that you have not shared your wife and until you do, you will never understand. It more exciting than fucking someone elses wife/GF etc. Thousands are here just for that.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasies.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4-dimensional show in our bedroom?

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own? Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open-minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography that we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x"

When I see rubbish like this it boils my piss you take 5 minutes on Google bang then your psychologist some people will have simply reason but everyone's different...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasies.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4-dimensional show in our bedroom?

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own? Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open-minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography that we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x

When I see rubbish like this it boils my piss you take 5 minutes on Google bang then your psychologist some people will have simply reason but everyone's different..."

good response.

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By *asy on the eye couple.Couple
over a year ago

East Mids Leicester

1 and 3. Plus I love to see her pleasured.

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By *asy on the eye couple.Couple
over a year ago

East Mids Leicester

Thats pretty much what does it for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s about feeling sexually inferior to a bull. My cock is probably average but I can’t fuck my wife from behind I’m too short. Seeing her fucked from behind is all I want. I want to feel helpless locked in tight chastity unable to get erect as she enjoys orgasm after orgasm with a bull and I clean up. I also want her to watch her bull fuck my ass and deep throat me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't a clue why it has excited me so much. All I know is that I would still love it.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The most interesting aspect of seeing one's partner with another man is the power dynamics of the situation; watching her taking control, and dominating, then being submissive,then encouraging mutual pleasure and finally, if the guy is experienced and can last long enough watching her orgasm and finishing the guy off with a BJ.

Sometimes, in fact probably too frequently, we take our partner's sexuality for granted; seeing them with someone else reminds us, or should reinforce, how good they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasises.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4 dimensional show in our own bedroom?

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own. Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography thar we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x"
caus e it's hot!! I'm guessing

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By *lmostDeviantCouple
over a year ago

Tameside


"I think number 1 is true. Not 2 or 3 fir us though. We’d add

4. It affirms that the mrs is sexually desirable such that another guy wants and will fuck her. Thus making both mr and mrs feel sexually attractive that she is desired by many and has picked mr for her soulmate

5. That when you love someone so much, to see them have pleasure brings enjoyment. That pleasure can be them orgasming with another guy."

We see it this way, although there are multiple reasons we love it. For me (mr), I see it as part of our foreplay. We’re absolute soulmates and I want her to have as much pleasure in her life as she possibly can. I want her to know how desirable, sexy and delicious she is. Her fucking my mind with what she’s going to do or what’ she’s done turns me into an animal that’s just desperate for her. Mrs knowing this and slowly teasing me with all the details until it’s too much and I don’t hold back, reclaiming her for the week haha. Watching the videos months after, still ridiculously horny over it. It’s made our relationship stronger than it was, there’s so much trust between us that cheating or being attracted to another will never even be an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just glad they do and happy to share

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn


"There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasises.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4 dimensional show in our own bedroom?

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own. Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography thar we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x"

They want to see them pleased cause they cannot do it them selfs

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos


"There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasises.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4 dimensional show in our own bedroom?

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own. Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography thar we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x

They want to see them pleased cause they cannot do it them selfs "

That response is utter bollox!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love watching Claire with another man. It’s hard to put into words why, it’s kind of a primal instinct.

It’s nice to see her enjoying herself and receiving pleasure, it makes me very proud to have such a sexy wife, it turns me on to see her being so naughty with someone else but most of all knowing she will always come back to me.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Speaking for myself - I am fully aware that I do not satisfy her in a way that she needs or deserves. I also get an immense sense of pleasure seeing & hearing her pleased in this way. It also boosts her confidence that another man would want her sexually and for me that is great to see also.

I'm not a cuckold in the TRUE sense of the word but I do get massively turned on by her having sex with another man.

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By *oolman34Man
over a year ago

london

Perfect explanation. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of your scenarios OP seem to ignore the fact that the woman also has a say in this.

You speak of things being done to her, of her being used, of the man including her in HIS fantasies.

Perhaps some enjoy seeing their significant other in a position of power with other men?"

Someone actually gets how this works for loving couples! Tabitha is an awesome Amazon, not a sex doll!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasises.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4 dimensional show in our own bedroom?

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own. Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography thar we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x"

No to all of those.

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By *adForGood69Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

I think I like watching my wife because she's 10 years younger than me and still quite hot.

Sometimes I feel insecure about the age gap and think she deserves to be fucked by someone fitter/better looking than me.

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By *orestguy28Man
over a year ago

Glos

Always used to find the sex afterwards was absolutely amazing. Quite often much more passionate and loving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always amazing feeling when the hubby reaches out and ask if i would like to meet his wife... I take it as a huge honour. Nothing but love for couples ive met on here, always so relaxing the atmosphere as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love seeing the pure pleasure in her eyes and fully enjoyment of one or more cocks or even pussys. Bringing out her inner slut with a someone who let's and helps her is amazing. Unfortunately this was with my previous partner and not my current one....yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m the woman on the other end of this.

My husband enjoys watching me with other men and it doesn’t seem to matter how many times he explains why I still don’t seem to be able to understand why he likes it. And I struggle as I feel like I need to understand it. Especially as Im pretty sure I wouldn’t like watching him with a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of your scenarios OP seem to ignore the fact that the woman also has a say in this.

You speak of things being done to her, of her being used, of the man including her in HIS fantasies.

Perhaps some enjoy seeing their significant other in a position of power with other men?

Someone actually gets how this works for loving couples! Tabitha is an awesome Amazon, not a sex doll!

"

I think that trust and connection play a huge part in this dynamic too. We both know that we trust each other with other people and have complete faith in our connection. Helping each other have fun is just part of what we do together, even if we're not in the same place.

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By *ndysmithMan
over a year ago

north cyprus


"There are various things that I’ve considered:

1. As husbands are we such sexually addicted deviants that our wife has now become an extension of our fantasises.

Do we see her as a live porn star and she is the star of the 4 dimensional show in our own bedroom?

all of the above i think if we are honest

2. Do we subconsciously find her lovers attractive too? Are they physically superior specimens with better bodies and greater penis size than our own. Do our bisexual tendencies lie somewhere between admiration and lust?

3. Are we so open minded that we become bored of normal vanilla sexual contact, so bored of on screen pornography thar we must involve our soul mate in our quest for excitement?

Does the taboo nature of inviting and encouraging another man to devour and deflower and use the woman we are meant to protect excite us because we know it is wrong?

Thanks for hearing my thoughts.

Appreciate your response x"

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

Agreed

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"Or

6. Hubby is far to lazy to expend all that energy when he can get someone else to do it for him

"

this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7. We're all sick, twisted little fuckers!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

When MF partners are able to watch their spouses with another, and jealousy is not an issue, it is highly stimulating.

When those two couples then come together, say for example where the two guys DP or DVP one of the females whilst the other fem pegs her partner, it is even more stimulating.

Recording it, enables everyone to repeatedly relive the experience.

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

My Wife always has the final say in anything . She loves flirting and if it goes further I don’t mind . We both enjoy it . My kick is her power over us mere mortals (men!), if it’s a no , it’s a no ! We find the fact that lads , especially married or attached , would want to be with my wife very exciting and naughty ! So what I personally find great is , the love and trust between us becomes stronger .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do play separate now,

It works for us,

I really enjoy knowing she's with men x

Hot I call it x

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By *unmidwcoupleCouple
over a year ago

leicester

For me it is seeing my beautiful wife enjoying herself. Watching her orgasm with another man or women is so sexy knowing she is letting herself go and enjoying herself.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

8 one man is not enough anymore

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"I’m the woman on the other end of this.

My husband enjoys watching me with other men and it doesn’t seem to matter how many times he explains why I still don’t seem to be able to understand why he likes it. And I struggle as I feel like I need to understand it. Especially as Im pretty sure I wouldn’t like watching him with a woman. "

This is us exactly..... I just don’t quite understand why it’s such a turn on for my hubby although love the fun we have with it......

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