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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all

So I can't be the only person that gets messages from people that just don't float my boat. Fetishes and kinks come in all manners of disguises and I'm just very particular with mine because I know what I like.

What I don't appreciate is being sent abusive or condescending messages because I didn't reply to someone. You can't be everyone's type and I'm not going to fuck someone for the sake of it!

Keyboard warriors and people who expect instant gratification out in abundance makes me sad and puts me off using this site if I'm honest

Please tell me I'm not alone in experiencing this? The forum here is great and I know there are decent people on here

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By *ristobaltMan
over a year ago

penryn

Block them, forget them and it’s only because they have nothing in there life that satisfies them

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's sucks but so do some people. I've normally just replied and blocked right after to avoid any future contact or fighting. A lot of people don't send the message and go straight for the block though, it's a safer option I suppose.

LvM

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Please tell me I'm not alone in experiencing this? The forum here is great and I know there are decent people on here "

You are not alone.

I have been having this very conversation with others here over and over again.

fail to understand how the muppets think that being nasty makes us more likely to respond???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think what was more baffling was the insult followed by them blocking me

Each to their own I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has the right to abuse another but i feel they do not suffer a consequence when they do it, therefore they think it is ok.

I am always pleased to get a reply even if its no thank you, it at least shows the person has read my message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

So I can't be the only person that gets messages from people that just don't float my boat. Fetishes and kinks come in all manners of disguises and I'm just very particular with mine because I know what I like.

What I don't appreciate is being sent abusive or condescending messages because I didn't reply to someone. You can't be everyone's type and I'm not going to fuck someone for the sake of it!

Keyboard warriors and people who expect instant gratification out in abundance makes me sad and puts me off using this site if I'm honest

Please tell me I'm not alone in experiencing this? The forum here is great and I know there are decent people on here "

I am lucky to have hubby to shield behind. But some of the messages and abuse is unbelievable. This is supposed to to be a equal and diverse site. So why do we have to put up with this shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. We just delete without a thought, it’s just words on a screen.

Don’t let it bother you x

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Don't let a few put you off, carry on being yourself and count yourself lucky you found out who the arseholes were before wasting time on them, I've not experienced any abuse but have been told of it from female friends I chat with.

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By *onnie 90Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think what was more baffling was the insult followed by them blocking me

Each to their own I guess "

When a FAB males ego is dented it does tend to make them behave erratically.

If someone isn't my type I just block immediately after reading their message. If dick pics are the first thing I see I don't even read the message. Just instant block. Saves time and hassle.

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

I think we all get that sometimes. It used to bother me not I just report and block.

To be fair though I get lots more messages that are nice than ones that are abusive.

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole


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When a FAB males ego is dented it does tend to make them behave erratically.

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What surprises me is that it’s not just single guys who get abusive.

I get far more messages from single men (as that’s what I’m primarily looking for) but I’ve had just as many abusive messages from couples.

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By *inkRose75Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I reply politely to messages but do get pushy replies. In a polite way I said no to a single man as only looking for couples. He replied saying he had a friend. If I say no in first message then it is always going to be a no. I do tend to block single males messaging but open this up now and again to see if anyone does catch my eye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for your replies. Sometimes a little reassurance is needed ... enjoy the rest of your evenings xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I raely block anyone

Quiet a few are pushy and think i/we own them a meet in the first or second message.

A guy today wanted to sniff off my wifes pussy. I messaged hime told him we did not advocate frugs/law breaking he apologised and jogged on

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