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By *weetcorruption OP   Couple
over a year ago

At home

We've noticed the last few months that we start chatting with a couple,exchange one or two messages then suddenly no reply,no explanation not even a no thanks? Usually these couples have shown interest and the messages have only been polite how you doing etc.

We always reply to others and just find it's bad manners not to.

Does anyone else find this or are we the only ones?

S&E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We fund it happens a lot. It seems a lot of people love the thrill of the chase. Once the chase is over and a meet is mentioned or talked about the chase is over.

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By *ifornowCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

It will always happen....just move on !

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By *weetcorruption OP   Couple
over a year ago

At home

We don't even get to the point of mentioning a meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we have had it too.... Messages and lots of contact whilst the chase is on! But then nothing afterwards, no returned messages......

We don't really care though, better things to worry about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , this is quite often from new members - and this who have not had any meets .

Think it's because the thought is the turn on for them , and they have no intention of actually meeting .

We kinda get to them out early on now !

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By *weetcorruption OP   Couple
over a year ago

At home

Thanks for the posts guys,nice to know it doesnt just happen to us lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes , this is quite often from new members - and this who have not had any meets .

Think it's because the thought is the turn on for them , and they have no intention of actually meeting .

We kinda get to them out early on now !"

My fake-far has been in fine form lately lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've noticed the last few months that we start chatting with a couple,exchange one or two messages then suddenly no reply,no explanation not even a no thanks? Usually these couples have shown interest and the messages have only been polite how you doing etc.

We always reply to others and just find it's bad manners not to.

Does anyone else find this or are we the only ones?

S&E "

Try being a single man on here, for a day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And upon reading your novel like profile its right at the bottom your only really interested in soft swap. This could put people of. Perhaps signalling your intentions at the top of your profile in place of your rhetoric on single guys may be beneficial. Most people look at pics then mail without reading a profile. You do come a cross as a little bit moany lol again not a flattering characteristic.

A little work on the profile could improve results greatly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse ... Try being a bi guy ! Lots of interest from "straight guys" and lots if interest from "couples" . All wanting to know will I suck their cocks !!!!! Then ..... Nothing arrrrrgh !!! So frustraighting but life goes on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like a candy shop here and they pick and mix and move on to next treat. Thats Fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about it babe.

It happens a lot on here, just do like what the others have said and move on. Like they say plenty more fish in the sea.

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By *weetcorruption OP   Couple
over a year ago

At home


"And upon reading your novel like profile its right at the bottom your only really interested in soft swap. This could put people of. Perhaps signalling your intentions at the top of your profile in place of your rhetoric on single guys may be beneficial. Most people look at pics then mail without reading a profile. You do come a cross as a little bit moany lol again not a flattering characteristic.

A little work on the profile could improve results greatly xx"

Advice taken on board.As a couple not wanting to meet countless single men we found it necessary to put something at the beginning of the profile as no one takes notice otherwise,but yes maybe we need to remove it now.

We haven't always been soft swap but down to a few bad experiences S feels this is the best way forward and there are a lot of soft swap couples on fab,some of them were the ones that messaged us so they knew this already,anyway thanks for the advice.

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By *weetcorruption OP   Couple
over a year ago

At home


"Dont worry about it babe.

It happens a lot on here, just do like what the others have said and move on. Like they say plenty more fish in the sea. "

Thank you

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By *weetcorruption OP   Couple
over a year ago

At home


"Its like a candy shop here and they pick and mix and move on to next treat. Thats Fab x "

That's true,thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont worry about it babe.

It happens a lot on here, just do like what the others have said and move on. Like they say plenty more fish in the sea.

Thank you "

Btw your pics are very sexy lol.pity about the soft swap lol we was gonna throw our hat in the ring lol

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By *weetcorruption OP   Couple
over a year ago

At home


"Dont worry about it babe.

It happens a lot on here, just do like what the others have said and move on. Like they say plenty more fish in the sea.

Thank you

Btw your pics are very sexy lol.pity about the soft swap lol we was gonna throw our hat in the ring lol"

No probs guys but thanks

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

yes unfortunatly it seems like its happening more and more oftern on here now , there are some total arseholes on here now , spoiling it for the genuine swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes unfortunatly it seems like its happening more and more oftern on here now , there are some total arseholes on here now , spoiling it for the genuine swingers

"
well you get that on all sites ... some are selfish its there needs and there needs only.Some don't have the time to know people make friends ... They just look for sex .

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