FabSwingers.com forum: What Men Want?

By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

So.

When you meet a Single Male (it does happen)

Do you find that they are just out to release the contents of their balls?

Or do they actually want to give back pleasure to the Couple or Single Fem?

A few years ago, our meets fell into the latter category.

As Fab now seems to have become a Hook up site we wondered on people’s genuine thoughts????

Have a Dirty Weekend

Dirty Him & Her

xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who only want to release the contents of their balls don't have the patience to chat, meet for a social or two, get to know each other better before getting down to business. So in my experience it's giving pleasure both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men want sex. Most arent fussed who with, most will say anything to get it. Simple as that.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"So.

When you meet a Single Male (it does happen)

Do you find that they are just out to release the contents of their balls?

Or do they actually want to give back pleasure to the Couple or Single Fem?

A few years ago, our meets fell into the latter category.

As Fab now seems to have become a Hook up site we wondered on people’s genuine thoughts????

Have a Dirty Weekend

Dirty Him & Her

xxxxx"

Fab's a hookup site now, is it? First I've heard of it. Excellent news, though!

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By *irtySekrets OP Couple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

"So.

When you meet a Single Male (it does happen)

Do you find that they are just out to release the contents of their balls?

Or do they actually want to give back pleasure to the Couple or Single Fem?

A few years ago, our meets fell into the latter category.

As Fab now seems to have become a Hook up site we wondered on people’s genuine thoughts????

Have a Dirty Weekend

Dirty Him & Her

xxxxx

Fab's a hookup site now, is it? First I've heard of it. Excellent news, though! "

In our opinion, Yes.

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By *ember101Man
over a year ago

London

"Men want sex. Most arent fussed who with, most will say anything to get it. Simple as that."

I agree with this. Not that women don’t want sex either, but I think this site tends to show the above a lot.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I play solo on occasions.

I treat it the same way I treat meets I do with my wife. I absoutely do not go to any meet with the sole intention of "emptying my balls" or for my own satisfaction alone. Just like the other parties, I'm there to have sexy fun times, not go in, drop my pants and load and get out. To be fair though I don't do shag and go meets anyway. We like to socialse a bit before any play and it's the same when I'm on my own.

I'm only interested in showing a lady a good time. Some times its her on her own, sometimes with her partner watching, sometimes it's her partner and I pleasuring her or sometimes a gangbang.

Whatever situation it is, I make a night of it where possible. Good laughs, sexy fun and plenty of time to do it in. Yes I'm there for my own pleasure just as they are for theirs but it's about balance and not being selfish.

Been swinging for 24 years so I know what makes a good meet vs a bad one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I get off on making women cum... It's a power trip kinda thing. I'd be very disappointed if I couldn't make a woman cum, preferably a few times at least on a meet.

Of course I enjoy cumming too, but ladies first

Can't speak for anyone else I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Men want sex. Most arent fussed who with, most will say anything to get it. Simple as that."

Women want sex too but I meet for a social first so don't just fuck anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men want sex. Most arent fussed who with, most will say anything to get it. Simple as that.

Women want sex too but I meet for a social first so don't just fuck anyone."

Yeah of course women want sex, but on here especially women get their pick of the bunch.

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By *2spikeMan
over a year ago

Southsea

Love the chat and social side of meeting.

Also love to see a lady have fun first. Treat the lady well and you shall be rewarded as they say ..or did I make that up.

We all here for sexy fun times but it's a two way street

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Men want sex. Most arent fussed who with, most will say anything to get it. Simple as that.

Women want sex too but I meet for a social first so don't just fuck anyone.

Yeah of course women want sex, but on here especially women get their pick of the bunch. "

Exactly and I pick wisely. I am not here just to empty a mans balls,I am here to make special friendships.

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By *ake and ScribbleCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Personally, I get off on making women cum... It's a power trip kinda thing. I'd be very disappointed if I couldn't make a woman cum, preferably a few times at least on a meet.

Of course I enjoy cumming too, but ladies first

Can't speak for anyone else I'm afraid. "

Really? What about women who don't cum, don't cum unless they make it happen, only cum once, don't want to cum or can't cum under that sort of pressure?

It's no wonder we fake it.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

I want the social, the buildup, the chemistry and the messaging and the nights out, its hard to find someone looking for similar thats local ish

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say! "

I must be one of the stupid ones then because if 50% of it isn't about my pleasure I'm not interested.

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say!

I must be one of the stupid ones then because if 50% of it isn't about my pleasure I'm not interested. "

Honest not stupid!

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters"

Thats in your opinion

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I love to please a lady first and unload

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being in the single men demographic, I myself would always make sure that whoever I have a meet with isn't there just for me to get off but its a mutually beneficial experience. That's why I love playing with couples, more focus on the lady to make sure she's happy before either males.

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By *acial giverMan
over a year ago

hull

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters

Thats in your opinion

Sorry but it's true I know it you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters

Thats in your opinion

Sorry but it's true I know it you do"

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters

Thats in your opinion

Sorry but it's true I know it you do"

I'm afraid not my mrs also swings so I may have a different aspect to it...

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

The keys to chats, socials and meets are.... Taking time to send as many messages as it takes to gain trust and get to know each other, never presume you will have anything but a chat if meeting and don't pester for meets when exchanging messages, it put people off otherwise.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"The keys to chats, socials and meets are.... Taking time to send as many messages as it takes to gain trust and get to know each other, never presume you will have anything but a chat if meeting and don't pester for meets when exchanging messages, it put people off otherwise."

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've must be very lucky with the men I have met off here most have been great meets where it has been about mutual pleasure not just one of us enjoying it.

But then I chat for a good while before I meet and always have a social with the person before we meet for anything more.

Those looking out for themselves and just a quick shag usually don't put the time in to chat for any length of time and get pushy for meets. But then there are plenty of women and couples looking for just that as well.

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By *heonix_flamesWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Mostly just to empty their balls unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is definitely not just about male pleasures. some people wish to be spontaneous with their meets others want to chat, flirt and meet for socials. the important point is to relax, pick up on the vibe and if you click you click.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters"

And any that make this claim are single, absoutely clueless and have their heads wedged firmly up their own backsides.

You ain't me so don't speak for me.

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters

And any that make this claim are single, absoutely clueless and have their heads wedged firmly up their own backsides.

You ain't me so don't speak for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't just want sex, I want intimacy. I want a moment with someone (and maybe her guy gets to be the single viewer of that moment).

Also love giving pleasures and orgasms, so not just about dumping my balls.

Connection is key, right??

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think anyone that says anything to imply that all men are the same is being unnecessarily judgemental and unkind.

Some men just want a willing hole. Some men care more than that and some men are looking for more than that. Some women are just after a willing cock as well. But not all women. I wish people would stop generalizing and tarring all men with the same brush. It's offensive to the majority.

There are good men out there. There are good women out there. Equally the reverse is true but just focus on the good ones for crying out loud.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve found most men I’ve met on here are happy to follow my lead and generally just want to please me. So if I want a quick car BJ then yep they’re game for that.

If I want a fella to shag me senseless for an hour then yep, they are happy to do that.

They’re happy to give oral, to wear condoms etc. I find them usually to be very happy to go with the flow.

But then saying that I’ve chatted to them for bloody months beforehand and they’ve put up with that so I dunno.

I’ve never met a man who has said “look Luna, I’m just here to empty my balls ok? So no I’m not wearing a balaclava and carrying a box of Milk Tray for you, jog on lady!”

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say! "

Why so much hate for single men? Couple of comments now suggesting a stereotype which isn't true

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By *91kMan
over a year ago

Maidstone

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters"

And you... Jeez man what is going on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think anyone that says anything to imply that all men are the same is being unnecessarily judgemental and unkind.

There are good men out there. There are good women out there. Equally the reverse is true but just focus on the good ones for crying out loud."

Well said

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By *otcplmidsCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

I have no complaints with single men on here, the ones I have met have been super friendly and gentleman like until the clothes come off. I suggest chatting to them first before meeting randomly.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say!

Why so much hate for single men? Couple of comments now suggesting a stereotype which isn't true"

Sounds like there's quite a few that are bitter, twisted and have been taken for a walk up the proverbial garden path.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say!

Why so much hate for single men? Couple of comments now suggesting a stereotype which isn't true

Sounds like there's quite a few that are bitter, twisted and have been taken for a walk up the proverbial garden path. "

I don't hate single men, I love single men! I'm just very realistic about what men want.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say!

Why so much hate for single men? Couple of comments now suggesting a stereotype which isn't true

Sounds like there's quite a few that are bitter, twisted and have been taken for a walk up the proverbial garden path.

I don't hate single men, I love single men! I'm just very realistic about what men want."

You're tarring all men with the same brush though. Not all men just say this stuff. And not all men just want sex. Some actually rather enjoy everything else as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say!

Why so much hate for single men? Couple of comments now suggesting a stereotype which isn't true

Sounds like there's quite a few that are bitter, twisted and have been taken for a walk up the proverbial garden path.

I don't hate single men, I love single men! I'm just very realistic about what men want.

You're tarring all men with the same brush though. Not all men just say this stuff. And not all men just want sex. Some actually rather enjoy everything else as well."

Well luckily you have obviously found someone that does, good for you.

I meant most men, not all. Sorry if that came across wrong. But I do think most on here do just want sex, and no I don't just meet random guys and no I'm not bitter and twisted. I'm realistic.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say!

Why so much hate for single men? Couple of comments now suggesting a stereotype which isn't true

Sounds like there's quite a few that are bitter, twisted and have been taken for a walk up the proverbial garden path.

I don't hate single men, I love single men! I'm just very realistic about what men want.

You're tarring all men with the same brush though. Not all men just say this stuff. And not all men just want sex. Some actually rather enjoy everything else as well."

Well said x good comment

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's very easy to them out in the early days of the conversation.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters

Thats in your opinion

Sorry but it's true I know it you do"

Well as his Mrs, I can vouch that he doesn't do that, and I've actually seen him with other women, because we are actually swingers and allow each other that freedom, and are open with each other

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've must be very lucky with the men I have met off here most have been great meets where it has been about mutual pleasure not just one of us enjoying it.

But then I chat for a good while before I meet and always have a social with the person before we meet for anything more.

I agree 100% the fuck and go's cant be arsed to put the time in.. seeya! Don't wanna fuck ya...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been lucky with all my meets that they are wanting to please me to. Pleasure should work both ways and not be selfish from either person

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"Men just want to unload. Any that say they want to please lady first are bullshitters"

Your profile speaks volumes

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

Pretty much all of my meets have been afternoons/evenings of pure pleasure for both parties involved. The guys have made sure I have enjoyed myself and I have made sure they have too.

I think to say that all guys only want to empty their balls is incredibly unfair on the huge amount of men who don’t think that way at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think men get bad press about taking what they want. Some women are pretty specific about what they want and accept at a meet. Just as much in control.

I personally love pleasing a woman. It's far from just about me!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"It's funny how every single guy loves getting a woman off and it's all about the woman's pleasure...men aren't stupid. They know what to say!

Why so much hate for single men? Couple of comments now suggesting a stereotype which isn't true

Sounds like there's quite a few that are bitter, twisted and have been taken for a walk up the proverbial garden path.

I don't hate single men, I love single men! I'm just very realistic about what men want.

You're tarring all men with the same brush though. Not all men just say this stuff. And not all men just want sex. Some actually rather enjoy everything else as well.

Well luckily you have obviously found someone that does, good for you.

I meant most men, not all. Sorry if that came across wrong. But I do think most on here do just want sex, and no I don't just meet random guys and no I'm not bitter and twisted. I'm realistic. "

I have in fact, but that's not the point... I know a lot of men. Been surrounded by them all of my life. And most of the guys I know don't just want sex, they want more.

Many guys on fab may want to just stick their cock in a hole, but I'd still say I doubt it is most. They just don't quite know how to express themselves and some are of the belief that's what the site is about and that's what the women are after. So we re-educate those ones if we can. Or ignore them.

And I never said I thought you were bitter and twisted, or that you meet randoms. But I do think it's a shame that you hold the belief you do.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

We are all very different I love to please a lady first because I love doing that kissing and sucking and licking a ladies body but then there are some guys that just want to spunk and not worry about the lady well that’s just me from my side of this chat