FabSwingers.com forum: Social Advice

By *ittleMissSexy2017 OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

We’ve only ever had socials with other couples but looking to try single guys

Our last attempt a few years ago resulted in us in being stood up which put us off

Any advice

Has anyone organised several socials in one evening on the off chance you do get stood up…or is that too much like speed dating!

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I think it's about being selective

You could also look to meet at at organised social, that way there's other people there if the person doesn't turne up

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Single guys are notoriously flakey on here. Not implying they all are but with Single fellas being the predominant account type on fab, you end up with a lot of wanna be types and dreamers.

We personally don't meet single guys (not my wife's thing) but I do play separately (cuckqean couple) and we do host social events which singles guys can attend. In our years doing this, I've seen plenty of guys be no shows to things like gangbangs (which suits me just fine if I'm the only guy to turn up lol) and at our last social event I belive just 1 guy out of a potential 15 invited guys turned up.

Maybe it's just our experiance and area, maybe it's an indication of how things are on the site in general...I don't know.

So.my suggestion would be the following to fund legit guys.

1) Go to a club or a social event hosted by others and meet a guy there as fab is very flakey on that front.

2) If relying on fab, either find a guy who's well verified, is already part of a couple on fab (not a fwb couple) OR has veris from socials or clubs.

3) Avoid anyone who sends dick pics and starts with the dirty talk straight off. They're just here for a quick wank.

I'm.sure some on here will argue everyone deserves a chance, and I agree but we've been at this for 24 years and have been around the block enough times to know what sort things work and what don't.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think organising multiple socials on the off chance the first person doesn't show is fair as if he does show up you have to let down the other person which would make you exactly what you don't want.... flaky

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By *ittleMissSexy2017 OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

"Single guys are notoriously flakey on here. Not implying they all are but with Single fellas being the predominant account type on fab, you end up with a lot of wanna be types and dreamers.

Maybe it's just our experiance and area, maybe it's an indication of how things are on the site in general...I don't know.

So.my suggestion would be the following to fund legit guys.

1) Go to a club or a social event hosted by others and meet a guy there as fab is very flakey on that front.

2) If relying on fab, either find a guy who's well verified, is already part of a couple on fab (not a fwb couple) OR has veris from socials or clubs.

3) Avoid anyone who sends dick pics and starts with the dirty talk straight off. They're just here for a quick wank.

I'm.sure some on here will argue everyone deserves a chance, and I agree but we've been at this for 24 years and have been around the block enough times to know what sort things work and what don't.

Hope this helps.

Fills us with great confidence, thanks for the advice though

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By *ittleMissSexy2017 OP Couple
over a year ago

Kent

"I don't think organising multiple socials on the off chance the first person doesn't show is fair as if he does show up you have to let down the other person which would make you exactly what you don't want.... flaky "

Thats this issue

Unless different timings to different people

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We deal with it by only meeting in places we like to go on our own, so if/when they don't turn up, it's not a problem to us.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

This exactly.And also no one wants to be plan B .

I have never been ghosted yet on here but I tend to chat for a while before I arrange a meet that approach may not work for everyone but so far it has worked for me on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily for me I've never been ghosted or stood anyone up, I'm a guy on fab so given the chance I won't fk it up. Its not like I'm tripping over messages and meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've never been stood up on a social.

Select wisely, get to know through messages and hopefully you won't be disappointed.

Generally (and I am generalising) it's married guys, who are on here secretly, that are flakey due to their nature of there predicament.

Good luck!! Happy fabbing

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Always have a plan B/C/D, an hour or so apart. Single guys are incredibly flakey.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

If you've been let down repeatedly all I can think of is are you spending enough time getting to know them well enough? I would hate to have a no show, only happened once. It takes a lot of courage as single bloke to turn up to meet a couple, maybe they have not been serious enough in the first place. I can't think why if a bloke is lucky enough to get a meet he wouldn't show.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We’ve never been stood up yet. I spend a while getting to know people on here first and I think that helps to out the flaky ones who are all talk.

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