FabSwingers.com forum: My perfect relationship

By *etalThrashingmad OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've been thinking about this recently, I'm a straight man and I think my perfect relationship would be with another guy who is also straight but we have loads in common and are best friends. And we just fuck girls together, does that sound weird?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I don't get it. Sound like being single, but having a good friend.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I must admit to me when you talk about relationship with another guy to me it would involve romantic feelings and physical sexual relations with the other guy.

Does sound like what you seek is more a close relationship where you share women together and live in the same house. Which is quite understandable. Not everyone wants a romantic relationship.

But then love is a spectrum and who am I to tell you how your relationships should be?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *etalThrashingmad OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I would argue you can have romantic feelings towards someone without sexual attraction. Like Asexual people for instance. I think you can possess a deep love for someone without being sexually attracted to them. Also there is a sexual element in this case just not in a traditional sense. Either way I think I'm being way too niche and this is probably why I'm single!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I say each to their own, if you think that would make you happy then go for it, you will either find out it's not for you, or you'll find out that it's a good fit for you and the perfect set up. Only you can decide, and whatever anyone else thinks about it shouldn't matter if it works for you!

My perfect relationship would be with someone who likes lots of physical affection and touching (massages, hugs, hand holding etc) and has a high sex drive and enjoys sensual stuff like slow steamy middle of the night sex as well as kinky throwing me around the room sex! Someone who would be up for exploring all the fantasies and kinky things I want to do, who would be happy to bring others in to play with together, someone who would be ok with taking things slow and not jumping into spending tons of time together, but also doesn't think I'm 'hard work' for just asking to not be ignored and ghosted for days on end (like I have been told recently by someone who I cared about) and puts up with me being a bit neurotic and fiesty sometimes (half Scottish and naturally auburn so I've got that celtic fire!) so yeah that's what I'd like in an ideal world!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I always seen love, friendship and relationships as spectrum rather that a limited set of boxes. I've experience in my life different levels of love and relationships both romantic and not. As such there is a whole range of different formats of relationship you can have that are perfectly valid even if not conventional and fitting into societies boxes.

What your saying I find hard to understand. But I do not walk in your shoes or see the world through your eyes. I have strong love for my freinds male and female and I get the love bit. But I guess based on core sexuality I've never experienced romantic or sexual attraction to any male freind. To me love has far more scope beyond just romantic or sexual, it can be parental or for a comrade or just out of common humanity for instance. So yes I don't get what you feel because I don't feel it and it's an odd concept to me. But I do now understand what your saying and understand its completely possible to feel that way and perfectly valid. I apologise if I come across flippant before. I think it's very niche and probably very difficult to find. However I don't think you should give up. It's probably out there but maybe not too visible in society because it's the kind of relationship that tends to stay hidden.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread