FabSwingers.com forum: Is be a straight male..

By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

A minority on this site and holds back meets?

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?"

Where is an “ing” in the autocorrect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?"

No I think being bi does

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?"

Try being straight and fat.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Or straight and old

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?

Try being straight and fat.

Straight and curvy, slightly paradoxical?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?

Try being straight and fat.

Straight and curvy, slightly paradoxical?

Just bi and in shape and still rejected lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in a couple we joined to meet other couples. All we get is message from men. Couples ignore us I feel I the male is the reason we don’t get interest

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I am in a couple we joined to meet other couples. All we get is message from men. Couples ignore us I feel I the male is the reason we don’t get interest "

Okay, that’s a glass of wine I didn’t need to snot over my phone screen.

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.

Rude etc.

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By *ld HeroMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't think single straight males are a minority, just a bit further down on the in demand list.

All depends on what people are looking for.

Seek and ye shall find haha

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.

Rude etc. "

Interesting, in what way?

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.

Rude etc.

Interesting, in what way?

I’ve had guys who have been OBSESSED and super creepy, the more I said no the more I got the pressure and stuff. Also there’s an element of *is he really who he says he is*

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.

Rude etc.

Interesting, in what way?

I’ve had guys who have been OBSESSED and super creepy, the more I said no the more I got the pressure and stuff. Also there’s an element of *is he really who he says he is*"

Okay, what’s that to do with a straight subtle marketing post.

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By *ld HeroMan
over a year ago

Luton

"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.

Rude etc.

Interesting, in what way?

I’ve had guys who have been OBSESSED and super creepy, the more I said no the more I got the pressure and stuff. Also there’s an element of *is he really who he says he is*"

Is anyone really who they say they are?

It's a risk we all run on sites like this no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or straight and ugly and fat and old

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Or straight and ugly and fat and old

Blimey - you're only 40

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By *icentious OP Couple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Or straight and ugly and fat and old

Sell yourself fella, works every time.

How about full bodied, matured by experience and age.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Or straight and ugly and fat and old

Sell yourself fella, works every time.

How about full bodied, matured by experience and age."

That’s good may have to use that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or straight and ugly and fat and old

Sell yourself fella, works every time.

How about full bodied, matured by experience and age."

Full bodied, matured and age - could be reading the back of that wine bottle ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think alot of the problem is that there is a reputation caused by some men who just cause chaos on the site.

Rude etc.

Interesting, in what way?

I’ve had guys who have been OBSESSED and super creepy, the more I said no the more I got the pressure and stuff. Also there’s an element of *is he really who he says he is*"

Read my last verification. I am not just who I say I am but I am not a creep and safe for a women to meet alone

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

As a single straight guy the wrong side of 50 a bit stocky who can’t accommodate when I send a message I find it difficult getting a positive response with regards to a meet.However when I go to the Bank social , OP4F , Rios spa I seem to get more positive response.At the end of the day everyone has a preference I accept and understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know about sexuality but masculine men seem a minority on here for sure

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?"

I've not found being straight a hindrance. How people behave will have far more of an impact than sexual orientation.

Minority.. sorry I have no idea how many guys are on the site and the numbers of each orientation.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Never found it a problem as a single guy or as part of a couple. And it works the other way too as some people seek strictly straight males. Unless you see not being able to play with people who are not your sexual preference a hindrance? If so of course, obviously, technically correct but a daft way to look at it. I love the range and diversity of sexuality out here. In my experience of others its not as simple as straight, gay or bi etc. Lots of people fall somewhere in the Spectrum in-between these labels and can change over time too. As to if I'm a minority or not being totally straight I don't know and I don't care. The labels for the reasons above to me are of little concern. For me as long as boundaries are respected we can all play along nicely, have the freedom to be who we want to be and have a bloody good time together.

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By *un biguyMan
over a year ago

belfast

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?

Try being straight and fat.

Or bi and ugly

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

You are who you are, so I wouldn't worry if it makes you a minority or not

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

"Or straight and old

And a bit fat, also bald

Smelly

With a bad sense of dress………

I’m not going to get laid am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never found it a draw back. I’d say crap profiles and awful opening messages would be a bigger draw back

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Play without him you may have better luck

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Or straight and old

And a bit fat, also bald

Smelly

With a bad sense of dress………

I’m not going to get laid am I "

It's a sad day when we can't get a sympathy shag.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

If being straight is holding back meets, it's only holding back meets I wouldn't want anyway.

No point worrying about it really. Just be you and enjoy yourself.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'd have said that straight males are the *majority* of users on this site, by a gigantic margin, and it's that very overabundance that works against us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't put me off if a man is straight but I prefer to meet bi men as I enjoy MMF. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

str8 or bi mmm well despite being a bi couple when i play alone its mostly been str8 guys now even i find that strange because im bi hubs is bi and before we startedthe cuckold journey we either played as a bi couple or hotwife couple ..

we / i pick guys who at first i just fancy then its all the other stuff after that determins the meet so profile and then the chit chat so i guess alot fail this process and for a strange reason that i cannot answer most of my playmates are or have been straight ....

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I haven't found it to be holding me back but I did have a couple tell me in their opening message that it was a no no for them and I would have to play bi to meet them. If I couldn't do that I would have to bring a lady along and they might consider adding me to their to do list.

This from a couple with 100+ verifications and whom I had never spoken to before.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?"

It's a lack of solo women who genuinely want to meet, which is holding back meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A minority on this site and holds back meets?"

No it's because I'm an arse..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or straight and ugly and fat and old

Blimey - you're only 40

Yes thanks for making us feel ancient lol

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