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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across a profile stating if your account was a year old and had no verifications don't bother because you don't have what we need or something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such is Fab….you can’t and won’t please everyone. Any lack of manners or empathy in their expression of that is no reflection of you.

Inhale. Exhale. Move on.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Don't worry about it..

Win many lose a few..

Carry on doing what works..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Such is Fab….you can’t and won’t please everyone. Any lack of manners or empathy in their expression of that is no reflection of you.

Inhale. Exhale. Move on."

We just found it very rude ikora loves to posts every verifications no matter weather it’s a social meet or a fun meet. We have been to a couple of socials and come away with over 10 verifications just means we chatted to them

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Dont worry about it. I once had a meet where when I asked him about a verification he told me that " no dont want people to know ive met you with all your verifications "

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years. "

Just ask yourself, what are they looking for and should they be on a swinging site?

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Don’t worry we have zero, we have been blocked lol onwards and upwards

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years. "

Bizarre, fab is a strange world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years. "

Anybody blocks you clearly means you are better off without meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s nothing I can say about this place that you don’t already know given how long you’ve been here, but my 2p is…..good for you for displaying whatever the hell you like.

I’m married, here with consent, and play solo. To the majority here I’m a cheating scumbag, based only on their myopic opinion and with zero knowledge of me, my wife or the arrangement we have.

From the sanctity of their keyboard, they apparently somehow know better, especially the ALL IN CAPS rage posters who pop up now and again.

People of course have the right to choose, the right to be fussy and the right to reject or decline what they don’t want. Some just lack the grace to do it well.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years. "

If they can't be bothered reading them, it's probably not a big loss.

Also, who really cares how many veris you have?

That couple have probably met people who have had more meets than you, but they just chose not to show veris.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years.

If they can't be bothered reading them, it's probably not a big loss.

Also, who really cares how many veris you have?

That couple have probably met people who have had more meets than you, but they just chose not to show veris."

It was actually a single female

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I don't think you can have too many verifications especially if most are social, it proves how good you are to get on with and how popular you are on a non sexual level. It also shows you are serious about meeting and won't mess people around. You can't win, some won't meet without veris and some don't like too many?

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years.

If they can't be bothered reading them, it's probably not a big loss.

Also, who really cares how many veris you have?

That couple have probably met people who have had more meets than you, but they just chose not to show veris.

It was actually a single female "

Sorry, I misread it, but it's all the same.

You have nothing to worry about, it's her loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years. "

I've never really understood this mindset....

If you wanted to, not that you have to justify - but you could type on your profile how long you've been on fab and express they're socials.

Swinging though is all about multiple partners - why that worries some is anybody's guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once had an irate man ask why we wouldn’t meet him when we had all our verifications. He started to quote how many had verified us etc, had he read them a lot we’re from socials and not all play meets. Was incredibly rude & just assumed the fem half would fuck anything that walked

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By *KAholeandgloryCouple
over a year ago

exeter

That’s why we hide all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry about it. If they got funny about verifications - what else would they have gotten funny about. Doesn't sound like you were right for each other and that's the end of it.

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

count them like notches on the bedpost.. more the merrier :D haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t worry what others think you’re profile you’re business you run it how you wish it’s as simple as that ….if others don’t like how many verifications you have then they don’t have to meet you ….forget about whoever it was that rudely messaged you and move on to enjoying yourself with others that do want to meet you.

Happy swinging

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By *ver-CuriousCouple
over a year ago

Newtownabbey


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years. "

There's no need to explain the number of verifications,it's your fab life,live it as you please,if one or two don't like it,so what? There are plenty more would be happy to join your list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people worry about how many veri's people have then they clearly dont understand what swinging is .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years.

If they can't be bothered reading them, it's probably not a big loss.

Also, who really cares how many veris you have?

That couple have probably met people who have had more meets than you, but they just chose not to show veris.

It was actually a single female "

Single men do this lots of double standards. Or blocked for having meets - irony on a swinging site isn’t lost.. Just see it as a lucky escape.

#sigh

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years. "

Consider it a bullet dodged. Some people are up their own arses about other people's veris.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Whenever you receive a rejection that doesn't make a lot of sense it's probably not the actual reason. They just didn't feel it.

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"Dont worry about it. I once had a meet where when I asked him about a verification he told me that " no dont want people to know ive met you with all your verifications " "

What a cock!!!!!

That said we can’t 100% remember if we have met a while ago

Socially by the way before anyone jumps to conclusions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got a message saying not being rude I am sure you are a lovely couple but the sheer amount of verifications isn’t good sorry then blocked us. Most of them are social ones and we have been on nearly 9 years. "

Did you mail them first ?

This can’t be a common thing is it ?

So they jump on to judge your profile then block you ? Some seriously sad individuals on here !

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Can't fucking win

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We prefer meeting people with 1xx number of verification over the others who hide them

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

What makes me smile is people who make these verifications comments are often those the say, “wouldn’t let my wife do this”, however are happy to fuck someone else’s wife.

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