FabSwingers.com forum: "Come down" from a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, hubby and i had our first encounter with another couple weekend gone on a random spontaneous night out. It was a very active 4some with lots of oral and swapping, soft swap at most.

Its been a few days now and our own sex in the bedroom seems to have changed. The first time we had sex the day after he came unusually quickly and hasn't realy been able to get hard that easily since and i have been unusually struggling to reach orgasm.

Has anyone else experienced this after there first time? Any advice for us?

By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

Sounds like swinging might not be for you guys without sounding mean for us it makes our sex drive go through the roof can't leave each other alone maybe just give it some time but most importantly talk about it with each other is this lifestyle right for you guys does one of you enjoy it and the other isn't really feeling it just take a breath and really think about it x