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Can women over dress for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So your meeting in a bar can a women over dress herself or does it get seen as "sexy"? Is being overdressed too sexy and revealing make guys uncomfortable as it may attract attention?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite simply… No.

As long as they feel good about themselves and feel confident then for me that’s all that matters

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By *ussexualMan
over a year ago

Brighton

A suit of armour would probably be considered over dressed, so I guess it is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all if they were focused on you.

If they were looking around the room and who else was looking then you know they didn’t get dressed up like that for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Are we talking 'Madonna in a cone bra' overdressed?

Rubber catsuit? Latex mini-dress?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Since when is it about the guy?

Honestly, what year is this?

If someone's worried about meeting a lady in a bar who's dressed "to sexy", especially on a swinging site, they're on the wrong place.

My wife dresses how she pleases for meets. She dresses for herself, no one else. I just happen to enjoy her dressing sexily.

I've also met some ladies on my own in bars who, quite frankly, dressed like they only knew how to shop at Anne Summers and I couldn't have been happier. For them being able expressed themselves, to feel good about themselves and for me getting to enjoy the view. I out an effort in for my wife and for meets to be dressed sexy so I most certainly appreciate it when a woman does it

If someone has an issue with it, oys their problem, no one else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anyone has the potential to be dressed in a way that doesn't quite fit the context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say a full blown royal ball gown complete with sash and tiara might be a bit OTT for going down the local but hey, whatever floats ‘yer boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since when is it about the guy?

Honestly, what year is this?

If someone's worried about meeting a lady in a bar who's dressed "to sexy", especially on a swinging site, they're on the wrong place.

My wife dresses how she pleases for meets. She dresses for herself, no one else. I just happen to enjoy her dressing sexily.

I've also met some ladies on my own in bars who, quite frankly, dressed like they only knew how to shop at Anne Summers and I couldn't have been happier. For them being able expressed themselves, to feel good about themselves and for me getting to enjoy the view. I out an effort in for my wife and for meets to be dressed sexy so I most certainly appreciate it when a woman does it

If someone has an issue with it, oys their problem, no one else's."

this. As I said it’s about the lady feeling good and confident and she should read for herself. Come on guys we are better than this

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I think anyone has the potential to be dressed in a way that doesn't quite fit the context "

Exactly this

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Have to say I don't really care what she's wearing, it's how she's wearing it that counts. If she is wearing something that makes her feel confident and sexy and turned on, then that's how she'll come across to me. Unless it's part of a pre arranged roleplay, it's totally down to her...

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

No

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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

I love to dress well when a gent visits me. And they always appreciate the effort

A meet in a pub I would dress with a touch of class

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

Absolutely not, a lady can never be overdressed!

All the more to unwrap ,

Xx

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I don't dress for other people, I dress in what I feel attractive/sexy in. Gets me in the mood!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So your meeting in a bar can a women over dress herself or does it get seen as "sexy"? Is being overdressed too sexy and revealing make guys uncomfortable as it may attract attention?"

A wedding dress might be a step to far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever they feel comfortable in and feel good about themselves

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Since when is it about the guy?

Honestly, what year is this?

If someone's worried about meeting a lady in a bar who's dressed "to sexy", especially on a swinging site, they're on the wrong place.

My wife dresses how she pleases for meets. She dresses for herself, no one else. I just happen to enjoy her dressing sexily.

I've also met some ladies on my own in bars who, quite frankly, dressed like they only knew how to shop at Anne Summers and I couldn't have been happier. For them being able expressed themselves, to feel good about themselves and for me getting to enjoy the view. I out an effort in for my wife and for meets to be dressed sexy so I most certainly appreciate it when a woman does it

If someone has an issue with it, oys their problem, no one else's."

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The latest Vivienne Westwood might be overkill for an initial social down The Dog And Duck….

But in general, no. It’s not my choice what someone else wears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not, been for a meet in the past and the couple have turned up in loungewear. If you have made the effort to look your best, it's a big turnoff if the effort has only been made one way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont dress for anyone but myself... if I feel good that surely makes the evening more enjoyable?

Mrs x

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