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Is anyone else scared of spiders??

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

Just seen a massive spider, and it fucking terrified me, it’s gone now, but now I know I definitely hate spiders.

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Burn the house done until you find it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I dont mind them. I catch them and set them free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrified of them. They get the trainer though!

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

It's mating time for spiders at the moment...we see more of them as they are looking for a partner. It depends on what size it was for me to be scared, hahaha

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By *exyguy321Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Not too keen on them I’ll not kill them but Chuck them out doors I did have one crawl over my stomach in bed

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Yep, as well as snakes. Just found out my landlady has 5 tarantulas and a 2 ft snake. No idea what kind, but not poisonous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a complete arachnophobe. Couldn't walk into any room without checking the corners etc..

Years ago I got hyyppnotised out of it by a scheme they still run at London zoo.

I'll post a link for it.

We now live in a rural area and there are monstrous leggy things here but none scare me and I'm quite happy to deal with them.

If this is a phobia that is affecting you, try the scheme. It absolutely works and the feeling of freedom and liberation when you overcome that fear is wondrous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.zsl.org/experiences/friendly-spider-programme

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"It's mating time for spiders at the moment...we see more of them as they are looking for a partner. It depends on what size it was for me to be scared, hahaha "

It was kinda the size of a £2 pound coin, maybe bigger.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Yep, as well as snakes. Just found out my landlady has 5 tarantulas and a 2 ft snake. No idea what kind, but not poisonous."

See I don’t mind snakes, they are cool,

Where’s spiders on the other hand, no no no

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"It's mating time for spiders at the moment...we see more of them as they are looking for a partner. It depends on what size it was for me to be scared, hahaha

It was kinda the size of a £2 pound coin, maybe bigger. "

The body or with the legs?

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"It's mating time for spiders at the moment...we see more of them as they are looking for a partner. It depends on what size it was for me to be scared, hahaha

It was kinda the size of a £2 pound coin, maybe bigger.

The body or with the legs? "

For us, we have had a lot of spiders in the house with leg spans probably two £2 coins across where we live. Absolutely huge. And they seem to run faster than my cats can! Lightning quick. We capture them and pop them down outside in the garden. Horrible things but we wouldn’t kill them. They got shit to do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not afraid of spiders I was the one that I was called to get rid of any spiders were I used to work

I am not afraid of snake as I have one which I have just fed tonight xx

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"It's mating time for spiders at the moment...we see more of them as they are looking for a partner. It depends on what size it was for me to be scared, hahaha

It was kinda the size of a £2 pound coin, maybe bigger.

The body or with the legs? "

The body was the size of a £2 coin, and the legs looked the same as a toothpick, I just remembered it moved when I noticed it

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"It's mating time for spiders at the moment...we see more of them as they are looking for a partner. It depends on what size it was for me to be scared, hahaha

It was kinda the size of a £2 pound coin, maybe bigger.

The body or with the legs?

For us, we have had a lot of spiders in the house with leg spans probably two £2 coins across where we live. Absolutely huge. And they seem to run faster than my cats can! Lightning quick. We capture them and pop them down outside in the garden. Horrible things but we wouldn’t kill them. They got shit to do too."

Yep this spider was quick, but I think I may have a phobia of spiders, because I literally scream like a mad woman when I see one

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I am not afraid of spiders I was the one that I was called to get rid of any spiders were I used to work

I am not afraid of snake as I have one which I have just fed tonight xx"

I’m calling you then next time I see any huge spiders (only joking) and I don’t mind snakes, I find them pretty cool even held a few snakes.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley


"It's mating time for spiders at the moment...we see more of them as they are looking for a partner. It depends on what size it was for me to be scared, hahaha

It was kinda the size of a £2 pound coin, maybe bigger.

The body or with the legs?

For us, we have had a lot of spiders in the house with leg spans probably two £2 coins across where we live. Absolutely huge. And they seem to run faster than my cats can! Lightning quick. We capture them and pop them down outside in the garden. Horrible things but we wouldn’t kill them. They got shit to do too.

Yep this spider was quick, but I think I may have a phobia of spiders, because I literally scream like a mad woman when I see one"

Me too.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely terrified of them, major phobia here

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I like spiders and this is the time of year when the big ones come to visit. They are very welcome in my house as long as they stay out of my bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like spiders and this is the time of year when the big ones come to visit. They are very welcome in my house as long as they stay out of my bed."

I'll happily give you mine, they're massive where I live x

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I like spiders and this is the time of year when the big ones come to visit. They are very welcome in my house as long as they stay out of my bed.

I'll happily give you mine, they're massive where I live x"

Same here

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

You will see more this time of year I think they come inside now to mate or give birth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top tip, get a spray bottle and fill it half with water and the other half with vinegar. Spray it at the doors, corners, cracks etc. The smell disappears but they obviously smell it because it does keep them from coming indoors. Same goes for peppermint oil and tea tree oil, they hate the smell of these x

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"You will see more this time of year I think they come inside now to mate or give birth. "

Oh my don’t say give birth...

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Top tip, get a spray bottle and fill it half with water and the other half with vinegar. Spray it at the doors, corners, cracks etc. The smell disappears but they obviously smell it because it does keep them from coming indoors. Same goes for peppermint oil and tea tree oil, they hate the smell of these x"

Thank you thank you thank you, I’m definitely trying that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Top tip, get a spray bottle and fill it half with water and the other half with vinegar. Spray it at the doors, corners, cracks etc. The smell disappears but they obviously smell it because it does keep them from coming indoors. Same goes for peppermint oil and tea tree oil, they hate the smell of these x

Thank you thank you thank you, I’m definitely trying that "

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Our pet one died the other day we’d had him 11 years Beautiful creatures

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Ok I feel a bit bad posting this after the last message! Sorry to hear that!

But I just can’t be in the same room as them, instant panic attack, tears the works!

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

I live out in the countryside and at the moment the buggers are moving in for the winter.

They must be big as one walked across the TV remote control and it changed the channel. No problems but I don't like EastEnders!

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Ok I feel a bit bad posting this after the last message! Sorry to hear that!

But I just can’t be in the same room as them, instant panic attack, tears the works! "

You don’t really get the emotional connection with them as pets but still a shame to loose them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am 6ft 2 and shit scared of them

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

I have a phobia but somehow I find the tiny babies cute - but the massive house spiders terrify me, heart pounds, panic.. I cannot be in the same room as them and will be freaked out for ages after seeing one, constantly checking, anxious.. why are they always on the floor?!

Haven't seen a large one in my house this year.. yet! I've proberly just talked it up..

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

They're all evil no matter what size they are. Can't have any in my flat, it gets sprayed regularly to keep them away

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I have a phobia but somehow I find the tiny babies cute - but the massive house spiders terrify me, heart pounds, panic.. I cannot be in the same room as them and will be freaked out for ages after seeing one, constantly checking, anxious.. why are they always on the floor?!

Haven't seen a large one in my house this year.. yet! I've proberly just talked it up.. "

I think I have a phobia too, I keep looking in corners, and near the back door, to see if I see another one. And the really tiny ones I’m absolutely fine with. (Yeah I kinda still kill them) but now I’m kinda scared to turn off the lights

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"They're all evil no matter what size they are. Can't have any in my flat, it gets sprayed regularly to keep them away"

True, I just know I hate the massive ones.

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

They scare the shit out of me always have

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I hate moths and daddy long legs more than spiders tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate moths and daddy long legs more than spiders tbh. "

I had two massive daddy long legs hanging out in my bath earlier

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I love spiders. Amazing, fascinating creatures.

I am always happy to see them around, and I spend a lot of time rescuing them from less rational humans.

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By *eaAndBiscuit1989Man
over a year ago

Burnley

I'm more scared of them when they run out and surprise me. Once they are under a glass I'll happily move them and free them etc.

Had one last night......Aragog had nothing on this guy.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Absolutely hate spiders but Mrs says I am not allowed to kill them, therefore she gets the pleasure of dealing with any spiders that break into the house whilst I go and hide under the bed covers.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I fem evict them with a glass. I've had to learn to pull up my big girl pants and deal with them. As Mr works away alot.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

My 14 year old phoned me the other night from his bedroom. "Mum where are you? Theres a spider on my door and I can't leave the room". I was a big wolf spider thou. Mum evicted it.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

It

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I dont mind them. I catch them and set them free. "

House spiders live inside. I find a pokey hide hole in my flat and relocate them.

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Hate the little fuckers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a Trantula. It got out once and I couldn't find it so I had to keep the room shut. Six weeks later it was sprawled out in the middle of the carpet so I grabbed it and locked it up.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Absolutely hate spiders but Mrs says I am not allowed to kill them, therefore she gets the pleasure of dealing with any spiders that break into the house whilst I go and hide under the bed covers."

I’m going to be borrowing your mrs in future, p.s I had an ex who was like that hated killing spiders.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I have a Trantula. It got out once and I couldn't find it so I had to keep the room shut. Six weeks later it was sprawled out in the middle of the carpet so I grabbed it and locked it up. "

My worst nightmare

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

I never used to mind spiders untill i got bit by one ... now i wont pick them up anymore

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop


"Nope I dont mind them. I catch them and set them free. "
same in this house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind spiders which is a good thing considering the size of them I get in the house.

My daughter is petrified of them and has woken me up on the early hours to remove them from her bedroom.

What I am scared of though is snakes, I have a real fear of them. I have to make sure the toilet seats are down when we go to bed and the bathroom doors closed. It’s really stupid lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine with spiders. My daughter though is really odd in that she is fine with big spiders it's the little one she hates

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By *entleman JackMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Just pick them up in your hand, close your fingers, and feel their little feet tickle your palm! Then set them loose gently in the garden. Spiders are our friends!

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Absolutely terrified of them, particularly the big house spiders. It’s not an “ewww, icky” fear, it is sheer, blood chilling, fight-or-flight terror, bordering on a panic attack.

Fortunately my gf is able to remove them (in return I remove wasps for her) so they are usually dealt with humanely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spider fan here. Perhaps I should offer an emergency spider collection service?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have spider-phobia too but definitely getting better with them, especially since I bought a spider catcher so I can lift the big ones up and pop them out of a window. I'm OK now with small ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s currently conker season and there are lots about on the floor , spiders hate something about conker either the shell or something that they emit. Nonetheless, a few placed strategically around the home should see the 8 legged freaks off.

#trannytipster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m scared daft of them. I have just paid a ticket for stopping on a double red and leaving my car because there was a spider in there with me and I once fell out of a warehouse roof (harnessed luckily) because one of the killer creatures ran towards me in attack mode!

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"It’s currently conker season and there are lots about on the floor , spiders hate something about conker either the shell or something that they emit. Nonetheless, a few placed strategically around the home should see the 8 legged freaks off.

#trannytipster "

Apparently that’s an old wives tale, which is a bit of a disappointment

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Spider fan here. Perhaps I should offer an emergency spider collection service?"

Yes please definitely haha

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By *BWBI2019Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Conkers and peppermint oil keep the cunts at bay!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if it eats birds

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Only if it eats elephants"

Ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not particularly fond of getting near them, although it’s always my job in the house to dispose of them one way or another.

They are fascinating creatures though.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

travel around a lot.

I think it's a primal thing, you should be scared of ones big enough to bite. The big cardinals etc can leave a painful bite and swelling. Some will have a reaction to it. Bastards are getting bigger. What are they feeding them on ???

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