FabSwingers.com forum: How far would you travel for a meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering how far is to far for people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything over an hour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As far as needed for the right people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 mins "

Very precise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"14 mins "

Same

30 min round trip hahaah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 20min rule occasionally go over for someone special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a 20min rule occasionally go over for someone special "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a 20min rule occasionally go over for someone special

Technically your another country you best be extra special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hang my head out the front door, look up the street then down the street if no one takes my fancy I'm straight back indoors to put a repeat of top gear on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Derbyshire to Dartford

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Rarely outside Manchester

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Would have to be *very* special to go more than 30mins..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half an hour max but we also wouldn’t meet someone who lived too close either

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By *ertsDrewMan
over a year ago

Hitchin

"14 mins "

It's been so long for me, you can be back home in front of the telly in half an hour in that case!

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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago

nottingham

All depends on the people and wether you have a connection or not. The right people will make the effort to meet you somewhere between if it’s long distance

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By *redwilma666Couple
over a year ago

Kilbirnie

We did 4000 miles for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

50 miles for us, but we will go over if a reliable source such as previous playdates tells us it is worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I say local I mean local!

Funny someone tried to set up a meet in/for Epsom a while back (still trying to), something nice & local.

I'd say the majority of respondents were bloody miles away & mainly blokes. Which kind of indicates most men seem to be willing to travel some distance for a social & just on the off chance of a possibility!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I went up to Manchester a couple of weeks ago... lol.

But he’s been down here many more times. So it’s fair.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

For my first meet from here we travelled and hour (on my couples account)

I wouldn't do that again, I now only meet at home but try to only meet guys a 15-20 minute drive away, I don't see any point making people travel further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i travel 250 miles from Manchester to Maidstone kent

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By *iker boy 69Man
over a year ago

midlands

"Just wondering how far is to far for people? "

In the summer im happy to ride a couple of hours each way. Motorbike gets a ride, i get a ride and all is good.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"14 mins "

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By *egvisir71Man
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Derbyshire to Charleton Hawthorne in Dorset

was very worth it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first meet, hour drive, hour and half for public transport.

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

"Just wondering how far is to far for people? "

16.3 miles

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"14 mins "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it sounds a great night anywhere but would be overnight

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

washington

i have done 30mins each way for a genuine verified person,,, i dont travel if they have been on the site for many months and no veri's not photo verified and a full or hidden friends list all are warning signs of a pic collector or time waster,,,

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By *eeds MaleMan
over a year ago

leeds

Met in benidorm before now to save any hassle......it was worth it

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

From Stockport to Cornwall numerous times I lost count, many trips to Brighton, Portsmouth, London, Bristol, Sellafield, Oxford, Newcastle and others. Once a flight to Spain and back for £30 via sleasyjet.

All worth the trip and many good friends to be had.

Sometimes the drive was part of the anticipation and time to chill and reflect on the way home listening to music on cruise control.

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By *rMrs84Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Pretty much an hour.

We’ve travelled further for a club or two but general rule of thumb is an hour.

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

About an hour from where I live or am staying at any time.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

Travelled 243 miles for one meet.

I’m now marrying her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Travelled 243 miles for one meet.

I’m now marrying her."

That's fucking awesome! Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Utterly dependent on the connection. I have a friend in Chicago I will visit sometime and another in Dundee I will visit in a few months. Most of the time I like to remain local so I'm not tired by the time we meet, but I'm prepared to go anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wont travel far now as too many timewasters. Most have no intention if meeting sadly. Nothing worse than wasting free time travelling to meet a fantasist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve travelled London to Birmingham for a meet. She lives in Wales so we booked a hotel. For a more regular meet I’d prefer someone within 30 mins travelling time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance should never be an issue if it's to meet someone that Rocks your world for whatever time it takes to get there and for whatever time is spent there because believe me nothing else matters if you find someone here or in the real world that just for some unknown reason fills your soul so naturally , miles should not be an obstacle.

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By *outhman15Man
over a year ago

southampton

Around an hour maybe a bit more for if the conection feels good when chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind travelling anywhere for a meet. As long as I've spoken to whoever im meeting for a few months

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By *ewCoupleHXCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

An hour is doable generally, wouldn't mind more but will need planning. Rather travel for the right folks than compromise just because someone is closer.

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton

All depends on the connection and chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 - 60 mins usually. Not close to home but not to far as a rule.

Me and K like the drive though, we have our tunes on and its our little road trip to the land of naughtiness

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By *esSir99Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

This depends on what people are looking for.

When there’s a mutual attraction, great chemistry and both like the same kinks etc it’s worth travelling for. Always nice to visit places I’ve not been too and spend the weekend

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Just wondering how far is to far for people? "
I just go to clubs but have been over 150miles

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Furthest I've been was an eight-hour round trip. I'd go further for the right person.

Gotta go where I'm wanted!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Prior to joining fab I've taken 3 or 4 flights to England.

Since joining the site the furthest has been 3 hours away but now I expect anyone I'm meeting to be equally invested and to make a similar effort.

Happy to meet halfway but usually no more than an hour.

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I had a long distance relationship with a girl in the US so would regularly make a 4500 mile trip to see her, but that wasn't just a meet! Lol

For a meet on here, I'd say no more than 45 minutes to maybe an hour at the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've travelled 70 miles before, but would much prefer not to. More time to play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d swim oceans. Though would help if there was a bridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour max

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

Depends who it was I'm meeting.

Travelled 2 1/2 hours a few weeks ago.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

40miles each way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30-40 mims as a rule of thumb. Depends on who it is though

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By *ants Horse Hung CockMan
over a year ago

co durham

Depends on the person. My first meet was 1 and a half hours. Worth it! Massive boobs

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By *panishbull90Man
over a year ago

rochdale

"Travelled 243 miles for one meet.

I’m now marrying her."

That’s a great short story, congrats for the both of you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30-40 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting range of views presented here, from the convenience side of planning and meeting easily to the balanced need for some distance and simple avoidance when living your day to day life. As with everything in this world, it’s a personal choice ????

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Depends who it is tbh, but in general a

semi-regular would be about an hour otherwise so much time is wasted on the journey.

However, I'd happily travel much further if I can also turn it into a day trip or if I have really clicked with the person. For instance I travelled 3 hours to have a social day out with someone the other weekend, had a brilliant time and would happily do that again (but there might need to be more cake involved)

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Depends how badly I wanted said person

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By *rFunBoyMan
over a year ago

Longridge

One word of advice for travelling..

Do your best to check they are genuine.. 15 years ago, was given address for a meet when Sat Nav was new. Entered said details with no checks or phone call and drove 120 miles.

Arrived, knocked on door which was answered by a very stunning nurse in her uniform. It was only then that I realised that the address was an old folks home, and yes it was a wind-up.

Gotta a cup of coffee a day a laugh before leaving and dropped by friends on the way back..

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I would walk 500 miles

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me. Depending on the guy, up to an hour.

Anything over that he would need to be really special

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Travelled 243 miles for one meet.

I’m now marrying her."

congratulations….Take note people…Don’t limit yourself by jumping up and down in that puddle, when you can be swimming in the ocean.

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Travelled 243 miles for one meet.

I’m now marrying her.

congratulations….Take note people…Don’t limit yourself by jumping up and down in that puddle, when you can be swimming in the ocean."

What does that mean? Lol

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Travelled 243 miles for one meet.

I’m now marrying her.

congratulations….Take note people…Don’t limit yourself by jumping up and down in that puddle, when you can be swimming in the ocean.

What does that mean? Lol"

Ahhh yeah we read it again, don’t interpret as us saying you guys are jumping up and down in a puddle lol…Point being other people have limited themselves due to distance etc… and you guys didn’t and have now found that special bond

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By *wistedTooCouple
over a year ago

Frimley

"Travelled 243 miles for one meet.

I’m now marrying her.

congratulations….Take note people…Don’t limit yourself by jumping up and down in that puddle, when you can be swimming in the ocean.

What does that mean? Lol

Ah yeh and life is gooood!

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