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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain. Hotel/club sex brings so much more freedom & enjoyment. Silent home sex takes something away for me personally, my mind can't completely relax

Claire

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "

Well not so much silence, but yes we try to keep it down.

When they were younger they would just sleep. But now we can be heading to bed before they have started sleeping which makes it more awkward.

We try to find times when they are out playing with friends.

But trying to get in the mood can be a bit tricky especially knowing they could be back in a few minutes having forgotten something.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

We like a kiss and a grope too so that can keep things bubbling nicely if we don't have time or opportunity for a full shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in an upstairs flat so always a bit nervous about disturbing the downstairs neighbours. It does make meeting up in hotels a preference.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

When our daughter was about 14, she asked mum if she had bought some new clothes. Puzzled, Mrs R asked her what made her think that. She replied that after she had gone to bed, she heard mum struggling to get into some tight jeans!

We were puzzled at first and then we twigged! We had a very passionate bout that night My next job a few weeks later was to build a toy cupboard between the two rooms and insulate it for sound and we told her that is was just to stop her being disturbed if we needed something from the cupboard..

She still jokes about it now as she has realised what the noise actually was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha we still do it if it's in the night . Both kids are wide awake till well last midnight .

No moans either

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Behind a locked bathroom door. Maybe once or twice but we’re fortunate to get the odd weekend to let it all out…. Sorry neighbors

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I feel your pain. Hotel/club sex brings so much more freedom & enjoyment. Silent home sex takes something away for me personally, my mind can't completely relax

Claire "

We try and not be too loud in a hotel, they may not want to hear it next door

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us!

Well not so much silence, but yes we try to keep it down.

When they were younger they would just sleep. But now we can be heading to bed before they have started sleeping which makes it more awkward.

We try to find times when they are out playing with friends.

But trying to get in the mood can be a bit tricky especially knowing they could be back in a few minutes having forgotten something.

"

Oh how we relate to this!

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I live in an upstairs flat so always a bit nervous about disturbing the downstairs neighbours. It does make meeting up in hotels a preference. "

Especially if you've got a noisy bed

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"When our daughter was about 14, she asked mum if she had bought some new clothes. Puzzled, Mrs R asked her what made her think that. She replied that after she had gone to bed, she heard mum struggling to get into some tight jeans!

We were puzzled at first and then we twigged! We had a very passionate bout that night My next job a few weeks later was to build a toy cupboard between the two rooms and insulate it for sound and we told her that is was just to stop her being disturbed if we needed something from the cupboard..

She still jokes about it now as she has realised what the noise actually was! "

Love this story

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Haha we still do it if it's in the night . Both kids are wide awake till well last midnight .

No moans either "

Our kids are the same, staying up late!

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Behind a locked bathroom door. Maybe once or twice but we’re fortunate to get the odd weekend to let it all out…. Sorry neighbors "

They just need a looking glass

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

M can confirm I'm really not very good at being silent

K

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

Yep, story of our life! M is pretty vocal given the opportunity, but having a grown-up child still at home means those opportunities are infrequent and tend to have to be snatched.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

We rearranged all the bedrooms over the summer, we now sleep on a different floor of the house to the kids so hopefully we are less likely to be overheard.

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With four kids around sex was always silent until we started going to swing clubs.

Apparently I’m pretty loud when you take the restrictors off

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

We have to be quieter as we have kids but when they are away at family (once in a blue moon) we seem to make up for it im pretty sure the neighbours can hear us sometimes

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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Same here, Tani is loud but we have to do it silently. Once we’re away she certainly likes to release her frustrations lol.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Yes so if you are ever in a swinging club thinking

"God they are fucking noisy."

Just remember this might be there only chance for a few weeks/months to be free of any constraints.

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By *handlerMonicaCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"Yes so if you are ever in a swinging club thinking

"God they are fucking noisy."

Just remember this might be there only chance for a few weeks/months to be free of any constraints. "

I like listening to the noise, or at least having it as a backdrop, it's nice to know so many people are having so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im quite vocal and find it hard to be silent when kids are home.... love being able to express my self freely in clubs, meets etc

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By *yesbeenopened2Couple
over a year ago

Rugby

Sometimes we wait until the kids are on their screens upstairs and lock ourselves in the utility room for some fun.

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Probably one of the reasons we started going to clubs just to have loud sex lol

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "

Every parent everywhere knows this one lol

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By *unfuncouple1234Couple
over a year ago

West Sussex

We know that situation very well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so not fun! We try and be quiet and still end up getting told off by the teen. So we have taken to telling her headphones are a thing use them ha xx

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"Sometimes we wait until the kids are on their screens upstairs and lock ourselves in the utility room for some fun."

Noise cancelling headphones for the kids this Christmas.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

Yep, that's what we refer to as Ninja sex so kids don't hear us

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

The louder the better hehe

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By *ncore un FoisMan
over a year ago

Bowdon

Met a lovely couple once, the lady used to scream ‘oh my god” repeatedly…they joked their teenage kids were fed up of mum praying so saved it all for meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the same boat , weekends away are becoming far more popular than they used to be...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With an 11 month old baby the issue isn't so much noise atm but time.

We have mastered been able to make each other cum in just a minute or 2 via hands and oral.

KJ

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By *aomilatte OP   Couple
over a year ago

Midlands


"

With an 11 month old baby the issue isn't so much noise atm but time.

We have mastered been able to make each other cum in just a minute or 2 via hands and oral.

KJ "

That does the trick .

Also you find you eat your meals much quicker

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

We try to be silent but it's hard. Usually mrs ends up moaning and just hoping no one hears. We also get kinda turned on knowing the neighbours may hear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When our daughter was about 14, she asked mum if she had bought some new clothes. Puzzled, Mrs R asked her what made her think that. She replied that after she had gone to bed, she heard mum struggling to get into some tight jeans!

We were puzzled at first and then we twigged! We had a very passionate bout that night My next job a few weeks later was to build a toy cupboard between the two rooms and insulate it for sound and we told her that is was just to stop her being disturbed if we needed something from the cupboard..

She still jokes about it now as she has realised what the noise actually was! "

Our daughter said to us few days ago she heard the bed creaking for ages the other night and said what was you doing we both said I was moving it she replied smirking where too that took a while she knew what was going on obviously

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By *exandthesuburbans83Couple
over a year ago

EASTBOURNE

Should also say, one time the kids came up and asked if mum was OK as they heard her make an odd noise. We said she got cramp and it hurt lol.

Also, bet a lot of the parents on here have tricks. Like prepping breakfast, fav TV show ready, or letting them on youtube which means you know you have 10 to 20 min window lol.

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By *urygent1Man
over a year ago

North West

We turn the TV up ??

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

On the subject of loud sex at a club- great to hear people are enjoying themselves, but on the other hand, it can be very distracting. Particularly when it sounds very exaggerated and porn-like. Devil gets the giggles instantly and finds it difficult to concentrate on her own pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain. Hotel/club sex brings so much more freedom & enjoyment. Silent home sex takes something away for me personally, my mind can't completely relax

Claire "

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I have to keep one eye on the door as our nipper is quite stealthy if he wakes up at night.

We’ve rearranged our lounge and have a drape we can pull over the glass in the door (also lockable) so we have what we call a Fuck Parlour downstairs. Nice big Persian rug and a thick duvet in front of the huge tv so we can have some porn on while we fuck uninterrupted downstairs.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We make as much noise as we want to. It's our house, we paid for it. We have to listen to the neighbours TV booming all day, till 11.00 pm, so feck em hubbs says

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"On the subject of loud sex at a club- great to hear people are enjoying themselves, but on the other hand, it can be very distracting. Particularly when it sounds very exaggerated and porn-like. Devil gets the giggles instantly and finds it difficult to concentrate on her own pleasure. "

I always giggle at that too. I moan a lot but not too loudly and defo not like a porn star trying to make out by loud moans and talking..... Talking what's that about??? Proper puts me off

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Yes so if you are ever in a swinging club thinking

"God they are fucking noisy."

Just remember this might be there only chance for a few weeks/months to be free of any constraints.

I like listening to the noise, or at least having it as a backdrop, it's nice to know so many people are having so much fun "

I’m with you there. I love hearing people fuck.

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"We make as much noise as we want to. It's our house, we paid for it. We have to listen to the neighbours TV booming all day, till 11.00 pm, so feck em hubbs says "

Yeah we keep it down for the sake of the nipper but when he’s at childcare during the weekdays we let rip!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The walls between our houses are paper thin so the neighbours can hear everything. And we can hear them

They went away on holiday for two weeks so we turned the volume up and had some very loud sessions. That stopped after some teens outside started mimicking our noises

Hotel stays and club visits are where we let it all out now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quiet at home because of kids unless they are out but at a hotel etc no holding back - public depends on the situation and location

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Totally relate to this.

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By *rK MrsJCouple
over a year ago

Kidderminster


"Probably one of the reasons we started going to clubs just to have loud sex lol "

Totally agree even though it takes a bit for MrsJ to realise she doesn't have to be quiet.

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (West Oxfordshire)

Yes yes yes.

Tried to play last night and waited until gone 10pm but about 10 minutes later heard our eldest's bedroom door open and had to stop. Complete mood killer

Fridays have become our 'adult day' as Deb doesn't work and Charlie works from home but one of the kids will be home this week so will have to wait, again.

Roll on a hotel stay in December!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "

Yes!

It was how my wife & I started having sex outdoors.

"We're just going shopping" we'd say at night, find somewhere quiet, have a bit of fun, then off shopping and home.

I don't like having sex while anyone is in the house, so clubs are a fantastic place to go and explore and have fun at.

It works for us

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

yes I've known times when a hand over the mouth was required to shut me up in case the ankle biters heard, especially when away on holiday camping in a tent lol (and the rest of the campers for that matter)

once had a pair of socks used on me as a gag too, to stop parents-in-law hearing lol

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry


"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "

Simply yes to the above for the same reasons.

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By *FCouple11Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

With two sons in 20s still living at home finding time to ourselves few and far between. They never seem to go out at the same time. Need a hotel night away again soon!!!! Silent sex all the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silent sex every morning you can't even fuck hard due to the slapping noise lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teenagers in the house so we're very conscious, even about the buzzing vibrator!

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By *otoBlue69Man
over a year ago

Stockport

We used to synchronise our lovemaking with the neighbours, our bedrooms separated by a party wall. It wasn't long before we fantasised about swapping partners. We could hear them and they could hear us. Sadly my wife wouldn't swap for real but as solace the chap next door and I would have fun after our wives went to work.

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By *unCpl1003Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Stuff being quiet for neighbours we pay the rent etc so i will make as much noise as i do

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By *_and_J2021Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

I try to be quite but it doesn’t always happen. Husband has to tell me to be quite or I have to use a pillow. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we lived with my parents after getting married I learned not to make a noise when having sex and now I still dont. Some guys assume I'm not enjoying it because I'm not vocal but its not the case.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "

I call it ‘married sex’ and did it for the first time in 10 years on Sunday morning with an Fb who stayed over (we’ve known each other for 3 years and my kids know who he is!). The kids were probably comatose as it was 7.30am - but just in case I kept it quiet.

It was ok as a one off but it’s not something I’d want to repeat often. I generally like to show my appreciation!

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We still can’t figure out what the neighbour said when he opened his window last night… sounded like hey shhhh stop making noise hmmm I guess we’ll never know….

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"With two sons in 20s still living at home finding time to ourselves few and far between. They never seem to go out at the same time. Need a hotel night away again soon!!!! Silent sex all the time lol"

Oh once they are 20 I think the volume will need to go up.

Embarrassment is a great motivation to get a small flat.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"Are their many others who have to have fun in virtual silence at home due to kids or other family? Do you let the noise out a little at a hotel, then more so at a club? Lockdown was like a silent movie for us! "

It never happens at home can’t do it cause folk are listening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like others I live in a Top Floor flat .. but since the People living underneath me must be deaf as their TV is at about 100Decibels all day long I don't really care about them .. My ex was never quiet in the Family Home..

Although my Friend did possibly wake up the street one night here at the flat as she had a little orgasm or 9 and screamed .. only after did we notice the Window was wide open!!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We definitely appreciate our child free time, weekends and school days, with WFH.

I don't seem able to orgasm any where near as intensely if I'm trying to keep the noise down.

C

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