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By *ischer400777 OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

It is soul destroying for me and maybe other men not being handsome on this site handsome men get the hot and beautifull women not all of the time but most of the time , these are the only kind of men I am jealous off I would rather be poor for the rest of my life but be a hot man for the lady’s saying that you never see that kind of man in the job centre .

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By *ischer400777 OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

Can the men on here tell me how it feels on a daily basis to be handsome to the opposite sex and lady’s what does it feel like having sex with a beautifull man

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

You will find there are many women and couples on here who are interested in more than looks and the emphasis is more about charisma, the ability to communicate well, if you get blown out because you send a face pic early on and they don't even want chance to get to know the real you then personally I would rather not bother because what does that say about their nature? I'd rather click with someone and have a connection. would you like to look like Joey Essex but have his brain as well? Just saying.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You don't seem to be having any difficulty getting meets so what's the issue?

Whether or not someone is handsome or not is all subjective so I wouldn't waste time feeling jealous.

The only person you are really competing against is yourself.

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By *ueenbee77Woman
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Can the men on here tell me how it feels on a daily basis to be handsome to the opposite sex and lady’s what does it feel like having sex with a beautifull man "

Absolutely nothing wrong with you. You look good and have a huge cock. I've had sex with a beautiful man perfect cock and body and face and it was crap x

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Get the Holywood leading man face lift like I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess in life we all think we want the things we think we don't have.

I'm often envious of beautiful women who seem to find it easy to meet wonderful men who adore them.

Just be you and enjoy it.

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

Go to a greedy girls night. You'll be one more face in the crowd!

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By *929Man
over a year ago

northumberland

Nothing wrong with way you look mate everyone has different tastes handsome to one is maybe not so to another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, all the women you have said about meeting on other threads, you didn't find hot or attractive? Nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 17 veris in 7 months.

Put the rod away and stop fishing.

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By *ischer400777 OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham


"So, all the women you have said about meeting on other threads, you didn't find hot or attractive? Nice! "
attractive yes but hot beautiful not many they did not pick me because I am handsome which I totally accept they picked me I imagine for a different reason I admire beautifull looking men and would love to be one and live a week of there lives

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"So, all the women you have said about meeting on other threads, you didn't find hot or attractive? Nice! attractive yes but hot beautiful not many they did not pick me because I am handsome which I totally accept they picked me I imagine for a different reason I admire beautifull looking men and would love to be one and live a week of there lives "

They still picked you regardless and they must be regretting that now with an attitude like that and your opinion of them.

Beautiful people are just people. Their lives are no different to anyone elses

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

So I started enjoying this site a lot more once I realised two things

1) Fab is a woman’s world, they get to be in control and make the choices for a change.

2) As much as I’d like to get meets, the odds are stacked against me, so I just enjoy forums, stories, photos etc. Real people not pornstar stuff

Take it for what it is

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By *ischer400777 OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I have a great opinion of them I have not had one meet I have not enjoyed and taken something positive from whether that be the social side or the sexual

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By *rNightMan
over a year ago

Coventry

You also have a lot more meets than the majority of guys on here

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By *ischer400777 OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

And I truly appreciate it I am just wondering what is like for a beautifull man I am being self indulgent and taking things for granted I have to stop doing it

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Erm ?

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

So how many of your meets were average looking OP and how many were below average? So we have some context as to which ones destroyed your soul.

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By *ischer400777 OP   Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

None of them were we were sexually attracted to each other that is why we met in the first place and the fact they were nice people was a extra bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will find there are many women and couples on here who are interested in more than looks and the emphasis is more about charisma, the ability to communicate well, if you get blown out because you send a face pic early on and they don't even want chance to get to know the real you then personally I would rather not bother because what does that say about their nature? I'd rather click with someone and have a connection. would you like to look like Joey Essex but have his brain as well? Just saying."

Exactly this

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Well I ain't no George Clooney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should work with what they have, so get in shape and get a better haircut. Good looks fade that is the problem. If someone had a lifetime of people jumping on them for their good looks then this reduces a lot with age, many of those people can end up depressed or empty. Just an observation.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

... so you've got an absolute laundry list of meets, and now you're claiming that they're all so *not* "hot and beautiful" that it's "soul destroying" for you.

Wow. I'm sure they're all very flattered that you think so very highly of them.

This doesn't strike me as a great strategy going forward, to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, all the women you have said about meeting on other threads, you didn't find hot or attractive? Nice! attractive yes but hot beautiful not many they did not pick me because I am handsome which I totally accept they picked me I imagine for a different reason I admire beautifull looking men and would love to be one and live a week of there lives "

Not sure what the point of your post is- you have 17 verifications in 7 months so you're clearly meeting people, but based on this you didn't actually think any of them were beautiful or up to the 'standard' of women you could have been with if you'd been a 'beautiful man'.

I think you'll find that the problem is not your looks, it's that you're ugly on the inside and have a very warped view of women.

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By *alty surpriseMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Well your obviously doing better than most people on here.. Maybe it's a ploy with the thread to get more people to notice you

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It is soul destroying for me and maybe other men not being handsome on this site handsome men get the hot and beautifull women not all of the time but most of the time , these are the only kind of men I am jealous off I would rather be poor for the rest of my life but be a hot man for the lady’s saying that you never see that kind of man in the job centre . "

Handsome men

Dont get beautiful women at all

It's about chemistry

If two people click they meet like the poster above me this thread baffles me a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is soul destroying for me and maybe other men not being handsome on this site handsome men get the hot and beautifull women not all of the time but most of the time , these are the only kind of men I am jealous off I would rather be poor for the rest of my life but be a hot man for the lady’s saying that you never see that kind of man in the job centre .

Handsome men

Dont get beautiful women at all

It's about chemistry

If two people click they meet like the poster above me this thread baffles me a bit"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"It is soul destroying for me and maybe other men not being handsome on this site handsome men get the hot and beautifull women not all of the time but most of the time , these are the only kind of men I am jealous off I would rather be poor for the rest of my life but be a hot man for the lady’s saying that you never see that kind of man in the job centre .

Handsome men

Dont get beautiful women at all

It's about chemistry

If two people click they meet like the poster above me this thread baffles me a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will find there are many women and couples on here who are interested in more than looks and the emphasis is more about charisma, the ability to communicate well, if you get blown out because you send a face pic early on and they don't even want chance to get to know the real you then personally I would rather not bother because what does that say about their nature? I'd rather click with someone and have a connection. would you like to look like Joey Essex but have his brain as well? Just saying."

I totally agree with you there.

Give time to those whom value your time. Vice verse..

Beauty is within the eye of the beholder as they say.

But it can get tough and erode confidence etc.

Be yourself gents/lads/men/guys..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't seem to be having any difficulty getting meets so what's the issue?

Whether or not someone is handsome or not is all subjective so I wouldn't waste time feeling jealous.

The only person you are really competing against is yourself. "

mind over matter heh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone should work with what they have, so get in shape and get a better haircut. Good looks fade that is the problem. If someone had a lifetime of people jumping on them for their good looks then this reduces a lot with age, many of those people can end up depressed or empty. Just an observation. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, all the women you have said about meeting on other threads, you didn't find hot or attractive? Nice! attractive yes but hot beautiful not many they did not pick me because I am handsome which I totally accept they picked me I imagine for a different reason I admire beautifull looking men and would love to be one and live a week of there lives "

Wtf mate. ..ask the lads you have not had any meets. Either for looks ,or the " Cock size"

Lol

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Most guys on here would kill to half half the meets you do.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Can the men on here tell me how it feels on a daily basis to be handsome to the opposite sex and lady’s what does it feel like having sex with a beautifull man "

I've had sex with some physically beautiful men in my time, both men with beautiful bodies and those with faces handsome enough to make people look twice when we've been out in public.

Some of them have been completely amazing in bed. Some have been less amazing. None have been awful or have left me feeling short-changed, and I've enjoyed the time spent with all.

I've not fucked any of them purely because of their looks, just as I'm pretty damn sure none have been with me based on my looks.

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Would be interested in how you define “handsome men”. It’s a very subjective description, and as has been said most women / couples will look for a connection as well as looks.

If you try to compete with other people you will always been disappointed. If you enjoy what you have (and you’ve had a lot of meets) then you’ll be much happier.

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames

We find that we chat with lots of guys and when we set a "club meet" only a small proportion turn up. Each Fab profile has its own style and what we look for is good communication skills, some flirtatious charm and some physical attraction. It is hard due to the pandemic impact. Fewer people appear to be meeting in person. We have delayed our return to play like so many. The key thing is be authentic, candid and clear about what you are desiring. x Anne & George

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"... so you've got an absolute laundry list of meets, and now you're claiming that they're all so *not* "hot and beautiful" that it's "soul destroying" for you.

Wow. I'm sure they're all very flattered that you think so very highly of them.

This doesn't strike me as a great strategy going forward, to be honest. "

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