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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many guys get curious or just want there cocks sucking during middle age. Is it worth looking for straight married/older men to suck off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…"

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much. "

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha "

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit"

I think his response was quite sensible. If a man is straight, how likely is he to want you to suck his dick? Lots do list themselves as straight when they are in fact bi but would you mostly be wasting your time approaching straight men? Who knows.

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By *ackyloveMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Strong point.

Proud to announce I am straight as well.

A label is only a issue when one is embarrassed of it.

If you are proud of your label it's a brand label.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm middle aged and straight but not even slightly curious hence why all men are blocked from contacting me.

It's not about labels but you can't claim to be straight if you are happy to be sucked off by another man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

I think his response was quite sensible. If a man is straight, how likely is he to want you to suck his dick? Lots do list themselves as straight when they are in fact bi but would you mostly be wasting your time approaching straight men? Who knows. "

I'm not asking about labels. Its nothing to do with it. I'm sure there are many men that are 50 years old and never done or even thought about doing anything with another man. Then for whatever reason they get curious and give it ago. But who cares, let's sort out if he's straight or bi first ffs many guys might be bi curious and have struggle even admitting to themselves despite acting on it. But why does everyone else get so wrapped up in what he labels himself publicly as. Who's fucking business is it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's up OP, you're getting a bit angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

I think his response was quite sensible. If a man is straight, how likely is he to want you to suck his dick? Lots do list themselves as straight when they are in fact bi but would you mostly be wasting your time approaching straight men? Who knows.

I'm not asking about labels. Its nothing to do with it. I'm sure there are many men that are 50 years old and never done or even thought about doing anything with another man. Then for whatever reason they get curious and give it ago. But who cares, let's sort out if he's straight or bi first ffs many guys might be bi curious and have struggle even admitting to themselves despite acting on it. But why does everyone else get so wrapped up in what he labels himself publicly as. Who's fucking business is it anyway. "

Babes, are you hungry? You seem a little bit angry this morning

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief."

Not me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone pissed on your chips OP?

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I think what you are referring to is bi curious men. Whether or not you ascribe that particular label to them is up to you but we label things in order to understand them. Straight men are not sexually interested in other men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone pissed on your chips OP? "

Chips are piss wet through

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By *ewcambsguyplusMan
over a year ago

Near Huntingdon


"How many guys get curious or just want there cocks sucking during middle age. Is it worth looking for straight married/older men to suck off ?"

I think the issue might be that he didn’t ask :- “Can we discuss in depth how we label, straight, bi-curious or bi-sexual men”

It’s a swingers site and he’s looking for some cock to suck!

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Have been asked this repeatedly, no interest in it at all. It was explained to me by a gay friend as being a “fetish for some gay men to believe they have turned a straight man” (their words, not mine)

I would think that if a man wants to try it then carry on, I don’t care but it’s simply ridiculous to claim they are straight.

On an unrelated note, anyone know of a female multi millionaire model that want to try a 60 year old very underfunded ugly man?

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke

Straight is straight. Let’s not mess with this label. It spoils it for members who are really straight and have no inclination, curiosity or fantasy to venture to anything that is not straight.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

No need to go searching OP..

They will come to you..

Many so called 'straight' men like their cock sucked, just visit a gay sauna and as a rule, they are overflowing with men who are in hetero relationships, how they label themselves is up to them..

Most of my visitors identify as straight, I don't query that..

Just enjoy it .

It's only rock n roll.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *LAchillesMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"No need to go searching OP..

They will come to you..

Many so called 'straight' men like their cock sucked, just visit a gay sauna and as a rule, they are overflowing with men who are in hetero relationships, how they label themselves is up to them..

Most of my visitors identify as straight, I don't query that..

Just enjoy it .

It's only rock n roll."

I agree with this - the straights who want their cock sucked will come to you. Quite often too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thread closed. Thanks for all your useless input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thread closed. Thanks for all your useless input. "

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to your question - yes plenty of STRAIGHT men do begin to feel curious, after having previously done nothing with men before.

I don’t know why it’s such a double standard on here. It’s acceptable for a woman to do whatever she wants and still say she’s straight. But if a man experiments even once then suddenly he’s closeted according to fab.

But yeah back to your point plenty of men experiment. Even those who are vocal about saving they don’t.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"In answer to your question - yes plenty of STRAIGHT men do begin to feel curious, after having previously done nothing with men before.

I don’t know why it’s such a double standard on here. It’s acceptable for a woman to do whatever she wants and still say she’s straight. But if a man experiments even once then suddenly he’s closeted according to fab.

But yeah back to your point plenty of men experiment. Even those who are vocal about saving they don’t."

It's not a double standard if someone who has never had the slightest inclination or thought about another man calls himself straight. Surely that's allowed. Just like there are a lot of straight women who are expected to be bi by couples and they get a lot of crap when they say they aren't interested. Since when has it been against the rules to say I'm straight and mean it?

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"In answer to your question - yes plenty of STRAIGHT men do begin to feel curious, after having previously done nothing with men before.

I don’t know why it’s such a double standard on here. It’s acceptable for a woman to do whatever she wants and still say she’s straight. But if a man experiments even once then suddenly he’s closeted according to fab.

But yeah back to your point plenty of men experiment. Even those who are vocal about saving they don’t.

It's not a double standard if someone who has never had the slightest inclination or thought about another man calls himself straight. Surely that's allowed. Just like there are a lot of straight women who are expected to be bi by couples and they get a lot of crap when they say they aren't interested. Since when has it been against the rules to say I'm straight and mean it?"

Exactly. And in my quote about straight I meant straight women too.

Straight is straight. Like a peach is a peach and not a nectarine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In answer to your question - yes plenty of STRAIGHT men do begin to feel curious, after having previously done nothing with men before.

I don’t know why it’s such a double standard on here. It’s acceptable for a woman to do whatever she wants and still say she’s straight. But if a man experiments even once then suddenly he’s closeted according to fab.

But yeah back to your point plenty of men experiment. Even those who are vocal about saving they don’t.

It's not a double standard if someone who has never had the slightest inclination or thought about another man calls himself straight. Surely that's allowed. Just like there are a lot of straight women who are expected to be bi by couples and they get a lot of crap when they say they aren't interested. Since when has it been against the rules to say I'm straight and mean it?"

You misunderstood or misread my point. I said it’s a double standard that women don’t get the same criticism for experimenting.

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over a year ago

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I don’t meet straight guys, it’s on my profile. It doesn’t stop them from messaging me though.

These days I feel more pansexual than bisexual but I don’t constantly think about it, it’s my life and I’ll decide what I am, thank you.

You’ll get plenty of straight guys wanting to experiment on here Op, so just maybe afterwards have a chat with a few of them, that may help your research.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"In answer to your question - yes plenty of STRAIGHT men do begin to feel curious, after having previously done nothing with men before.

I don’t know why it’s such a double standard on here. It’s acceptable for a woman to do whatever she wants and still say she’s straight. But if a man experiments even once then suddenly he’s closeted according to fab.

But yeah back to your point plenty of men experiment. Even those who are vocal about saving they don’t.

It's not a double standard if someone who has never had the slightest inclination or thought about another man calls himself straight. Surely that's allowed. Just like there are a lot of straight women who are expected to be bi by couples and they get a lot of crap when they say they aren't interested. Since when has it been against the rules to say I'm straight and mean it?

You misunderstood or misread my point. I said it’s a double standard that women don’t get the same criticism for experimenting."

No but they do get criticism for not experimenting as seems to be the case with the op who doesn't seem to be able to accept that straight middle aged men are more than often exactly that, namely straight and middle aged. He appears to be saying that it's not acceptable and is getting abusive towards anyone who says they are straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many guys get curious or just want there cocks sucking during middle age. Is it worth looking for straight married/older men to suck off ?"

I know a lot of guys in their 30s who'd like to experiment with the same gender....

From what you've seen are they usually older?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha "

Totally

Not a label just a brand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thread closed. Thanks for all your useless input.

Hahaha "

I mean Jesus how fit are you. Shamless forum drooling from me.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"In answer to your question - yes plenty of STRAIGHT men do begin to feel curious, after having previously done nothing with men before.

I don’t know why it’s such a double standard on here. It’s acceptable for a woman to do whatever she wants and still say she’s straight. But if a man experiments even once then suddenly he’s closeted according to fab.

But yeah back to your point plenty of men experiment. Even those who are vocal about saving they don’t.

It's not a double standard if someone who has never had the slightest inclination or thought about another man calls himself straight. Surely that's allowed. Just like there are a lot of straight women who are expected to be bi by couples and they get a lot of crap when they say they aren't interested. Since when has it been against the rules to say I'm straight and mean it?

Exactly. And in my quote about straight I meant straight women too.

Straight is straight. Like a peach is a peach and not a nectarine."

But it's still fruit

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Thread closed. Thanks for all your useless input. "

By useless I'm guessing you mean they didn't agree with you

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

A man puts on a dress regularly he loses 50% of his masculinity.

A guy sucks another guys cock or takes it up the arse, that’s 25-35 % down.

If he only tops and never sucks a cock 15% as he’s not submitting in any way.

Straight guy who only sleeps with women 100% prime beef macho male …women swoon, other men look with pride and he obviously drinks his pints in a straight glass…huzzah !!!

Woman has experience with another woman…100% Woman.

My made up research

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thread closed. Thanks for all your useless input.

By useless I'm guessing you mean they didn't agree with you "

Of course. I'm not here for opposing views. I'm not here for critical evaluation of the topic, but linear agreement that I can go suck straight married mens cock. (All said with a sense of humour)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was clearer to me, when I read your profile....

I'd try the F.Guys site instead....

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don’t like labels why do you have bi curious on your profile? Just doing some market research, would say your more than curious, looking at your verifications , and posts , and are you really an adult? Throwing your dummy out when you don’t get what you want , suggests otherwise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was clearer to me, when I read your profile....

I'd try the F.Guys site instead....

Hope that helps "

Been there done that. Some real dirty bastards on there. Literally dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was clearer to me, when I read your profile....

I'd try the F.Guys site instead....

Hope that helps

Been there done that. Some real dirty bastards on there. Literally dirty"

Hahahaha

I know, the last Bi guy I met was on there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you don’t like labels why do you have bi curious on your profile? Just doing some market research, would say your more than curious, looking at your verifications , and posts , and are you really an adult? Throwing your dummy out when you don’t get what you want , suggests otherwise "

I'm fine with labels. But I don't like others suggesting that another person has to label themselves in a certain way. Look, these are words, there is no tone to them therefore have very little room for interpretation and its personal how you interpret them. Belive me there are no dummies thrown here, just a little sarcastic fed up of nob end posts. Anyway I closed this thread (on my part) why am I still wasting my thumb energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's high time that straight guys had their own pride festival as they now seem to be a minority and almost daily are screaming out that they are 100% straight, not even curious in the slightest yet too many people don't believe or accept it. We need to start listening to them!

With Soooo many straight guys getting their cocks sucked by those that are not female, I think we're overlooking something. They are still straight as getting ones cock sucked in this way now and again is not about sexual attraction and doesn't Warrant adapting a new label or sexual identity. The other straight guys who don't indulge need to be more forgiving towards the ones that do and stop shaming them or excluding them for the straight club and making yourselves 'superior straights' If they fucked a watermelon now and again would this make you more comfortable?

Or would they have to be now called melon-curious?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was clearer to me, when I read your profile....

I'd try the F.Guys site instead....

Hope that helps

Been there done that. Some real dirty bastards on there. Literally dirty

Hahahaha

I know, the last Bi guy I met was on there"

Some decent chaps on there but a general lack of cleanliness is a problem. And the massess openly random barebacking scares me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was clearer to me, when I read your profile....

I'd try the F.Guys site instead....

Hope that helps

Been there done that. Some real dirty bastards on there. Literally dirty

Hahahaha

I know, the last Bi guy I met was on there

Some decent chaps on there but a general lack of cleanliness is a problem. And the massess openly random barebacking scares me. "

Oh that type of dirty lol

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington

Some men who will definitely identify as straight in normal life have realised its easier to get there cock sucked by another guy than it is a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My curiosity definitely increased with age

My attitude of worrying about it decreased at the same time

Til I had my 'fuck it, let's jump' moment

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Im straight and can 100% say i have zero interest in getting my cock sucked by a man.

T

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I need sucking off

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By *-RealMan
over a year ago

South Lincs

I was in a hot tub in a club a few years ago chatting with a couple. The guy challenged me to close my eyes and one of them would suck me off, and he said I bet you won't be able to guess whether it's me or my wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

I think his response was quite sensible. If a man is straight, how likely is he to want you to suck his dick? Lots do list themselves as straight when they are in fact bi but would you mostly be wasting your time approaching straight men? Who knows. "

I agree, it was a sensible response. Also in my view labels are important, you need to accept and understand yourself. The ‘no labels’ brigade are not helping people, keeping them in a state of confusion and denial

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

I think his response was quite sensible. If a man is straight, how likely is he to want you to suck his dick? Lots do list themselves as straight when they are in fact bi but would you mostly be wasting your time approaching straight men? Who knows.

I agree, it was a sensible response. Also in my view labels are important, you need to accept and understand yourself. The ‘no labels’ brigade are not helping people, keeping them in a state of confusion and denial "

OK then so according to half the numpties in this thread. A guy has thoughts about other guys. Never acted on it. But is blocked from women because he now must be bi curious and label himself. Is that fair ? ...And a reply of 'well its her choice' won't do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was in a hot tub in a club a few years ago chatting with a couple. The guy challenged me to close my eyes and one of them would suck me off, and he said I bet you won't be able to guess whether it's me or my wife. "

Well...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men who will definitely identify as straight in normal life have realised its easier to get there cock sucked by another guy than it is a woman "

This is exactly what I'm after. Thank you. These are the guys I want to find. Do we think there are many wandering about ?

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By *ounty durham bbw coupleCouple
over a year ago

darlington


"Some men who will definitely identify as straight in normal life have realised its easier to get there cock sucked by another guy than it is a woman

This is exactly what I'm after. Thank you. These are the guys I want to find. Do we think there are many wandering about ?"
try fab guys if you struggle on here the married guys are more honest about it on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men who will definitely identify as straight in normal life have realised its easier to get there cock sucked by another guy than it is a woman

This is exactly what I'm after. Thank you. These are the guys I want to find. Do we think there are many wandering about ?"

Seems the majority of men are gay, bi, bicurious or straight and open to bjs etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men who will definitely identify as straight in normal life have realised its easier to get there cock sucked by another guy than it is a woman

This is exactly what I'm after. Thank you. These are the guys I want to find. Do we think there are many wandering about ?try fab guys if you struggle on here the married guys are more honest about it on there "

Mostly dirty bastards on there that shower once a week.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

It’s hilarious that if you are straight you are somehow in denial. Wishful thinking by some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit"

What is tedious OP is the amount of men messaging me, offering me a bj when my profile states that I’m straight, then when I put this out they spend hours trying to convince me it will be the best thing ever until I block them. Now that is tedious trust me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some men who will definitely identify as straight in normal life have realised its easier to get there cock sucked by another guy than it is a woman

This is exactly what I'm after. Thank you. These are the guys I want to find. Do we think there are many wandering about ?

Seems the majority of men are gay, bi, bicurious or straight and open to bjs etc"

Exactly. Thank you. My thoughts exactly. But according to the many

whoppers on this thread then they absolutely can't say they are straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

What is tedious OP is the amount of men messaging me, offering me a bj when my profile states that I’m straight, then when I put this out they spend hours trying to convince me it will be the best thing ever until I block them. Now that is tedious trust me"

I bet. I don't do that. At the same time if there profile doesn't state they arnt looking for guys it makes you think why they havnt checked the box.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s hilarious that if you are straight you are somehow in denial. Wishful thinking by some.

"

Exactly. I live quite curiously on here. But my open normal life is very straight. I'm not in denial. I just don't fancy men but love sucking dick and I'd have a hard job explaining that out and about to work colleagues ect

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Bingham

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Jay, you are what you are and I hope you have a lot of fun being you, no question about that, I’m straight and love every second of my choices.

That’s the point isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Jay, you are what you are and I hope you have a lot of fun being you, no question about that, I’m straight and love every second of my choices.

That’s the point isn’t it?

"

Of course. This thread was about seeing how many straight men would get sucked by a guy. Turned into rubbish about labels and shit haha. I'm leaving

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Hope you get some responses by direct message, your type of guy is very unlikely to msg on this thread or their cover would be blown ( no pun intended ??)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a hot tub in a club a few years ago chatting with a couple. The guy challenged me to close my eyes and one of them would suck me off, and he said I bet you won't be able to guess whether it's me or my wife. "

So basically the guy wanted to suck you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a hot tub in a club a few years ago chatting with a couple. The guy challenged me to close my eyes and one of them would suck me off, and he said I bet you won't be able to guess whether it's me or my wife.

So basically the guy wanted to suck you off "

That was obvious, either alone or with his wife but that wasn't the point trying to made here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

I think his response was quite sensible. If a man is straight, how likely is he to want you to suck his dick? Lots do list themselves as straight when they are in fact bi but would you mostly be wasting your time approaching straight men? Who knows.

I agree, it was a sensible response. Also in my view labels are important, you need to accept and understand yourself. The ‘no labels’ brigade are not helping people, keeping them in a state of confusion and denial

OK then so according to half the numpties in this thread. A guy has thoughts about other guys. Never acted on it. But is blocked from women because he now must be bi curious and label himself. Is that fair ? ...And a reply of 'well its her choice' won't do"

Zips mouth

I've been here before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only one answer for the OP.

If profiles stating straight are being propositioned...

Then 'be' straight and see who messages you!

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

I think his response was quite sensible. If a man is straight, how likely is he to want you to suck his dick? Lots do list themselves as straight when they are in fact bi but would you mostly be wasting your time approaching straight men? Who knows.

I agree, it was a sensible response. Also in my view labels are important, you need to accept and understand yourself. The ‘no labels’ brigade are not helping people, keeping them in a state of confusion and denial

OK then so according to half the numpties in this thread. A guy has thoughts about other guys. Never acted on it. But is blocked from women because he now must be bi curious and label himself. Is that fair ? ...And a reply of 'well its her choice' won't do"

With the same logic, a guy who is a virgin (never acted on it) and throughout the day thinks of having sex only with women and is watching porn on the intenet (man and woman) is not straight? What is he then?

Or a guy who has a strong interest in gay porn but never acted is not bi curious?

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

It may disturb some people here but women are entitled to reject guys for any reason they choose, including whether or not they perceive that person to be anything other than straight and regardless of the label(s) the've attached to themselves.

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

As a gay man, I can definitely say that straight men start to bend during middle age, as their female partner loses interest in sex they look elsewhere and for something new, I've lost count of the men I've had sex with that gave told me this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much.

You put the label on them in the first place by referring to them as straight hahaha

I sigh in anguish at the effort it takes to get a normal answer out of people on this site nowadays. Tedious beyond belief. He knows what I'm asking yet hel ignore it and moan about labels and who's technically straight/bi/gay. Do I sound bored of this shit

I think his response was quite sensible. If a man is straight, how likely is he to want you to suck his dick? Lots do list themselves as straight when they are in fact bi but would you mostly be wasting your time approaching straight men? Who knows. "

Thank you. OP, wind your neck in. You asked if it’s worth looking for STRAIGHT married men to suck off. I merely pointed out that they wouldn’t be straight if they were up for it. Even if their profile says otherwise. I’m straight and I’m proud to label myself as much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may disturb some people here but women are entitled to reject guys for any reason they choose, including whether or not they perceive that person to be anything other than straight and regardless of the label(s) the've attached to themselves."

Im sure it disturbs you more to know that half the guys you've had in you have probably lied to you. The likelihood of you only successfully choosing guys that you consider 'straight' are little to none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may disturb some people here but women are entitled to reject guys for any reason they choose, including whether or not they perceive that person to be anything other than straight and regardless of the label(s) the've attached to themselves.

Im sure it disturbs you more to know that half the guys you've had in you have probably lied to you. The likelihood of you only successfully choosing guys that you consider 'straight' are little to none. "

Not sure how true that is. I’ve always wanted a bi boyfriend and have never been successful. My current fwb won’t even let me put my finger in his arse as it’s “gay”. Maybe I’ve been unlucky or maybe most guys who claim to be straight (not on fab) are in fact, straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP have you had contact with the member who posted on the forums recently about finding himself getting sucked off by men and was too shocked to say stop? That was a very entertaining thread too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, can everyone stop getting shot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a bizarre post.. good luck with whatever you want

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

There is a certain group of bi and gay men that simply refuse to accept that plenty of guys really are, and always will be, absolutely straight. Just like there are some guys that want to "turn a lesbian" it is their mission to turn a straight guy. This is not swinging, it's a form of sexual entitlement.

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By *atangMan
over a year ago

bolton

Find older men very attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a certain group of bi and gay men that simply refuse to accept that plenty of guys really are, and always will be, absolutely straight. Just like there are some guys that want to "turn a lesbian" it is their mission to turn a straight guy. This is not swinging, it's a form of sexual entitlement."

Its not about turning anyone it's about going after what you want which we all have the right to do, nobody is not accepting anything and the only entitlement here is hidden beneath your words quite frankly, men persue women that aren't interested in them all the time! Why can't men persue men that aren't interested in them too? The men that do have more luck than the men that persue the women who aren't interested. It's all fair game as far as I'm concerned as long as people can take no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It may disturb some people here but women are entitled to reject guys for any reason they choose, including whether or not they perceive that person to be anything other than straight and regardless of the label(s) the've attached to themselves.

Im sure it disturbs you more to know that half the guys you've had in you have probably lied to you. The likelihood of you only successfully choosing guys that you consider 'straight' are little to none.

Not sure how true that is. I’ve always wanted a bi boyfriend and have never been successful. My current fwb won’t even let me put my finger in his arse as it’s “gay”. Maybe I’ve been unlucky or maybe most guys who claim to be straight (not on fab) are in fact, straight "

Interesting he won't let you do it because it's 'gay' and not because he does/doesn't like it, that's just social conditioning! I think you've made a good point there and it's the guys on fab that are more likely to swing or dabble a little x

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"There is a certain group of bi and gay men that simply refuse to accept that plenty of guys really are, and always will be, absolutely straight. Just like there are some guys that want to "turn a lesbian" it is their mission to turn a straight guy. This is not swinging, it's a form of sexual entitlement."

It is not so much a mission, more like an impossible dream (to turn a straight guy).

To slightly paraphrase Margaret Thatcher‘s famous words

You turn if you want too. The straight man's not for turning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a certain group of bi and gay men that simply refuse to accept that plenty of guys really are, and always will be, absolutely straight. Just like there are some guys that want to "turn a lesbian" it is their mission to turn a straight guy. This is not swinging, it's a form of sexual entitlement.

It is not so much a mission, more like an impossible dream (to turn a straight guy).

To slightly paraphrase Margaret Thatcher‘s famous words

You turn if you want too. The straight man's not for turning."

You're absolutely right I just wish some of these guys weren't so offended or entitled about other guys hitting on them. What's the big deal here? Unless you're not about equality then you shouldn't have an issue.

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By *traight_no_iceMan
over a year ago

Stoke


"There is a certain group of bi and gay men that simply refuse to accept that plenty of guys really are, and always will be, absolutely straight. Just like there are some guys that want to "turn a lesbian" it is their mission to turn a straight guy. This is not swinging, it's a form of sexual entitlement.

It is not so much a mission, more like an impossible dream (to turn a straight guy).

To slightly paraphrase Margaret Thatcher‘s famous words

You turn if you want too. The straight man's not for turning.

You're absolutely right I just wish some of these guys weren't so offended or entitled about other guys hitting on them. What's the big deal here? Unless you're not about equality then you shouldn't have an issue. "

I have no issues with the preferences of each individual. I guess everyone’s reaction depends on his/her personality (and maybe the frequency they are being hit as some lose patience).

But I question the claim that many (real) straight are into stuff that would not be considered straight. Obviously there is a different dimension. Whether they cannot accept it, it is a mystery. If you “enjoy” smoking a cigar a few times a year you are not a regular smoker but you are not a non smoker either. You are an occasional smoker.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"How many guys get curious or just want there cocks sucking during middle age. Is it worth looking for straight married/older men to suck off ?"

OlI'd think the only folk who can answer your question are the straight married/older men who you contact..our opinions thoughts aren't relevant.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"There is a certain group of bi and gay men that simply refuse to accept that plenty of guys really are, and always will be, absolutely straight. Just like there are some guys that want to "turn a lesbian" it is their mission to turn a straight guy. This is not swinging, it's a form of sexual entitlement.

It is not so much a mission, more like an impossible dream (to turn a straight guy).

To slightly paraphrase Margaret Thatcher‘s famous words

You turn if you want too. The straight man's not for turning.

You're absolutely right I just wish some of these guys weren't so offended or entitled about other guys hitting on them. What's the big deal here? Unless you're not about equality then you shouldn't have an issue. "

I'm not offended. I don't get hit on by guys because I have them all blocked so there is no issue there at all.

The only part of the entire argument I'm struggling with is how any man who is genuinely straight, has never had any interest in or thoughts about another man and has therefore nothing to act on, has to justify his sexuality.

It's similar to age preference threads. Couples say they wont meet anyone who is the same age as their kids and that is accepted. I've said exactly the same numerous times and been challenged by other men and a few women with throwaway comments about how I don't have many options at my age so I should be more flexible or that if it was presented to me on a plate I'd take it because that's what men do. I've even been called an outright liar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a certain group of bi and gay men that simply refuse to accept that plenty of guys really are, and always will be, absolutely straight. Just like there are some guys that want to "turn a lesbian" it is their mission to turn a straight guy. This is not swinging, it's a form of sexual entitlement.

It is not so much a mission, more like an impossible dream (to turn a straight guy).

To slightly paraphrase Margaret Thatcher‘s famous words

You turn if you want too. The straight man's not for turning.

You're absolutely right I just wish some of these guys weren't so offended or entitled about other guys hitting on them. What's the big deal here? Unless you're not about equality then you shouldn't have an issue.

I'm not offended. I don't get hit on by guys because I have them all blocked so there is no issue there at all.

The only part of the entire argument I'm struggling with is how any man who is genuinely straight, has never had any interest in or thoughts about another man and has therefore nothing to act on, has to justify his sexuality.

It's similar to age preference threads. Couples say they wont meet anyone who is the same age as their kids and that is accepted. I've said exactly the same numerous times and been challenged by other men and a few women with throwaway comments about how I don't have many options at my age so I should be more flexible or that if it was presented to me on a plate I'd take it because that's what men do. I've even been called an outright liar."

Agree with you 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a certain group of bi and gay men that simply refuse to accept that plenty of guys really are, and always will be, absolutely straight. Just like there are some guys that want to "turn a lesbian" it is their mission to turn a straight guy. This is not swinging, it's a form of sexual entitlement."

Trust me those types of gay and bi men really annoy me, I have challenged so many over this. It is a massive show up for the rest of us who have a grasp of reality and are respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But can I also add I have had a fair share of the straight female equivalents on my case in real life over the years trying to convert me, some of them were pretty intense and even grabbing me downstairs uninvited too.

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely became more curious with age.

Boundaries seem more fluid now

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By *atangMan
over a year ago

bolton

Find older very sexy

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"If you’re a man wanting any form of sexual encounter with another man, then you’re not straight…

Who gives a shit. Why does the label one puts on themselves bother others so much. "

It's not a label but you to understand any doctor would confirm your either bi curious or bi but never heterosexual common knowledge search.

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