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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

Lately we have been feeling incredible inadequate compared to other profiles on here not fishing for compliments but fab feels alot harder since covid and we feel very low on the tier list of couples now or sometimes people message us and we sit there thinking why do they like us the last year or so has completely killed our confidence when it comes to swinging do we just need to take a break or are we just looking into it to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve had a recent meet with a very positive verification- all looks good to me - you look great and come across as a very genuine couple

Keep the faith xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you look great to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabs is a lot harder since covid.

We've had a couple of times we wanted to arrange a meet but couldn't get anyone "pinned down", so to speak. This is also in part because we are only free on very specific evenings. And we're fucking hot (in the opinion of the only people that matter)

Fabs also fucks with people's mental health - all social media does. Social media encourages us to seek external validation - that's what keeps people coming back, keeps people clicking, and keeps the money rolling in. It's like a drug.

Covid has catalysed social media - including the negative parts. Just remember that - and take care of yourselves

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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all 10s x

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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

I think that's the issue for us social media in general is such a highlight reel of everyones life it's very bad for our minds sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever you feel like this OP go back to why you started in the first place. Is it to add something extra? If so then find that happiness with you together. Remove the need and expectations of other people and it will happen. You seem like a really great couple and your photos show how happy you both are.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I think you must be looking into it too much. As a couple you surely have more chance of gaining some chats and meets, even if you take all the idiots out of the equation you will have more chance of finding genuine people than males on the site do. I wouldn't spend too much time trying to compare to other profiles, we are all individuals and trying to be like others is the wrong route, you might have just gone through a flat spot or had a spate of time wasters. This is by far the best site Ive been on for genuine and nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't believe in leagues, no one is too good for anyone els and you knever know who's eye you will catch. That being said lockdown sevearly knocked my confidence as well so I know where your coming from, I've net met anyone from off here in a very long time and have took multiple breaks, even now I'm not sure I'm looking to meet and feel slightly unworthy or something to be here

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Lately we have been feeling incredible inadequate compared to other profiles on here not fishing for compliments but fab feels alot harder since covid and we feel very low on the tier list of couples now or sometimes people message us and we sit there thinking why do they like us the last year or so has completely killed our confidence when it comes to swinging do we just need to take a break or are we just looking into it to much"

Has your confidence been knocked outside of fab too or just on here? Miss pc

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By *ose and her beast OP   Couple
over a year ago

Watford

Thanks guys all things we needed to hear going to try and be a bit more thicker skinned on here thanks for all the good advice and anon I hope you get your confidence back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally understand and relate to the feeling you describe, I’m often left wondering these days what people could possible be interested in me for and as you say I’m sure that the whole cvd thing has a lot to answer for. Just know that you’re not alone in that and ghat it’s very obvious that lots of people (me included btw) think that you both are a stand out couple here

For me it’s because you have great photos of you both which makes a pleasant change. Not only that but what I get from your pictures is that you’d be a really fun couple to know even if it never went anywhere, you’re both look so happy and I love it .

Anyway , I know the thread wasn’t meant as a compliment fishing but I hope all the lovely comments do help you to see the positive and get back to so pre covid confidence levels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like a nice fun couple that people would enjoy your company....dont give up x

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Lately we have been feeling incredible inadequate compared to other profiles on here not fishing for compliments but fab feels alot harder since covid and we feel very low on the tier list of couples now or sometimes people message us and we sit there thinking why do they like us the last year or so has completely killed our confidence when it comes to swinging do we just need to take a break or are we just looking into it to much"

Firstly, relax.

We have also found it harder to get meets, it's basically down to the explosion in Fab users in lockdown divided by the number of people that just want a porn site. Our con fidence hs been knocked too, but we always know that if a meet doesn't happen we have each other.

In short, don't fret, you're not alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have replied privately. But you are defo not alone in what you have put OP. Fab isnt what it once was

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I don't think there are leagues. We are all individuals and have an appeal or not to every1.

I'd suggest if you are wanting to meet now you attend a club and join other like minded swingers. Enjoy the social aspect and don't over think all of this. Just have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think there are leagues. We are all individuals and have an appeal or not to every1.

I'd suggest if you are wanting to meet now you attend a club and join other like minded swingers. Enjoy the social aspect and don't over think all of this. Just have fun x"
comes on now i know when i look at some ladies on here I don't message them because I know they are way out of my league

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"I don't think there are leagues. We are all individuals and have an appeal or not to every1.

I'd suggest if you are wanting to meet now you attend a club and join other like minded swingers. Enjoy the social aspect and don't over think all of this. Just have fun xcomes on now i know when i look at some ladies on here I don't message them because I know they are way out of my league "

That's lack of confidence. Just cause u feel they won't like u doesn't mean that's the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think there are leagues. We are all individuals and have an appeal or not to every1.

I'd suggest if you are wanting to meet now you attend a club and join other like minded swingers. Enjoy the social aspect and don't over think all of this. Just have fun xcomes on now i know when i look at some ladies on here I don't message them because I know they are way out of my league

That's lack of confidence. Just cause u feel they won't like u doesn't mean that's the case"
experience at this stage

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

You seem a stable couple, I say ditch the swinging lark and enjoy each other.

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

Everyone on here is different and everyone is attracted to different things. You cant compare yourself to others as no 2 people are alike.

You look great to us, just enjoy what you're doing and have fun, don't take this site too seriously. We have each other and have been together 25 years, this side is a bit of fun no more. Just chill and have fun.

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