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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys, I was wondering how you guys felt after the first time of seeing your significant other having sex with someone else??

Was it a relief from the thoughts of it that you had beforehand in a positive way or did it create negative feelings?

We are both hoping to watch each other with somebody else, but it's hard to gauge what we will feel until in the moment...

I'd say the idea of it turns us on at the moment, but it is just fantasy for the most part right now...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

It was very hot and turned us both on alot

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It was an absolute turn on. There were no negative feelings at all. It is something you both need to be 100% sure it's what you want to do as you can't undo it.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

There was a thought that "we can't go back and undo this". But in our case it was something my wife told me she wanted long before we got married. And it was something that turned me on. Still is.

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

One of the most stimulating events we had ever experienced; to see her being penetrated vaginally, then cumming, and then both of us DVP'd her, and all three of us came within a few seconds of each other.

Amazing experience to watch her cumming and then again with the two of us stretching her and working together in tandem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was an absolute turn on. There were no negative feelings at all. It is something you both need to be 100% sure it's what you want to do as you can't undo it."

Thank you, guys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of the most stimulating events we had ever experienced; to see her being penetrated vaginally, then cumming, and then both of us DVP'd her, and all three of us came within a few seconds of each other.

Amazing experience to watch her cumming and then again with the two of us stretching her and working together in tandem. "

This is how it feels for me (Heathen) when we talk about it, I have seen her with another guy, just oral though, and there was no ill feeling after that, so all things considered I think it will just be another addition to our memories!

Thank you for your help!

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi guys, I was wondering how you guys felt after the first time of seeing your significant other having sex with someone else??

Was it a relief from the thoughts of it that you had beforehand in a positive way or did it create negative feelings?

We are both hoping to watch each other with somebody else, but it's hard to gauge what we will feel until in the moment...

I'd say the idea of it turns us on at the moment, but it is just fantasy for the most part right now... "

The good thing about it is having these discussions with your partner and knowing that you can try something exciting together and knowing that you can discuss after how things went and that you will make a decision together about whether you want to do it again or not. I think this sense of doing it together must be the best part.

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