FabSwingers.com forum: Vixen - is her preference in another man someone you "prefer" to your partner

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So your wife/GF plays with other men either as a hotwife/vixen/cuckold, if her preference in the male to join is different to her husband/BF does this mean you want to try what you dont have or is this what you fancy more and is it just that you like this style/thing the other male offers? Or do you usually pick someone who is similar to your partner?

For example if you are a tradie, yet she wants to meet a professional who wears a suit is that what she would prefer, or just a fantasy of trying something new?

Or if you are average size body yet she wants to try a gym fit body.

Im sure yoi get the drift.

Ssme applies to the opposite way so men choosing females..

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i pick someone i fancy sexually and think will be good fun .... nobody replaces my hubs in mind or person ... hes my hubs im not looking for those qualities im only looking for sexual hook-up within the scene

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically what foxy says. No one will ever replace hubby but for us we just base it on attraction and them not being an idiot.

I don’t think it matters if they have long hair when my hubby has none or if they wear a suit to work and he doesn’t. Those things don’t even come into it. Same as body types don’t really come into it either.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's possible to appreciate other types of food than your favourite dish but nothing will replace it