FabSwingers.com forum: Staying power....

By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Round 1 - not long (bj preferred)

Rounds 2+ a sundial will probably help.

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

I seem to be able to last between 1 hour and 1 hour and half, And if you don’t believe me ask s9me of my meets.

I always worry more on how long is to long more than is that long enough.

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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

"I seem to be able to last between 1 hour and 1 hour and half, And if you don’t believe me ask s9me of my meets.

I always worry more on how long is to long more than is that long enough. "

I certainly don't disbelive you, I've had previous who last for similar - and you're right, too long isn't always great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say nearer 6 to 7 mins but have been known to go earlier probb4 mins but those times I am hard again quickly to go again

You said be honest

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

"I seem to be able to last between 1 hour and 1 hour and half, And if you don’t believe me ask s9me of my meets.

I always worry more on how long is to long more than is that long enough.

I certainly don't disbelive you, I've had previous who last for similar - and you're right, too long isn't always great x"

I just love edging and have the ability to be able to do it as much as I like ….

So how long is to long. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's around 5 to 15 mins on average.

Also depends on what positions too as I cum quicker in missionary but with cowgirl I could go for around 10/15 mins

Could say gravity might play its part haha

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

I vary quite a bit. 5 to 20 minutes, upto an hour.

Depends on a few things,

Time of day (I struggle to come in the mornings when I first wake up sometimes, for some reason, although I can perform otherwise),

When was the last time I came, Excitement of the encounter (threesome etc),

Level of foreplay etc

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

Anything below 30 seconds is not long enough….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my GF I usually wait as long as we need for her to finish (or get bored

) then I’ll finish. Could be 15 mins or an hour depending what kind of sex we’re having.

With others I have to guess when they’re finished or bored which is harder

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

The Men of Fab are robotic, not only do they have 8"+ cocks, they fuck for hours without getting sore!! Personally, over half an hour and I'm getting my cross stitch

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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

"The Men of Fab are robotic, not only do they have 8"+ cocks, they fuck for hours without getting sore!! Personally, over half an hour and I'm getting my cross stitch

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

5 1/2 to 15mins? Ohh... I thought it would have been much longer.

I actually suffer from delayed ejaculation, which means I'm usually over an hour.

That sounds great (and in some ways it is), but it also comes with the issue that a lot of the time I actually struggle to cum at all and give up.

For me a good day is when I can get it under 30mins.

Annoyingly some women think it's because of them and think all men just cum like machines. So now I have to pre-warn people, and then they think I'm bragging

... and before anyone says it's due to wanking too much, that's not true, as I genuinely do that less than once a month.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

Being diplomatic here; it depends on the friction......

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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

Being diplomatic here; it depends on the friction......

Kop out lol

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By *ungfunfellaMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

I had a similar discussion the other day...I’m honest can be a minute or twenty depends on the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This for me depends on if im wearing a condom or not . With a condom I’d say about 20 minutes to 30 minutes first time .

Without can be 10 to 20 mins first time . The second time is a lottery depending how turned on and horny the sex is .

Also depends on of i have made the lady cum which i always want first , then if she has its my turn and i dont have to hold back

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

My experience varies depending on the situation and circumstance.

I can quite easily last 45 minutes and well past an hour with women im accustom to and in an environment like my bedroom or theirs.

On the flipside to that, ive blown my load in under a couple minutes whilst dogging with a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not clear if the question is how long in each event of penetration or how long over a session. At my age I can only climax once, so make it last as long as I can. My sessions with the couple I meet regularly last about an hour, and I would expect to fuck in three or four different positions with some careful edging before before cumming at the end.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

From start to finish, including foreplay? Or just penetration?

It really varies, I been with guys who've gone from the first kiss to end game in 15/20 minutes. Definitely not long enough!

Then there's the ones that can go for like an hour and a half, take a break, then go again... That's much preferred!

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By *randmrsbigcCouple
over a year ago

North east

I personally love it when we finish together. I'm only going to finish if I'm turned on. If I'm turned on it won't take me long so I don't need a man to last too long, just know what he's doing to make it feel good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it wasn't enough I'd find another way of using him until I did have enough

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By *irtyold manMan
over a year ago

barnsley

Been with two women this aft for three hrs constant fucking and not cum once

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

15, 20,25 & 30 minutes at a push anything over that in a single session is a no from me

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

Being diplomatic here; it depends on the friction......

Kop out lol

Do men last longer in your pussy or your ass?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just weighing in here, my meet this morning was 30mins before I came but there have been times just like most everyone else where its been 10mins to over an hour, its never the same

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Do men last longer in your pussy or your ass?

I've never cum through giving anal, so that gets my vote.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Que the guys that say they can go for hours and hours....

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Right now I will think that I would last about a minute lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depending on my mood and how the bottom half wants to act and whom I'm with several hours I understand some of you will be thinking it's impossible but people I've met even before fab would say what I have ya either got it or haven't

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

Well....if you let me go for a whole 44 seconds I could do you twice.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Depends on the situation. If it's a gb or gg night, short few mins is best, as NEXT please. If theres a que of men, they go off the boil if they wait too long. And gb in our book is more than 3 men. Double figurs at least!

3somes upto an hour, including forplay and me interacting with both men.

Us as a couple, we go with the flow. That's private info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm self-pleasuring I can get off in under five minutes quite easily but with someone else, about 15 minutes is ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All these lucky fellas that last hours I'm normally done before i even get it out my pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can last as long as I want normally. It will depend on many factors.

I let women cum first, multiple times if she can... then is my turn.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

If I’m very horny I can’t last at all couple of minutes So usually round 2 is a lot longer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

Anything below 30 seconds is not long enough…. "

That's ok, I can last long enou....... oh, sorry, doesn't usually happen

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

This really depends on my feelings, mood . If I really like a lady , there is real chemistry I'll cum a lot quicker, say 4 mins I guess ,if it's more casual i take a lot lot longer to cum.....half an hour at least

Generally i get hard again reasonably quickly...and the second time i take longer ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 mins or so for round one. Longer for round two. Longer than that for round three. Round four could go on for ages but I'm going to be puffing dust!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm brutally honest 5-10 minutes depending on many things ie how regular our love making is, if I'm exhausted I tend to run out of steam before I can cum. Hence with us it's plenty of foreplay first so the wife is totally satisfied. X

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

5 mins is that doing it twice..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes me some time to cum and like to vary my speed to make sure the woman has orgasmed first (this is a more important part of sex to me). After that I help myself along so she doesn't get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't believe this but I can usually last as long as I want.

Becky thinks I'm basically a superhero and I'm inclined to agree. Unfortunately, modesty isn't one of my super powers.

Jake

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"You won't believe this but I can usually last as long as I want.

Becky thinks I'm basically a superhero and I'm inclined to agree. Unfortunately, modesty isn't one of my super powers.

Jake "

Dont you run out of puff , or get a stitch I get physically worn out ...I'm no spring chicken but I'm fit ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to be able to last between 1 hour and 1 hour and half, And if you don’t believe me ask s9me of my meets.

I always worry more on how long is to long more than is that long enough. "

Fine work

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"You won't believe this but I can usually last as long as I want.

Becky thinks I'm basically a superhero and I'm inclined to agree. Unfortunately, modesty isn't one of my super powers.

Jake

Dont you run out of puff , or get a stitch I get physically worn out ...I'm no spring chicken but I'm fit .."

Do you wear your underpants outside your trousers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You won't believe this but I can usually last as long as I want.

Becky thinks I'm basically a superhero and I'm inclined to agree. Unfortunately, modesty isn't one of my super powers.

Jake "

Good man Jake, I reckon I’d last 2minutes with your Becky,,,,, WOW

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

It depends on a number of factors, how much sex I’m getting at the time. If I’m not getting much I’ll be more excitable;-)

If I’m in practice then I can basically cum when I want. I normally try to make sure my partner at the time has had enough. Or I might try and time it so that we finish together.

There are things that can be done if I’m feeling too sensitive, stopping to go down on her for a little while is a good one that lets the sensitivity die down a little bit but helps keep her on the boil

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By *oublesixesMan
over a year ago

Corby

Less than average for round 1

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

My hubby lasts about 5-6 mins but have had

guys who last for 20-30 mins.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find if I'm turned on I can cum quite soon, say 5 mins but keep going and hard and eventually cum again maybe 30 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Men of Fab are robotic, not only do they have 8"+ cocks, they fuck for hours without getting sore!! Personally, over half an hour and I'm getting my cross stitch

There all bullshitters you mean. Not even pro pornstars are as good as john from fab......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

I've had multiple partners at the same time, still never cum ....

(that should quieten my inbox now) lol

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

I've had multiple partners at the same time, still never cum ....

(that should quieten my inbox now) lol"

Do you cum with just one partner?

Can you cum on your own, not every woman has loads and loads of climaxes. And that’s perfectly normal for them.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"So me and the other half have been having this conversation today about how long a guy should be able to last when fucking.

Apparently the average is around 5 1/2 minutes, but he can vary between a couple of minutes to 15 mins plus.

So:

Guys, how long do you usually last (be honest!!)

Ladies: how long is not enough

I've had multiple partners at the same time, still never cum ....

(that should quieten my inbox now) lol"

I know some ladies struggle to cum after using a doxy a lot...guess it desensitises thing

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

Coast

You could use me as an egg timer for soft boiled

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Literally seconds which is a lot of the reason I became a sissy.

Can be longer with a lot of booze inside me at the risk of being hero or zero!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call Mr the Duracell bunny… he can go on and on.

Personally it depends on the mood, sometimes fast and furious is the one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies on how turned on I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so honest answer and you can believe it or not.

If I just fuck with the intention of climaxing then I will be done in just a few minutes,

but

I don't fuck with the intention of just climaxing I want everyone to have as much fun as possible so I will hold back until it's under control again and then go again. This way I can get to the point where I almost can't climax but don't have any issues staying hard so can play for hours or until physically too exhausted to continue in which case I like to be ridden.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

"Ok so honest answer and you can believe it or not.

If I just fuck with the intention of climaxing then I will be done in just a few minutes,

but

Gotta agree with you bro.. 5 mins I’d feel I’ve cheated my meets.. so I’m the same.. ease off maybe go back to oral for a bit back on the fuckimg certainly don’t climax until I know my meet is truly satisfied and begging me to cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how horny I've got leading up to it. If I'm wearing a condom then often I can last a while longer but I seem to get really really turned on when I hear or feel the woman being turned on herself. I can literally bring myself to climax at the same time or within a minute before or after my partner.

Without a condom.....you've seen American Pie with Russian lady scene right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of minutes, and if you don't believe me, come and see for yourself!

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have never had any trouble controlling him. I put it down to being circumcised and less sensitive. After an hour or so it becomes quite hard to cum. It takes quite an effort really. But the aim is primarily the lady's pleasure so that is not an problem.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I’m not really interested in sessions that are less than 2 hours. I can control myself for upto 3 hours but that isn’t constant fucking it’s mixing it all up over a good period of time. I like to make sure the lady is spent before I cum

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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

So far we've got a few seconds to 3 hours and one or two who can just not cum at all if they so require.

Interesting so far....

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I usually last until my partner says they've had enough and they want me to finish.

I'm so insensitive that I can go for literally hours. I can't remember the last time a partner outlasted me.

Yes, I know blokes lie about this all the time, but it's a mystery as to why. It's not a good thing. Partners can get frustrated and uncomfortable, and sometimes my knees give out before I'm done.

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By *urvylucy OP Couple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

"I usually last until my partner says they've had enough and they want me to finish.

I'm so insensitive that I can go for literally hours. I can't remember the last time a partner outlasted me.

Yes, I know blokes lie about this all the time, but it's a mystery as to why. It's not a good thing. Partners can get frustrated and uncomfortable, and sometimes my knees give out before I'm done. "

Personally, I'd get frustrated

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I usually last until my partner says they've had enough and they want me to finish.

I'm so insensitive that I can go for literally hours. I can't remember the last time a partner outlasted me.

Yes, I know blokes lie about this all the time, but it's a mystery as to why. It's not a good thing. Partners can get frustrated and uncomfortable, and sometimes my knees give out before I'm done.

Personally, I'd get frustrated "

That's entirely understandable.

Fortunately, my partners all know what I'm like, and we have various ways of managing it. The most usual one is that they enjoy me for as long as they want, and then tell me when they want me to finish up ("I want you to cum now", or similar).

Another is that they tell me in advance how long they want me to go for, either precisely ("Be done in forty minutes") or roughly ("Go as fast and as hard as you can and don't hold back").

As always when it comes to sex and intimacy, clear communication is absolutely key.

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By *2spikeMan
over a year ago

Southsea

It depends on what your up to. Waking up on a morning to a lady by your side and having raw hard sex it's minutes.

Yet having a lady tied to your spanking bench want to fuck several times before finishing.

A quick meet in a public place also sometime required a faster finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can last up to 20 mins, perhaps more. However, if she has been having fun with her lover and Im allowed in, a minute if Im lucky. She looks so wanton and beautiful I can barely control myself.

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Well thankgod 5 to 15 mins is average.im not on my own lol

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

I find the stop watch ticking at the side of her head quite off putting at times

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

As long as I don’t play with Hubbies balls I can work his cock in me for about 20-25minutes… if I am on top and grind it’s game over for him in seconds once the grinding starts xx

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I find the stop watch ticking at the side of her head quite off putting at times "

Conversely, in the right circumstances, it can also be highly motivating. "Cum in [n] minutes or you don't get an orgasm."

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I found learning to edge has been the biggest help to me having self control especially now at my age when I need an hour before I can repeat again. The positive aspect is when I do cum it’s explosive and much more intense for me .

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"I found learning to edge has been the biggest help to me having self control especially now at my age when I need an hour before I can repeat again. The positive aspect is when I do cum it’s explosive and much more intense for me . "

How did you learn to edge may I ask

Thx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you learn to edge may I ask

Thx "

Also interested in how you learn this. Myself it can vary, again it ranges from a couple of mins to around 10 - 15 mins. Depends on the level of arousement and mood, how I try to control it. I'd like to be consistent each time at about 15 mins minimum. That doesn't include foreplay.

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