FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I'm a single male and have wanted to go to a club for a while now, I know most clubs try to refrain from single males attending and fully understand that.

Having never been to a club what Is it like ? What is the atmosphere like, and is it a non pushy non judgement place??

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Non pushy, very social, extremely friendly.

Imagine a normal pub, but instead of everyone being in their own little groups not wanting to interact, everyone is wanting to interact and is welcoming.

Do not go expecting to play though, just go looking to chat and meet lots of nice (semi naked) people.

Play will be a bonus.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Just make sure you talk and be social, rather than trying to grab at people or wank at them.

Those guys are the worst.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wouldn't go thinking something would happen, that's just not me or my personality to assume that.

Just I'm sort of shy and nervous in new environments and meeting new people for the first time.

Would be good to attend with someone who I've chatted to just to ease the nerves a little.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just make sure you talk and be social, rather than trying to grab at people or wank at them.

Those guys are the worst. "

What there are guys that just sit there having a wank ??

I get it's a swingers club but is that not too forward ?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Just make sure you talk and be social, rather than trying to grab at people or wank at them.

Those guys are the worst.

What there are guys that just sit there having a wank ??

I get it's a swingers club but is that not too forward ?"

Yep or follow you round and watch you whilst wanking lol

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I don’t think any clubs refrain from wanting single guys - it’s them that help towards the costs of running the clubs.

The clubs will have nights where single guys aren’t invited but mainly they’ll want single guys to attend.

Clubs are friendly places, the staff will assist you and then it’s down to how you are face to face with people as to how successful you are.

Be polite, courteous, be able to accept no for an answer and you’ll be fine. Clubs are very welcoming.

The hardest part is getting through the door…

But do it and you’ll be fine…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just make sure you talk and be social, rather than trying to grab at people or wank at them.

Those guys are the worst.

What there are guys that just sit there having a wank ??

I get it's a swingers club but is that not too forward ?

Yep or follow you round and watch you whilst wanking lol"

So is that the norm then?

Not shaming anyone or anything that's up to them but surely you have to be more respectful than that.

Wouldn't have the minerals to just follow someone around while having my cock in My hand

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Just make sure you talk and be social, rather than trying to grab at people or wank at them.

Those guys are the worst.

What there are guys that just sit there having a wank ??

I get it's a swingers club but is that not too forward ?

Yep or follow you round and watch you whilst wanking lol

So is that the norm then?

Not shaming anyone or anything that's up to them but surely you have to be more respectful than that.

Wouldn't have the minerals to just follow someone around while having my cock in My hand

No not the norm but it happens. Some spoil it for others sometimes by being too pushy or touching etc but mostly it’s a good experience

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Just make sure you talk and be social, rather than trying to grab at people or wank at them.

Those guys are the worst.

What there are guys that just sit there having a wank ??

I get it's a swingers club but is that not too forward ?"

You usually have a bar area, and a seperated play area.

People sit and chat in the bar, and strip down to underwear to go to the play areas (after this they often come back to the bar dressed down too).

The play areas usually have open sections where you can play with people watching or invite them to join, and rooms where you can shut doors for privacy.

You will see a lot of naked bodies, and people having sex.

Some guys judt wonder around, not talking to anyone and just wank whilst they watch. The wanking dead.

It would be much better for everyone if they joined in the social side and chatted, as that is a big part of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

See they sound amazing and I really want to go, I think it would be an amazing experience.

Just I'm not the most confident guy and the first time going through the door would be nerve-racking.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Just make sure you talk and be social, rather than trying to grab at people or wank at them.

Those guys are the worst.

What there are guys that just sit there having a wank ??

I get it's a swingers club but is that not too forward ?

Yep or follow you round and watch you whilst wanking lol

So is that the norm then?

Not shaming anyone or anything that's up to them but surely you have to be more respectful than that.

Wouldn't have the minerals to just follow someone around while having my cock in My hand

It's a bit like you would expect people to have more respect than to just send out unwanted dick pics to people on here, but they still do.

It's just 'some' people, not most, which is why I was advising you not to. Be one of the respectful guys and you'll have a great time.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"See they sound amazing and I really want to go, I think it would be an amazing experience.

Just I'm not the most confident guy and the first time going through the door would be nerve-racking."

It is. Just make sure you pick the right date that allows single guys and do it.

If you can meet someone first just to guide you in, that will make it easier.

Oh! Also, they get you to put your phone away, so as an unconfident single people, we don't even have that to fall back on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ohh yea I would send a random dick pic either haha.

I'm gonna have to go at one point. So its good to know the do's and don't's

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