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''can i ask you a question''

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

''can i ask you a question''

so im seeing this in my inbox most days now from first time message senders to me ... ..i dont answer them as the last one i did answer came back with a sick question.

so question is do you get these pm's..

do you answer ?

do you delete ?

and to the people who send them why ?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We just answer "you just have".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would delete it is just being lazy and trying to see if you are kind enough to reply.

If you have a question then ask it, but we all know the question would just be deleted so therefore the charade is played by the sender as a chancer

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I get them too

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

I'm sure it gets them more replies, they may be shitty replies but attention is attention. Some people are really desperate for some

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Foxy you post a lot in forums and often speak a lot of sense. I suspect that whilst there are some who want to message something inappropriate in response to your first contact others may well genuinely want your opinion. I would play it by ear and respond or not as you see fit.

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Just block them ,Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"''can i ask you a question''

so im seeing this in my inbox most days now from first time message senders to me ... ..i dont answer them as the last one i did answer came back with a sick question.

so question is do you get these pm's..

do you answer ?

do you delete ?

and to the people who send them why ?"

I'm not even nosey enough to ask...

BLOCK!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had one of those.

I once just got a laughing face after the text saying “just seen your pictures”

That was nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a message like that

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

Just say 'You just did and unfortunately you only get one random question so you have used up your quota.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that a lot, to me it seems like it’s trying to force a response.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, you can't, because nine times out of ten it'll be something for which I need brain bleach

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

With no thought into it asking if they can ask a random question I'd view their profile if it looks interesting then might say yes see if it turns into more than few words

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"We just answer "you just have"."

That's what I say. So many are answered in my profile if they bothered to read it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I say yes what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs has the fastest block button finger in the west when it comes to these! I keep going to view the profile of the message and its blocked cos she beet me too it ha ha

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes many times I used to say of course but now I just delete

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I delete them, I found in the past it's always relating to their cock.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"We just answer "you just have"."

I do this

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Soooo many desperate knobheads trying what they can to get a response thinking that might lead to attraction and a meet.

It’s just like junk mail, it keeps evolving but once the novelty has worn out it eventually gets blurred into the background.

I’d love to reach out to ladies and couples I like the look of but frankly I am drowned out in the noise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave unread.

Delete.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I say you may but I might not answer it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block delete. As already mentioned, it shows a lack of imagination and ...that they haven't read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep! Boring! Mrs x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"We just answer "you just have".

That's what I say. So many are answered in my profile if they bothered to read it"

Ah...the long lost art of reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but this is an instant delete from me these days. It’s so boring and every time I did reply I was always disappointed

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I get them often, I do answer them , even already knowing the question won't be one worth answering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I answer with "nope" and in most cases they reply with "ok".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete them now.

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By *aithi123Man
over a year ago

Navan or Dublin 10

I am in

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I normally start with a How's your day been or how's your week been? I know it's cliche but you find out a lot from that and take the convo in whatever direction they answer. Well, some may answer, some don't. Unless I'm asking the wrong questions

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Nope

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I normally start with a How's your day been or how's your week been? I know it's cliche but you find out a lot from that and take the convo in whatever direction they answer. Well, some may answer, some don't. Unless I'm asking the wrong questions "

off topic but again these question hows your day / week are every other message so i just delete them too

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"''can i ask you a question''

so im seeing this in my inbox most days now from first time message senders to me ... ..i dont answer them as the last one i did answer came back with a sick question.

so question is do you get these pm's..

do you answer ?

do you delete ?

and to the people who send them why ?"

We just answer with a simple 'No'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply “ yes of course “ but block them

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By *onesome swingerMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not that I receive many responses to my messages, but this has been asked only once during my time on here and I did resond "yes"

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We get them! I think the issue is it’s hard to stand out as a single guy, I kinda get it, like the copy and paste message thing they have to say something to start the convo but i agree it’s not very imaginative! What gets my back up when they copy and paste a message which clearly hasn’t read the profile! The ones that really boil my blood are I’ve checked out your profile…. Then says something clearly shows they haven’t!

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

I get messages from women that are not this imaginative:-

Hey hun!

How’s you!

You ok!

Nice cock!

Sooooo lazy ! They must think all guys on fab are so desperate that the merest communication from any form of the opposite sex will have them jumping out there seats.

Shite is not gender exclusive on here ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It usually ends badly. Some of them are gross, others offensive.

I look at the profile, if I was going to respond I do so. If not I just delete

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By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

chinnor area

I’ll answer any question

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

One thing some people forget it's still polite unless you prefer a cock image attached

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By *arol321Woman
over a year ago

Poole

[Removed by poster at 30/09/21 15:25:37]

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I either say no or delete

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By *otsexydannyMan
over a year ago

Norwich (and London)


"No, you can't, because nine times out of ten it'll be something for which I need brain bleach "

Brain bleach!! Haha Love that!!! Thank you Miss Inaswingdress, I think I may pinch that phrase

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I get a lot and I now just delete. I'm not going to beg for a question that, 90% of the time, makes me want to gouge out my eyes.

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