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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve been on this for a little while now and have noticed how we men do struggle to be seen as genuine people, however we don’t get given a chance. Just genuinely looking for fun but not enough woman give a chance as a I understand women are bombarded with messages from guys, they ruin it for the small percentage of genuine guys

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle


"So I’ve been on this for a little while now and have noticed how we men do struggle to be seen as genuine people, however we don’t get given a chance. Just genuinely looking for fun but not enough woman give a chance as a I understand women are bombarded with messages from guys, they ruin it for the small percentage of genuine guys "
Not verified from meets or cam. That's maybe the reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on this for a little while now and have noticed how we men do struggle to be seen as genuine people, however we don’t get given a chance. Just genuinely looking for fun but not enough woman give a chance as a I understand women are bombarded with messages from guys, they ruin it for the small percentage of genuine guys "

Choice plentiful, from a window

Yet the success rate is way higher out in the fìeld.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well women don’t give a chance to verify me? I’m not hiding anything & can prove myself anyhow x

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By *urvyBi-84Man
over a year ago

Lancs

Go to a club or an organised social event, chat to people there and ask if they will verify you.

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By *azylivingMan
over a year ago

random location


"So I’ve been on this for a little while now and have noticed how we men do struggle to be seen as genuine people, however we don’t get given a chance. Just genuinely looking for fun but not enough woman give a chance as a I understand women are bombarded with messages from guys, they ruin it for the small percentage of genuine guys "

Give it time bud. You joined during a pandemic & people are still hesitant to meet in person.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Everyone has problems meeting people they like not just men, as there has to be mutual attraction.

Going out to clubs and socials is a good way of getting verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well women don’t give a chance to verify me? I’m not hiding anything & can prove myself anyhow x"

effort in results in results out, get out there and get verified, club or socail, or try chat rooms, but would recomend meeting prople for real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your username would put me off... Try a social, whether group or 1 on 1... It's always worth an ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for that x

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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat


"So I’ve been on this for a little while now and have noticed how we men do struggle to be seen as genuine people, however we don’t get given a chance. Just genuinely looking for fun but not enough woman give a chance as a I understand women are bombarded with messages from guys, they ruin it for the small percentage of genuine guys "

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Couple of helpful bits.

No face and some no cock pics will often mean zero reply to a message from lots of ladies.

Also limit your interest section a bit.

And you seem to like anything and everything and they may think that's strange.

And yes visit a local swingers club.

Lots of fun and can be a good starter.

T.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Well women don’t give a chance to verify me? I’m not hiding anything & can prove myself anyhow x"

Go to a club.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I have no trouble meeting lady’s and couples if I can do it most should be able to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no trouble meeting lady’s and couples if I can do it most should be able to "

Most don't have a massive donger though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single man (there are 1000's of you here) looking for a single woman (rare on here)

Are you sure a swinging site is the right place?

Wouldn't you be better swiping left and right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well women don’t give a chance to verify me? I’m not hiding anything & can prove myself anyhow x

effort in results in results out, get out there and get verified, club or socail, or try chat rooms, but would recomend meeting prople for real"

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username would put me off... Try a social, whether group or 1 on 1... It's always worth an ask"

Why would his username put you off??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no trouble meeting lady’s and couples if I can do it most should be able to "

Well done fella. Mr formula its working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username would put me off... Try a social, whether group or 1 on 1... It's always worth an ask

Why would his username put you off?? "

It was cock related... He changed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no trouble meeting lady’s and couples if I can do it most should be able to

Most don't have a massive donger though.."

Most women don't want to meet WVE men. I'd rather not a trip to hospital for internal hemorrhaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your username would put me off... Try a social, whether group or 1 on 1... It's always worth an ask

Why would his username put you off??

It was cock related... He changed it"

I agree with you there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on this for a little while now and have noticed how we men do struggle to be seen as genuine people, however we don’t get given a chance. Just genuinely looking for fun but not enough woman give a chance as a I understand women are bombarded with messages from guys, they ruin it for the small percentage of genuine guys "

Not all are bombarded....

So depends upon the ladies filters

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Well women don’t give a chance to verify me? I’m not hiding anything & can prove myself anyhow x"

Really?

I just went into the general cams room, said hello and asked if someone would be kind enough to verify me.

Was verified a few minutes later.

Most I've got are from clubs though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on this for a little while now and have noticed how we men do struggle to be seen as genuine people, however we don’t get given a chance. Just genuinely looking for fun but not enough woman give a chance as a I understand women are bombarded with messages from guys, they ruin it for the small percentage of genuine guys "

why do you think anybody owes you anything ?? nothing is handed on a plate in this scene and as there are zillions of you you have to out compete your same sex fellows .... its also hard for us couples and women as we have to sort thro all the men to find what attracts us to them sexually before finding the other conections

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Get yourself to some socials or clubs OP

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Most of the messages I get are reasonably polite, but if they're not what I'm looking for or obviously haven't read my profile they just get deleted.

You can't blame all the other men for doing the same thing you are as to why you're not getting any interest!

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