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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Can they come a cut my grass then. I hate gardening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can they come a cut my grass then. I hate gardening. "

Haha that shall be my reply next time!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Can they come a cut my grass then. I hate gardening.

Haha that shall be my reply next time!"

Please send them round to me afterwards.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be.. "

Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I prefer to say i just go with flow

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Can they come a cut my grass then. I hate gardening.

Haha that shall be my reply next time!"

Brilliant response

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be.. "

Yes i think that's it - it suggests to me that we're not on the same level in terms of sexual maturity. And by that I'm not dissing anyone who has had limited physical sexual experiences, but there are other ways to explore what you're into.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Just wait till they meet a someone into cannibalism who wants them to dine on their own penis.

Then they'll change their minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wait till they meet a someone into cannibalism who wants them to dine on their own penis.

Then they'll change their minds. "

That's me being more careful who I chat too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "

yep 100% agree totally turn off for us to the point that we will block if on there profile ...will do anything will do anybody is just so desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "

yep 100% agree totally turn off for us to the point that we will block if on there profile ...will do anything will do anybody is just so desperate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last one that said this to me got offered a pile of ironing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "

It's like the ones that want to help a married couple.

I've got loads of jobs need doing round the house if they want to help.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude?

It's like the ones that want to help a married couple.

I've got loads of jobs need doing round the house if they want to help. "

I'll bring my drill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "

Yes it’s a big turn off for me too. Why would a person even want to be “up for anything” ? I don’t get it, and it instantly makes me question their sexual health and standards.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..

Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy. "

What? At the same time?

I see it more on the younger guys profiles. Most of the time it means they dont actually know what they want. Yet.

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "
my opinion exactly

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..

Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy.

What? At the same time?

I see it more on the younger guys profiles. Most of the time it means they dont actually know what they want. Yet. "

On the other hand, maybe they’re just of the mindset of “don’t knock it until you’ve tried it”?

I’m certainly up for *most* things, possibly including things I’ve not even thought of before!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..

Yes i think that's it - it suggests to me that we're not on the same level in terms of sexual maturity. And by that I'm not dissing anyone who has had limited physical sexual experiences, but there are other ways to explore what you're into. "

Just as i see it. I find it mostly on the younger profiles. It tends to mean they dont know what they want, yet. I just prefer they say that and open to new experiences then maybe mention 1 or 2 things. But ill try anything just seems to come across as more "i just wanna get my end away"

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Too me it's laziness if not able to expand in words to describe

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..

Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy.

What? At the same time?

I see it more on the younger guys profiles. Most of the time it means they dont actually know what they want. Yet.

On the other hand, maybe they’re just of the mindset of “don’t knock it until you’ve tried it”?

I’m certainly up for *most* things, possibly including things I’ve not even thought of before! "

Of course! Ive knocked a few "Im never doing that" tings off my list and tried new things id never even thought about before. But i do know i wont try anything once. Like i will never be your human toilet. So for someone to say they have no limits is, well, bollocks.

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By *Ci LutherMan
over a year ago

Cumalot

Think open minded is a better

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I don't think they realise just what " anything" can be..

Suggest a bog-brush and a nappy.

What? At the same time?

I see it more on the younger guys profiles. Most of the time it means they dont actually know what they want. Yet. "

Bless their little cotton socks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude?

It's like the ones that want to help a married couple.

I've got loads of jobs need doing round the house if they want to help.

I'll bring my drill. "

Hope you have a good 12" bit

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude?

It's like the ones that want to help a married couple.

I've got loads of jobs need doing round the house if they want to help.

I'll bring my drill.

Hope you have a good 12" bit "

Hammer time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure I’d find a limit when I bring out the nail gun to fasten their scrotum to a board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting one this OP . I think when asked this i dont want to say to much incase it puts the other person off and they arent into what i am into . Dont want to scare them off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. That and the Sydney University warning. Any of these on a profile turn me off.

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By *dris12345Man
over a year ago

home


"Yes. That and the Sydney University warning. Any of these on a profile turn me off."

Same as ‘fill in later’ or ‘…’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. That and the Sydney University warning. Any of these on a profile turn me off.

Same as ‘fill in later’ or ‘…’"

Also 'Message me to know about me'

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It is when they say "I'll do anything to be able to meet you"

Nobody can be into everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sure I’d find a limit when I bring out the nail gun to fasten their scrotum to a board "

Sods law says it's their kink

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Everyone has limits, some will stretch them and try things once then never again!

CBT is usally where most guys will draw the line, but not all! I know some mistresses that nail things to boards, ouch!!

I dont like recieving any pain, giving it out is fine but only with the willing and with permission etc.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Does anyone else find this a bit of a turn off - when someone says they are "up for anything"? We're very open minded and love fulfilling other people's fantasies as well as our own. But I would much rather meet someone who knows a little, if not a lot, about what they enjoy rather than just a "I'll take whatever I can get" attitude? "

Whys it a take what you can get attitude? If you want something spesific, ask for it. If you're open to suggestions then your up for anything.

Not an issue in my eyes but that's me.

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