FabSwingers.com forum: Questions and Answers in messages Why?

By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

It is so infuriating.

After a first hello so many fabbers Female and Male fail to answer very simple questions asked.

They reply with a dumb one liner.

Why!.

Are there so many people on here too silly to reply too questions.

Am I the only person this is really infuriating to.

I don't care if your grammar is bad or your spelling is not great, as mine is pretty poor lol.

But please chat-talk-answer-reply with more that 1 to 5 words.

Rant over Hehe

Love Fabswing really.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I guess replies would depend on the questions that you are asking.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I won't give erudite or in-depth answers to questions such as "What are you into?" or "What are you looking for?".

What questions do you want answers to?

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By *oldenbrownMan
over a year ago

Sussex

I think it is also about luck, if 10 other people have sent similar questions in the last hour or so, it is sometimes just luck that you are either ignored or get abused for lacking originality.

I guess also I have been contacted before where I am asked about something (maybe something I have posted on one of these threads). You answer with full information and they ask more questions. You ask something back and they either ignore the question or stop chatting and you feel they have just been looking for someone to get them off.

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

Maybe ask questions that require open ended replies, that need more than yes or no answers

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

I'd say the answers to the majority of questions we are asked are already covered in our profile, so when they are asked in a message it shows us that the sender could not be bothered to spend a few minutes reading it. That doesn't really encourage us to give them a reply at all, let alone a lengthy one.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I agree it is very annoying to get messages that are just one word answers like how are we supposed to carry on the conversation after that

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Lol" or just an emoji are never a suitable reply. There's nothing to answer or reply to. I give up trying a conversation at that point.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

When I get a one or two word response I assume they are chatting elsewhere and cannot be bothered to reply properly; so I leave it alone.

It is however annoying when you are trying to sort a meet if they answer like they never read your question.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I think the art of conversation is dying on here.

If they don’t ask us questions after a few messages then we leave it. Conversations have to flow with both asking questions and giving answers.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"I'd say the answers to the majority of questions we are asked are already covered in our profile, so when they are asked in a message it shows us that the sender could not be bothered to spend a few minutes reading it. That doesn't really encourage us to give them a reply at all, let alone a lengthy one.

This.

Which is why we don't feel bad ignoring them.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"I guess replies would depend on the questions that you are asking."

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True but I try to link questions to their area and or profile or likes.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"I won't give erudite or in-depth answers to questions such as "What are you into?" or "What are you looking for?".

What questions do you want answers to?"

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Well tbh

I always try to link questions to their area and or profile which i always read if they have more than 1 line lol.

or there likes.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"I think it is also about luck, if 10 other people have sent similar questions in the last hour or so, it is sometimes just luck that you are either ignored or get abused for lacking originality.

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I get that.

But I always seem to do the nice/chatty friendly inquisitive asks lol.

And one word answers its so

Appaulling.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"Maybe ask questions that require open ended replies, that need more than yes or no answers"

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Oh yeah tried that one.

Just get a

Hello

Hi back ffs

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"I won't give erudite or in-depth answers to questions such as "What are you into?" or "What are you looking for?".

What questions do you want answers to?

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Well tbh

I always try to link questions to their area and or profile which i always read if they have more than 1 line lol.

or there likes.

Maybe your questions are not very interesting OP or are sex related which many women find tedious .

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

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But thats not me

Tbh

I always try to link questions to their area and or profile which i always read in full if they have more than 1 line lol.

And will ask things relating to there profile info.

I so often think why did I bother.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"I agree it is very annoying to get messages that are just one word answers like how are we supposed to carry on the conversation after that"

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Thanx.

You two seem real nice.

But I read your profile and although your close to me it say I think.

NO SINGLE GUYS

So did not message.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

""Lol" or just an emoji are never a suitable reply. There's nothing to answer or reply to. I give up trying a conversation at that point. "

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Me to but its so frustrating grrrreeee.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"When I get a one or two word response I assume they are chatting elsewhere and cannot be bothered to reply properly; so I leave it alone.

It is however annoying when you are trying to sort a meet if they answer like they never read your question.

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Bottom part.

So true and happens so many times ffs.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"I think the art of conversation is dying on here.

If they don’t ask us questions after a few messages then we leave it. Conversations have to flow with both asking questions and giving answers.

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Take up lip reading.

Seriously thought.

Your profile is fab and detailed so I would ask lots of questions and address both of you.

Like.

Hello can I be the lucky one please.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"I won't give erudite or in-depth answers to questions such as "What are you into?" or "What are you looking for?".

What questions do you want answers to?

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Well tbh

I always try to link questions to their area and or profile which i always read if they have more than 1 line lol.

or there likes.

Maybe your questions are not very interesting OP or are sex related which many women find tedious . "

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Thanx for reply.

I seriously try and be really interesting.

And never Sex related on a first message 100% not my style.

For a bit of fun im gonna send you my typical nice message now if your profile allows me to.

Tell me how I do in a 1/10 please.

Terry

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I view the message interaction as an important part of my filtering process and appreciate that I can end the interest and investment very quickly.

If they prove that they are not really engaging with me and my needs, it's a quick goodbye.

As I say often, most people are not compatible with most other people. Communication is a staple part of my engagement with others.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I've had men ask me questions and once I've sent a reply I get more questions one after another....no conversation just question after question.

I felt like I was being interviewed. There's a difference between a question to start a conversation and an interrogation.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Are the questions

'Hi how are you'

Or 'wanna fuck'

Both only require an easy one word answer, two max

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"I view the message interaction as an important part of my filtering process and appreciate that I can end the interest and investment very quickly.

If they prove that they are not really engaging with me and my needs, it's a quick goodbye.

As I say often, most people are not compatible with most other people. Communication is a staple part of my engagement with others. "

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I agree.

Ps.

Very interesting profile.

I was gonna message you.

But shame I'm not younger with a big dick.

I am lots of fun though and love sex.

Shall we?

Terry.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"I've had men ask me questions and once I've sent a reply I get more questions one after another....no conversation just question after question.

I felt like I was being interviewed. There's a difference between a question to start a conversation and an interrogation. "

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I get that and totally agree.

I try my best to mix it up and make it fun and conversational as well.

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By *igT-Time-4-Fun OP Man
over a year ago

BEDFORDSHIRE areas SOCIAL or fun let's chat

"Are the questions

'Hi how are you'

Or 'wanna fuck'

Both only require an easy one word answer, two max "

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100% not.

Not my style.

Anybody who does that on here seriously needs to move to a sex chat line lol

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