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"I absolutely love kissing. I find it such a turn on. Never understood the "no kissing" rule some have." mines Not a rule... but I rarely kiss and it can make me feel very uncomfortable | |||
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"So just out of curiosity how much do you enjoy kissing on a meet ? Are you one who doesn't like it ? Asking as a couple that I meet have certain stipulations, condoms ( thats a given anyway ) no anal ( not that into it so okay ) and finally you can't kiss her ! I enjoy playing with them but have found it a little more detached than with others I have played with. And yes I know I will probably get asked " how can it be detached if you've got your cock in her ? " well I don't know, I just love kissing on a meet, looking into someone's eyes as you play and kissing them just feels so much better. I know some people say it as they find it too intimate. So just wondering does anyone else find it changes the dynamic and if so for the better or worse ?" I always use condoms and never kiss at clubs/gang bangs or meets. | |||
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"I absolutely love kissing. I find it such a turn on. Never understood the "no kissing" rule some have. mines not a rule... but I rarely kiss and it can make me feel very uncomfortable " That's totally understandable. I meant when its put in the same category as no pain, pee or poo comments. | |||
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"I absolutely love kissing. I find it such a turn on. Never understood the "no kissing" rule some have. mines not a rule... but I rarely kiss and it can make me feel very uncomfortable That's totally understandable. I meant when its put in the same category as no pain, pee or poo comments. " see for me it is the same It's a sexual preference, same as those that dont like oral..or cum or anything. However I've noticed kissing seems to be the one that people really dont get.... or seem to think makes it cold and clinical. | |||
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"Kissing is a huge turn on for me like going down on someone both get me very excited and I like to feel connected with the person even if it is just for that one of meet makes it much more intense if you don’t kiss it cheapens the act " In what way does it cheapen it? | |||
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"Kissing is a huge turn on for me like going down on someone both get me very excited and I like to feel connected with the person even if it is just for that one of meet makes it much more intense if you don’t kiss it cheapens the act In what way does it cheapen it?" I dont get the cheapen comment either I'm always told how passionate and sensual I am when its 121 yet rarely kiss. | |||
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"It’s a key component for me, I want the intimacy in meets, not just the mechanics, kissing is a huge turn on and even if some meets were just kissing and cuddling/touching, that would be better than sex without kissing." I'm with you on that one too | |||
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"So just out of curiosity how much do you enjoy kissing on a meet ? Are you one who doesn't like it ? Asking as a couple that I meet have certain stipulations, condoms ( thats a given anyway ) no anal ( not that into it so okay ) and finally you can't kiss her ! I enjoy playing with them but have found it a little more detached than with others I have played with. And yes I know I will probably get asked " how can it be detached if you've got your cock in her ? " well I don't know, I just love kissing on a meet, looking into someone's eyes as you play and kissing them just feels so much better. I know some people say it as they find it too intimate. So just wondering does anyone else find it changes the dynamic and if so for the better or worse ?" I must admit, I never really understand the "no kissing" stipulation, but each to their own, I suppose. | |||
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"It’s a key component for me, I want the intimacy in meets, not just the mechanics, kissing is a huge turn on and even if some meets were just kissing and cuddling/touching, that would be better than sex without kissing." Yes, exactly this ^^ It’s like eating a roast dinner without any gravy | |||
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"Yes yes yes for me. Soft and sensual, passionate and lusty, sexy and horny! All part of a glorious meet " Mmmmmmmmmmm | |||
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"Took time to go through all posts here, was interested as it was about kissing. There are so many people who keep the kissing as personal, and I think that may be due to many reasons, understanding in a couple, hygiene and many more...so it is actually personal preference and we all have to respect that. If it comes to us, we love kissing and that makes us feel close to them, energise our passion, enhance the sex and definitely tuns us on than anything else. Recently we kissed in a group everybody into everybody, it was in no time we realised whom we really wanted to have more and who really wanting us...so yes we love it xxx" Totally agree | |||
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"When I meet on a swinging date i do like to kiss the lady as that immediately tells us both how good things will be. Without kissing things seem a bit clinical" If you think that's bad - wait until she pulls out a clipboard. | |||
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"For me kissing is only for people I have an emotional connection with. " This, 100% agree | |||
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"I was at an orgy in Cupid’s club years ago I was licking an oriental girls pussy while she sucked my cock Afterwards I cam up for a kiss on her mouth and she said “no kiss So weird." Not weird - a choice. There are probably lots of things you would choose not to do. I don't like kissing guys I play with because I associate kissing with romance and I swing for pure sex not romance. On the other hand I love kissing other women but that isn't associated with romance because although I'm definitely bisexual I wouldn't have a romantic relationship with a woman. Interestingly in all the time we have been swinging I can't think of a single guy who has even tried to kiss me, let alone been disappointed because I didn't kiss him. | |||
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"I absolutely love kissing. I find it such a turn on. Never understood the "no kissing" rule some have." ----- To Me. kissing its a must. So nice. Guarantee a stiff hard on. | |||
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"Intimacy is a major component for us ,or else feels like detached and machine . No fun in fucking . Kissing also makes you feel you own that moment ,it's all yours . If it's just fucking then we have each other anyway ." Quite right. Just how I feel | |||
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"For me sex without kissing is like driving with the handbrake on, you are still going to get to your destination, but something doesn't quite feel right!!! " And after a while, it starts to smell like burning | |||
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"For me sex without kissing is like driving with the handbrake on, you are still going to get to your destination, but something doesn't quite feel right!!! And after a while, it starts to smell like burning " ROFL that me laugh | |||
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"Deal breaker. No kiss, no meet. " Same here sloppy kissing is out and out foreplay xxxx | |||
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"Me and my partner are new to actually wanting to share eachother but strangly sex with others we see as "fun" and to the point of what we are wanting. Kissing however we see more intimate, passionate, love, all of which we have with eachother and dont want to cross the boundary with my partner with another man that theirs intimacy or passionate sex as its just fulfilling our fantasy ratger than having an intimate relationship " You don't have to justify the way you do things. People will insist that kissing is vital and that they won't meet those of us who don't kiss and that it ther right. By the same token it's your right to say you don't want to kiss and won't meet people who do. | |||
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"Why oh why is kissing not on ones interests list on here ??? This thread shows its popularity for couples fems and guys. Fabguys does include it though" We note on our profile that we don't kiss. It does rather depend on people reading it though | |||
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"Kissing is such a turn on for me, it's part of sex just like oral or any other kind of foreplay " it is part of sex but it is also a part of sex that isnt always required. Not everyone wants foreplay or kissing | |||
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"I couldn't not kiss, I could just spend ages in bed just kissing with the right person." See this is it exactly, I could also just lay there, kissing. Someone with their head on my chest and legs entwined as I hold them close. Especially after playing, those moments afterwards are amazing. | |||
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