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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

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By *ereFlix75Man
over a year ago

Hitchin

never really stop to think the difference; i only ever done what I thought was a MFM, being a couple plus me. what would MMF be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know the difference but would love to.

Assume one brings in a bi element?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I say MMF is bi men and MFM is straight men. Correct me if I am wrong.

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Bingham


"I say MMF is bi men and MFM is straight men. Correct me if I am wrong."

You are correct.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

Well personally I’d love an MMF (I’m assuming that’s the one where I get to suck cock?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"never really stop to think the difference; i only ever done what I thought was a MFM, being a couple plus me. what would MMF be?"

MMF = 2 bi men who + 1 woman

MFM = 2 straight men + 1 woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mfm is both men play only with the female mmf means all play.am mfm only.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio. "

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters.

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By *ogerroger69Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

I’m being educated here.....I’m a MMF man in that case!

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By *areToShareCouple
over a year ago

Bingham


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters."

That's not what the OP commented about though is it?

The OP commented about MMF or MFM...threesome with 2 males and a female. You're talking about a completely different arrangement.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mfm is when the lady only gets the attention

Mmf is when everyone gets involved

I think the mmf would be more fun?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters.

That's not what the OP commented about though is it?

The OP commented about MMF or MFM...threesome with 2 males and a female. You're talking about a completely different arrangement. "
.

But the premise holds.

What about mmff or mfmf.

I think some people take these things too far and whilst I might be aware of the convention because of erotic story writing, we can't assume all swingers are aware of this.

We have to remember there is no such thing as the world swinging police to enforce such rules or conventions, so I would hope that people discuss their likes and dislikes before playing and not rely on a few letters.

Also surely having bi on your profile helps far more?

I thought the mmmmf was a good point.

Maybe for erotic writing the convention would need to be

Mfm+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say MMF is bi men and MFM is straight men. Correct me if I am wrong."

I'd say this as well. Just as FFM would be the bi woman version

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By *notherGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Somewhere

I think FMM should be used more, then you know who’s boss.

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By *ereFlix75Man
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Mfm is when the lady only gets the attention

Mmf is when everyone gets involved

I think the mmf would be more fun?"

definitely more fun

I only done one mmf but would love both respecting boundaries

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

How about FMm or MFm

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters."

Isn't more than a threesome a orgy though, so no letters required

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what is MFMmmmmm

One straight bloke and several bi?

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By *notherGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Somewhere


"How about FMm or MFm"

Oh that’s even better. Very clear, I like.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters.

That's not what the OP commented about though is it?

The OP commented about MMF or MFM...threesome with 2 males and a female. You're talking about a completely different arrangement. .

But the premise holds.

What about mmff or mfmf.

I think some people take these things too far and whilst I might be aware of the convention because of erotic story writing, we can't assume all swingers are aware of this.

We have to remember there is no such thing as the world swinging police to enforce such rules or conventions, so I would hope that people discuss their likes and dislikes before playing and not rely on a few letters.

Also surely having bi on your profile helps far more?

I thought the mmmmf was a good point.

Maybe for erotic writing the convention would need to be

Mfm+"

Surely people just use their words to clarify what they are looking for? In the same way as seeing if / how compatible people are... Does everything need to be crystallised down to acronyms?

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I say MMF is bi men and MFM is straight men. Correct me if I am wrong."

Correct.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters.

That's not what the OP commented about though is it?

The OP commented about MMF or MFM...threesome with 2 males and a female. You're talking about a completely different arrangement. .

But the premise holds.

What about mmff or mfmf.

I think some people take these things too far and whilst I might be aware of the convention because of erotic story writing, we can't assume all swingers are aware of this.

We have to remember there is no such thing as the world swinging police to enforce such rules or conventions, so I would hope that people discuss their likes and dislikes before playing and not rely on a few letters.

Also surely having bi on your profile helps far more?

I thought the mmmmf was a good point.

Maybe for erotic writing the convention would need to be

Mfm+

Surely people just use their words to clarify what they are looking for? In the same way as seeing if / how compatible people are... Does everything need to be crystallised down to acronyms? "

Wtfn?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I've always seen it as mfm is without any interaction between the guys. Mmf is with it.. I dont want mmf

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

To be honest I've never realised there was a difference.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters.

That's not what the OP commented about though is it?

The OP commented about MMF or MFM...threesome with 2 males and a female. You're talking about a completely different arrangement. .

But the premise holds.

What about mmff or mfmf.

I think some people take these things too far and whilst I might be aware of the convention because of erotic story writing, we can't assume all swingers are aware of this.

We have to remember there is no such thing as the world swinging police to enforce such rules or conventions, so I would hope that people discuss their likes and dislikes before playing and not rely on a few letters.

Also surely having bi on your profile helps far more?

I thought the mmmmf was a good point.

Maybe for erotic writing the convention would need to be

Mfm+

Surely people just use their words to clarify what they are looking for? In the same way as seeing if / how compatible people are... Does everything need to be crystallised down to acronyms?

Wtfn?

"

I was just agreeing with you.... I think.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I say MMF is bi men and MFM is straight men. Correct me if I am wrong."

The letters don't need to denote sexuality, as bi guys can fulfill MFM etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say MMF is bi men and MFM is straight men. Correct me if I am wrong.

The letters don't need to denote sexuality, as bi guys can fulfill MFM etc"

They can, but for me, mmf would be when the men also play together, and mfm they don’t.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters.

That's not what the OP commented about though is it?

The OP commented about MMF or MFM...threesome with 2 males and a female. You're talking about a completely different arrangement. .

But the premise holds.

What about mmff or mfmf.

I think some people take these things too far and whilst I might be aware of the convention because of erotic story writing, we can't assume all swingers are aware of this.

We have to remember there is no such thing as the world swinging police to enforce such rules or conventions, so I would hope that people discuss their likes and dislikes before playing and not rely on a few letters.

Also surely having bi on your profile helps far more?

I thought the mmmmf was a good point.

Maybe for erotic writing the convention would need to be

Mfm+

Surely people just use their words to clarify what they are looking for? In the same way as seeing if / how compatible people are... Does everything need to be crystallised down to acronyms?

Wtfn?

I was just agreeing with you.... I think. "

I know I was being silly but could not think of an acronym to cover than.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio. "

Yeah that sequence is definitely important lol

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Despite swinging since late 90s (Mr) and being straight and having had loads of 2 men 1 woman scenarios as both a single guy originally and as a couple with Mrs B, I had honestly never thought about this until recently.

I had always described it as MMF but I can now see how that can imply a bi male scenario so MFM is a better acronym.

Trouble is that all falls apart with multiple males! I mean is a MMMF or MMMMF a bi or straight male scenario?

It shouldn’t really matter as long as people read profiles, are honest and, you know, talk about things in advance!

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio.

I adamantly deny it because I enjoy multiple men, all of whom play straight and if the order of the letters was important I couldn't write MMMF or MMMMF. A threesome or moresome is defined by what the players have agreed not by the order of the letters.

That's not what the OP commented about though is it?

The OP commented about MMF or MFM...threesome with 2 males and a female. You're talking about a completely different arrangement. .

But the premise holds.

What about mmff or mfmf.

I think some people take these things too far and whilst I might be aware of the convention because of erotic story writing, we can't assume all swingers are aware of this.

We have to remember there is no such thing as the world swinging police to enforce such rules or conventions, so I would hope that people discuss their likes and dislikes before playing and not rely on a few letters.

Also surely having bi on your profile helps far more?

I thought the mmmmf was a good point.

Maybe for erotic writing the convention would need to be

Mfm+

Surely people just use their words to clarify what they are looking for? In the same way as seeing if / how compatible people are... Does everything need to be crystallised down to acronyms?

Wtfn?

I was just agreeing with you.... I think.

I know I was being silly but could not think of an acronym to cover than. "

Ohhhh there I was looking up urban dictionary to see what format a wtfn was.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Despite swinging since late 90s (Mr) and being straight and having had loads of 2 men 1 woman scenarios as both a single guy originally and as a couple with Mrs B, I had honestly never thought about this until recently.

I had always described it as MMF but I can now see how that can imply a bi male scenario so MFM is a better acronym.

Trouble is that all falls apart with multiple males! I mean is a MMMF or MMMMF a bi or straight male scenario?

It shouldn’t really matter as long as people read profiles, are honest and, you know, talk about things in advance!"

Exactly, why not just add the word “bi” in front so that it’s completely unambiguous?

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton


"How about FMm or MFm"

Hmmm but you could then argue the M is a “bull” and the “m” is a cuckold?

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By *ornyandachingCouple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I luv sucking hubby blindfolded while another man takes me… and then later feeling hubby reclaim me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always gone on the letter sequence being MMF - two bi men, MFM two straight men and same for FFM and FMF…

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I'm not sure how the order can really mean anything as it's too inconsistent.

So MMF. If that is bi men and a woman, how would you represent a bi man, a gay man and a women?

Also, how do you write 3 straight males and a female?

It's best not to assume anything based on a string of letters, but actually communicate.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I was in a FMF but it ended as a FFM

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"never really stop to think the difference; i only ever done what I thought was a MFM, being a couple plus me. what would MMF be?"

MMF implies there's a male in the middle being the center of attention

MFM is the lady being the center of attention

Or at least that's how I've always understood it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do some people adamantly deny there's a difference between MFM & MMF??? The order of those sequences are extremely important & are 2 totally different scenarios. Especially if including it in your bio. "

Bit like a spelling mistake really,like where,were and we're ,or too two and to

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Who really gives a monkeys which way the letters are arranged? Its either a threesome or moresome, thats why being honest and having bi or straight on your profile as a guy or woman is a much better indication of whats being arranged or asked for. As there are so many straight guys who are really bi anyway on here in couples and singles too.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"I'm not sure how the order can really mean anything as it's too inconsistent.

So MMF. If that is bi men and a woman, how would you represent a bi man, a gay man and a women?

Also, how do you write 3 straight males and a female?

It's best not to assume anything based on a string of letters, but actually communicate. "

I'm going with

MF(Mx2)

Don't forget to carry the 1.

Lol

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

As a community of friendly, open minded folk, some do seem to get a bit stressed about labels. Imagine we got as excited about a bacon cheese burger or is it a bacon burger with cheese, or a burger with bacon and cheese... Or.. BBC, BCB, B.bc

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"As a community of friendly, open minded folk, some do seem to get a bit stressed about labels. Imagine we got as excited about a bacon cheese burger or is it a bacon burger with cheese, or a burger with bacon and cheese... Or.. BBC, BCB, B.bc "

At least you left off the gurkins.

Ew

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"As a community of friendly, open minded folk, some do seem to get a bit stressed about labels. Imagine we got as excited about a bacon cheese burger or is it a bacon burger with cheese, or a burger with bacon and cheese... Or.. BBC, BCB, B.bc

At least you left off the gurkins.

Ew"

For that comment, I've had to remove you from my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS!

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

To me MFM is where the man is the centre of attention and is tagged.

MMF is where the males are happily to play together, possibly with one being bi-friendly or bicurious.

Love MMF especially with an alpha hubby who wants someone to clean up and to orally pleasure his lady whilst they are making love

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By *iking SoftiesCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"FFS!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MFM always better for lady to get totally spoiled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a community of friendly, open minded folk, some do seem to get a bit stressed about labels. Imagine we got as excited about a bacon cheese burger or is it a bacon burger with cheese, or a burger with bacon and cheese... Or.. BBC, BCB, B.bc "

Pmsl

Genius!

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By *rMrsRichCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouh

Too many acronyms! Having to google all these different variations to try and find out what I am and what I’m into

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

Is it asking too much that everyone actually write OUT what they want instead of reducing their sexual desires to an alphabet soup of f*ckery that clearly has led to more miscommunication?

And while there are plenty on here that do know what these acronyms are, there are many that don't.

If you can't be bothered to read my profile to find out what I am into, then I'll be MIA.

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"As a community of friendly, open minded folk, some do seem to get a bit stressed about labels. Imagine we got as excited about a bacon cheese burger or is it a bacon burger with cheese, or a burger with bacon and cheese... Or.. BBC, BCB, B.bc "

And whilst we’re at it, are zebras white with black stripes or black with white stripes?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"As a community of friendly, open minded folk, some do seem to get a bit stressed about labels. Imagine we got as excited about a bacon cheese burger or is it a bacon burger with cheese, or a burger with bacon and cheese... Or.. BBC, BCB, B.bc

And whilst we’re at it, are zebras white with black stripes or black with white stripes?"

I wonder if zebras have a preference for BBWC or BWBC.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I like a mmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just been to B&Q, they've got MDF, PVA, LEDs and some enormous tools.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To me MFM is where the man is the centre of attention and is tagged.

MMF is where the males are happily to play together, possibly with one being bi-friendly or bicurious.

Love MMF especially with an alpha hubby who wants someone to clean up and to orally pleasure his lady whilst they are making love"

Ammmmmmmmmmmmmm for me an MFM isn't where Quote - "the man is the centre of attention" that to me would be an FMF. Hence the M is in the middle of the acronym with both males playing only with her.

Some other funny comments here... yea for me I'm just been precise with the order sequence of the acronym

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

*Head spins in confusion*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To me MFM is where the man is the centre of attention and is tagged.

MMF is where the males are happily to play together, possibly with one being bi-friendly or bicurious.

Love MMF especially with an alpha hubby who wants someone to clean up and to orally pleasure his lady whilst they are making love

Ammmmmmmmmmmmmm for me an MFM isn't where Quote - "the man is the centre of attention" that to me would be an FMF. Hence the M is in the middle of the acronym with both males playing only with her.

Some other funny comments here... yea for me I'm just been precise with the order sequence of the acronym"

I've just notice I've made a typo on thread title...it should read... MFM versus MMF not MFM versus MFM ... I've obsviously MFM on the brain

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think a lot of people don’t think about it in that detail.

Let me add 2 of my favourites ! Mfm, fMf

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By *irldnCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We have enjoyed a few MMFMM but sometimes we can’t find guy number 4 so have to cancel as MMFM might be a nasty shock to one of the straight guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just been to B&Q, they've got MDF, PVA, LEDs and some enormous tools. "

Should that not be Q&B

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

seems some people are pedantic about their labels.

Labels are so restrictive.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Who really gives a monkeys which way the letters are arranged? Its either a threesome or moresome, thats why being honest and having bi or straight on your profile as a guy or woman is a much better indication of whats being arranged or asked for. As there are so many straight guys who are really bi anyway on here in couples and singles too. "

It’s very important , that you all understand what experience you are consenting to and what role each person plays and where to the boundaries are on control particularly within D/s dynamics.

Maybe for a random bi-pile / free for all it doesn’t matter so much though , but threesomes in my experience aren’t like that so the acronyms are really useful

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