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I also really dislike the term ‘greedy girls’
The word ‘greedy’ has a real negative connotation for me.
I’m all for parties for ladies who like to play hard and enjoy themselves and events can provide the suitable ratios for that to be facilitated. I’m also all for parties where larger women can feel more comfortable and desired but I’m not sure why the two should be combined.
Be interesting to read peoples’ thoughts.
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"I agree with your observations and thoughts, OP. I personally think they should be two distinct parties but there does seem to be an increasingly common cross-over. As far as I’m aware, there is no correlation between BMI and how many cocks you can take in one night
I also really dislike the term ‘greedy girls’
The word ‘greedy’ has a real negative connotation for me.
I’m all for parties for ladies who like to play hard and enjoy themselves and events can provide the suitable ratios for that to be facilitated. I’m also all for parties where larger women can feel more comfortable and desired but I’m not sure why the two should be combined.
Be interesting to read peoples’ thoughts.
"Same here, I think the 2 should be kept separate and the ‘greedy girl’ label is horrid, especially when tagged on with the BBW label. Make me feel like Bruce Bogtrotter | |||
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"Before I even read the op thread I already had it in my head " why are bbw classed as greedy girls? ) I know quite a few average, skinny, curvy and all other descriptions of women who enjoy having lots of men in a session." Yes I don’t see the correlation. I don’t think they’re related at all. | |||
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"We stopped going to bbw events because too many men treat it like they're in a brothel. I've heard the phrase 'I've paid my money so can do what I want' more than once! I must add not all men are like that but it only takes a handful to ruin the night. Do they think larger ladies are desperate ffs? " Notice you're regulars at Chams..and so are we, we love their BBW events. Never have we had any issue there with guys. We've been to other clubs where guys assume BBW night is the same as a greedy girl event..hence we don't go there again...even though said club is literally 10 minutes from us. Sorry to hear that you won't go to these events based on bad previous experiences  | |||
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"We stopped going to bbw events because too many men treat it like they're in a brothel. I've heard the phrase 'I've paid my money so can do what I want' more than once! I must add not all men are like that but it only takes a handful to ruin the night. Do they think larger ladies are desperate ffs? " I do think that are decent, respectful guys who are genuinely attracted to bigger ladies. But I also think there is a feeling amongst some men on Fab that bigger ladies aren’t as attractive and so will be more likely to take anything that they can get and be grateful for it. I think linking the BBW and greedy girl nights perpetuates that myth. | |||
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"We stopped going to bbw events because too many men treat it like they're in a brothel. I've heard the phrase 'I've paid my money so can do what I want' more than once! I must add not all men are like that but it only takes a handful to ruin the night. Do they think larger ladies are desperate ffs? Notice you're regulars at Chams..and so are we, we love their BBW events. Never have we had any issue there with guys. We've been to other clubs where guys assume BBW night is the same as a greedy girl event..hence we don't go there again...even though said club is literally 10 minutes from us. Sorry to hear that you won't go to these events based on bad previous experiences "I’ve been to Chams BBW night once and it was great. Definitely not one of the parties where there’s a feeling of the men expecting greedy girls. | |||
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"I think they are lumped together wrongly or rightly because the events are normally advertised by bbws. I'm more concerned that someone feels they can help themselves even on a greedy girl night where the hell has respect gone. Before anyone starts I dont think all bbw are greedy girls I was just pointing out the advertising issue. I think if a club promotes those nights as well does it become a personal choice to stay away." Definitely a lack of manners from some guys. It’s awful. It’s definitely a choice to stay away | |||
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"We stopped going to bbw events because too many men treat it like they're in a brothel. I've heard the phrase 'I've paid my money so can do what I want' more than once! I must add not all men are like that but it only takes a handful to ruin the night. Do they think larger ladies are desperate ffs? Notice you're regulars at Chams..and so are we, we love their BBW events. Never have we had any issue there with guys. We've been to other clubs where guys assume BBW night is the same as a greedy girl event..hence we don't go there again...even though said club is literally 10 minutes from us. Sorry to hear that you won't go to these events based on bad previous experiences
I’ve been to Chams BBW night once and it was great. Definitely not one of the parties where there’s a feeling of the men expecting greedy girls. "They're great events 
Next one is 24th October if you're thinking of going..we have a room booked..as usual..lol | |||
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"I think they are lumped together wrongly or rightly because the events are normally advertised by bbws. I'm more concerned that someone feels they can help themselves even on a greedy girl night where the hell has respect gone. Before anyone starts I dont think all bbw are greedy girls I was just pointing out the advertising issue. I think if a club promotes those nights as well does it become a personal choice to stay away." I'd agree with you about the fact that girls should feel that if it's a greedy girl night that gents will help themselves. It certainly shouldn't happen and luckily for me it doesn't. I'm a greedy girl and a big girl. However its nothing to do with my size.. in fact I know more slimmer greedy girls than I do bigger ladies. I do think that events for greedy girls should be kept separate just because it's not everyone's cup of tea x | |||
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"We stopped going to bbw events because too many men treat it like they're in a brothel. I've heard the phrase 'I've paid my money so can do what I want' more than once! I must add not all men are like that but it only takes a handful to ruin the night. Do they think larger ladies are desperate ffs? Notice you're regulars at Chams..and so are we, we love their BBW events. Never have we had any issue there with guys. We've been to other clubs where guys assume BBW night is the same as a greedy girl event..hence we don't go there again...even though said club is literally 10 minutes from us. Sorry to hear that you won't go to these events based on bad previous experiences "Absolutely agree that Chams is always excellent but it is purely marketed as a BBW event and in no way crosses over to advertising itself as a greedy girl event…thankfully! I’m a curvy girl and I enjoy going to BBW events but I wouldn’t attend an exclusively ‘greedy girls’ party - I just don’t see the appeal, for me personally. Perhaps a little odd as I certainly have moments of being what most people would consider to be greedy! The way I see it, I can be greedy at any party…without the preconceived ideas. I’ve been to parties advertised as both and personally haven’t had too much of an issue but it always does baffle me why the two are combined. | |||
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"I think they are lumped together wrongly or rightly because the events are normally advertised by bbws. I'm more concerned that someone feels they can help themselves even on a greedy girl night where the hell has respect gone. Before anyone starts I dont think all bbw are greedy girls I was just pointing out the advertising issue. I think if a club promotes those nights as well does it become a personal choice to stay away. I'd agree with you about the fact that girls should feel that if it's a greedy girl night that gents will help themselves. It certainly shouldn't happen and luckily for me it doesn't. I'm a greedy girl and a big girl. However its nothing to do with my size.. in fact I know more slimmer greedy girls than I do bigger ladies. I do think that events for greedy girls should be kept separate just because it's not everyone's cup of tea x " Yes I don’t see the correlation. A greedy girl event is fairly niche isn’t it? Zero to do with body weight. | |||
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"We stopped going to bbw events because too many men treat it like they're in a brothel. I've heard the phrase 'I've paid my money so can do what I want' more than once! I must add not all men are like that but it only takes a handful to ruin the night. Do they think larger ladies are desperate ffs? Notice you're regulars at Chams..and so are we, we love their BBW events. Never have we had any issue there with guys. We've been to other clubs where guys assume BBW night is the same as a greedy girl event..hence we don't go there again...even though said club is literally 10 minutes from us. Sorry to hear that you won't go to these events based on bad previous experiences
Absolutely agree that Chams is always excellent but it is purely marketed as a BBW event and in no way crosses over to advertising itself as a greedy girl event…thankfully!
I’m a curvy girl and I enjoy going to BBW events but I wouldn’t attend an exclusively ‘greedy girls’ party - I just don’t see the appeal, for me personally. Perhaps a little odd as I certainly have moments of being what most people would consider to be greedy! The way I see it, I can be greedy at any party…without the preconceived ideas.
I’ve been to parties advertised as both and personally haven’t had too much of an issue but it always does baffle me why the two are combined. "Yeah you can be as greedy as you like anywhere, can’t you? | |||
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"Following on from comments made on another thread and conversations had with friends recently I wondered what people’s thoughts were on the mixing of a BBW and Greedy Girl party night. It seems that they’re increasingly being lumped together, with common opinion appearing to be that BBW girls like to play in a ‘Greedy’ way. There’s a BBW/Greedy Girl night in my local club which I no longer go to because I don’t like the type of men the Greedy Girl label attracts. Too many times I’ve been playing in an open room and a man has come in and helped himself to me or a friend without asking. I assume it’s because they think we’re happy to take on all comers because we’re at a greedy girl night. It’s not how I like to play at all though, so it’s put me off. It’s a shame because as a bigger woman I prefer to go to a party where there are more likely to be people there that find my curves attractive; that’s why the BBW parties appeal to me. Do BBW’s have a reputation for being Greedy Girls? Why do you think these 2 categories have been lumped together like this? " I realise you're quite a way away, but might be worth you checking out Dangerous Curves, which takes place at Liberty Elite. Its about to restart on the 22nd of October and there's a thread in the clubs. Nix and Dan who organise it are really great and the kind of people who go are classy and respectful, so might he what you're after. Just a thought. X X | |||
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"I agree with your observations and thoughts, OP. I personally think they should be two distinct parties but there does seem to be an increasingly common cross-over. As far as I’m aware, there is no correlation between BMI and how many cocks you can take in one night
I also really dislike the term ‘greedy girls’
The word ‘greedy’ has a real negative connotation for me.
I’m all for parties for ladies who like to play hard and enjoy themselves and events can provide the suitable ratios for that to be facilitated. I’m also all for parties where larger women can feel more comfortable and desired but I’m not sure why the two should be combined.
Be interesting to read peoples’ thoughts.
"I agree wholeheartedly regards the term ‘greedy girl’. It’s really not seen in a positive light for me even though i would probably fit into the greedy girl mould I would by no means see it as complimentary! | |||
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"Following on from comments made on another thread and conversations had with friends recently I wondered what people’s thoughts were on the mixing of a BBW and Greedy Girl party night. It seems that they’re increasingly being lumped together, with common opinion appearing to be that BBW girls like to play in a ‘Greedy’ way. There’s a BBW/Greedy Girl night in my local club which I no longer go to because I don’t like the type of men the Greedy Girl label attracts. Too many times I’ve been playing in an open room and a man has come in and helped himself to me or a friend without asking. I assume it’s because they think we’re happy to take on all comers because we’re at a greedy girl night. It’s not how I like to play at all though, so it’s put me off. It’s a shame because as a bigger woman I prefer to go to a party where there are more likely to be people there that find my curves attractive; that’s why the BBW parties appeal to me. Do BBW’s have a reputation for being Greedy Girls? Why do you think these 2 categories have been lumped together like this? I realise you're quite a way away, but might be worth you checking out Dangerous Curves, which takes place at Liberty Elite. Its about to restart on the 22nd of October and there's a thread in the clubs. Nix and Dan who organise it are really great and the kind of people who go are classy and respectful, so might he what you're after. Just a thought. X X" I’ve been to Dark Desires at Libs and it’s a great place. All the parties I know that happen they’re are good quality. Maybe I’ll check it out | |||
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