FabSwingers.com forum: Finding love on Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey all, hope none of you have the kind of hangover I’ve got this morning!

But have been thinking recently about the chances of me finding someone that would love me for me I.e. can accept my femme side, can accept an open relationship but still have the other perks from a traditional relationship.

Anyone up for sharing any experiences? Thanks x

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my girlfriend on here. We've been together five utterly delightful years.

We have a relationship full of love, kinks, fun and laughter.

I'm also very happily and lovingly married and have wonderful FWBs too. Fab has been great for me.

It all works well in an own poly setting and ultimately comes down to lots of honesty and communication.

I've posted something similar on other threads this morning about this, but fab does a great job of enabling people with similar life choices and goals the opportunity to interact with eachother. That's all it is.

I think there's a tendency to treat it as some kind of loyalty card scheme.. Stay and you'll get laid..

But Fab is populated by real people with real emotions and needs and desires. There's absolutely chances for strong connections and love.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met my girlfriend on here. We've been together five utterly delightful years.

We have a relationship full of love, kinks, fun and laughter.

I'm also very happily and lovingly married and have wonderful FWBs too. Fab has been great for me.

It all works well in an own poly setting and ultimately comes down to lots of honesty and communication.

I think there's a tendency to treat it as some kind of loyalty card scheme.. Stay and you'll get laid..

But Fab is populated by real people with real emotions and needs and desires. There's absolutely chances for strong connections and love. "

Thanks for sharing your experience/view. Sounds like it’s all worked out for you which is great!

Agree that some people seem to view fab almost like a game, but sad really. Think I need to get myself to some clubs x